
Psychotherapy Central
A place to learn about love, attachment and healing from trauma. Jen is a licensed psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer with over 18 years of experience working with love, attachment and trauma. Join me to discover, learn and grow together to heal and create intimate, thriving relationships.
Latest episodes

Jun 10, 2024 • 21min
Ep 32 Do You Worry Too Much About Your Children?
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In this episode of Psychotherapy Central your host, Jennifer Nurick, dives deep into a topic that resonates with every parent: worrying about our children. We all experience it, but when does normal concern cross the line into excessive worry? Jen explores this important question, providing insights and practical strategies to help you manage your worries.
Highlights:
In this episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick delves into the topic of worrying about our children, a concern familiar to every parent. Jen explains the nature of worry, emphasizing that it is a natural part of parenting, but also explores how Western culture often sends mixed messages about parental worry, suggesting that excessive concern can indicate unhealthy attachment. She helps listeners identify the signs of excessive worry and offers practical strategies for managing it.
The episode also provides you with a free Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) worksheet designed to help parents effectively work through their worries. Tune in to gain valuable insights and tools to prevent worry from becoming overwhelming. Also, remember to check out the free CBT worksheet linked below.
Connect with Us:
If you have any questions or topics you’d like us to cover in future episodes, please reach out to us on social media or through our website. Remember, you’re not alone in your worries. We’re all in this together.
Resources:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Worksheet: 5 Steps to Help Managing Parental Worry
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/5-Steps-to-Help-Manage-Parental-Worry
Extra Resources:
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
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Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
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May 26, 2024 • 17min
EP 31 Understanding Avoidant Attachment Behaviours
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When you possess an avoidant attachment style, you might find that your voice grows louder in moments of distress, and you may become critical or demanding. This tendency can often lead you to focus predominantly on the negatives within your relationship, making it difficult to recognize positive aspects unless the relationship ends. Interestingly, these behaviors are often subconscious strategies aimed at creating a sense of safety, yet they can inadvertently distance you from your partner. This may leave you questioning why you react so and wondering if something is fundamentally wrong with you. It's important to understand that there is nothing wrong with you. Your behaviors are adaptations from your childhood experiences, which can be addressed and healed. If you ever feel perplexed by your actions and reactions, I encourage you to listen to this episode. Enjoy! Jen
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of attachment theory, listen to Episode 1.
EP1 - Five Things You Need to Know About Attachment Theory https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/podcasts/psychotherapy-central/episodes/2148037195
To learn more about the basics of avoidant attachment, listen to Episode 2.
EP 2 - Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/podcasts/psychotherapy-central/episodes/2148041419
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

May 16, 2024 • 12min
EP 30 Understanding Anxious Attachment Behaviours
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When you possess an anxious attachment style, you might find that your voice grows louder in moments of distress, and you may become critical or demanding. This tendency can often lead you to focus predominantly on the negatives within your relationship, making it difficult to recognize positive aspects unless the relationship ends. Interestingly, these behaviors are often subconscious strategies aimed at creating a sense of safety, yet they can inadvertently distance you from your partner. This may leave you questioning why you react so and wondering if something is fundamentally wrong with you. It's important to understand that there is nothing wrong with you. Your behaviors are adaptations from your childhood experiences, which can be addressed and healed. If you ever feel perplexed by your actions and reactions, I encourage you to listen to this episode.
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of anxious attachment, listen to Episode 3.
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

May 11, 2024 • 17min
EP 29 The Mindset of Secure Attachment
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Discover the transformative power of secure attachment in our latest podcast episode, "The Mindset of Secure Attachment." Hosted by Jennifer Nurick, a seasoned psychotherapist. This episode delves into how developing a secure attachment can significantly enhance your relationships and self-awareness.
This episode explores five key aspects of secure attachment. Jennifer provides in-depth analysis and practical advice on cultivating these traits in your life, explaining how they lead to more stable, reliable connections and a healthier, more positive self-image.
Listeners will learn how secure attachment allows for self-reliance and meaningful closeness with others, helps manage and express emotions constructively, and encourages a reflective mindset that embraces growth and learning from mistakes.
This episode is not only insightful but also offers practical benefits that can improve your interpersonal relationships and personal development. Whether you want to deepen your connections or enhance your emotional intelligence, "The Mindset of Secure Attachment" provides valuable guidance and support.
Tune in to build more satisfying and resilient relationships and enhance your journey towards personal fulfilment. Connect with Jennifer on Instagram for personalised advice and insights. Let's grow together in understanding and implementing the principles of secure attachment.
Enjoy the show!
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of attachment, listen to my earlier episodes:
Ep 1: 5 Things You Need to Know About Attachment Theory
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623522185
EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
EP 4 Disorganized Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000624299907
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

Apr 16, 2024 • 21min
EP 28 How to Heal Your Anxious Attachment
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In this episode, we discuss my new book ‘Heal Your Anxious Attachment’ and break down the work of building ‘Earned Secure Attachment’ into two vital parts:
Building INNER secure attachment and OUTER secure attachment.
Jen is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist and Energetic Healer. She practices online from her home in Sydney, Australia and is licenced to practice globally.
Resources
BOOK: Heal Your Anxious Attachment - US LINK | AU LINK
Extra Resources
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

Apr 9, 2024 • 18min
EP 27 How Do You Know When to Let Go of a Relationship?
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Have you ever experienced the confusion and struggle of not knowing whether you should stay or leave a relationship? You might have two parts. One who wants to stay and might see the good in your partner or be afraid of being alone or scared about the future. And another part that wants to leave and might feel there are irresolvable differences and might not see a future with this person or want to go off on a solo adventure. When these two parts pull in the opposite direction, with one shouting ‘Stay!’ and the other shouting ‘Go!’, it can feel like you are in your own personal hell.
In this episode, we cover 7 indicators that it might be time to let go of your relationship
Jen is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist and Energetic Healer. She practices online from her home in Sydney, Australia.
Resources
Domestic Violence Helplines:
1800 737 732 in Australia
NCADV on 1-800-799-7233 in the USA.
Book a one-on-one or couple counselling session:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Extra Resources
Get a copy of My Book, Heal Your Anxious Attachment - US LINK | AU LINK
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral

Mar 14, 2024 • 45min
Ep 26 The Scientifically Proven Method for Achieving Your Goals
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In today’s episode, Jen interviews Joanna Grover, LCSW, and Jonathan Rhodes, PhD, Co-Authors of The Choice Point: The Scientifically Proven Method for Achieving Your Goals – a groundbreaking guide set to transform lives, one choice at a time through Functional Imagery Training, FIT.
FIT can improve our decision-making and communication skills, lessen stress, increase sleep, and create a deeper sense of purpose and belonging. Jo and Jon have used FIT to train Olympic athletes, special military forces, and top CEOs around the globe.
Joanna was the first person in the U.S. to be trained in FIT, and Jonathan is a co-developer. In this episode, we cover;
What FIT is
Why multi-sensory imagery is more than just visualization
How to conduct a mental reset in less than a minute
A demo of an abridged version of the Choice Point methodology
How the use of cues can focus your attention and improve your performance
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Resources:
Jonathan Rhodes, PhD, is a Chartered Psychologist (British Psychological Society) and a published researcher and lecturer specializing in cognitive psychology. After working with athletes at the 2012 Olympic Games, Jonathan decided to research strategies that change mindset, train individual and cultural resilience, and enhance performance. Ten years later, Jonathan concluded that imagery is the most effective way to achieve individual and team goals. To get to this conclusion, Jonathan helped develop FIT by teaching individuals how to master their imagination, subsequently raising the performance levels of athletes who went on to compete at the Olympic Games, in Premiership football and rugby, and with a multitude of athletes competing in other sports such as with Red Bull Cliff Divers, and America’s Cup sailors. In 2019, Jonathan partnered with the British Army to develop the British Army Commando Resilience Training Program, which has increased recruits passing the All-Arms Commando Course by 44 percent. He lives in Plymouth, UK.
Joanna Grover, LCSW, is an executive coach with nineteen years of experience as a cognitive behavioral therapist specializing in anxiety. She first encountered FIT when it helped her recover from a horse-riding accident. After witnessing this strategy's effectiveness in a client’s weight loss journey, she felt even more committed to the work. She subsequently became the first person in the US to be certified in FIT. Since 2019, Jo has used FIT mainly in an individual context, where she’s worked with top leaders at the US Department of Commerce, Olympic athletes, and C-suite executions at corporations such as Citi, IBM, and KPMG. She is a board-certified coach and member of the International Coaching Federation and the Harvard Institute of Coaching. Joanna lives in Miami, FL.
These are the links for Jon's Instagram and LinkedIn:
https://www.instagram.com/rhodespsychology
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-rhodes-phd
These are the links for Joanna's instagram and LinkedIn:
https://www.instagram.com/jogrover2.0
https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanna-grover-lcsw-730a1852
These are the links for the Imagery Coaching Instagram and LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/imagerycoaching
https://www.linkedin.com/company/imagerycoaching
Extra Resources:
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/
Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
Visit my website: www.psychotherapycentral.health

Feb 3, 2024 • 17min
Ep 25 9 Tips for Dating When You Are Avoidantly Attached
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When you are avoidantly attached, dating can feel like a complete minefield. You might have had people tell you that you are aloof, a closed book, secretive or not open to a relationship, even when you would like a relationship more than anything else.
Moving into deeper intimacy can feel terrifying, whether you acknowledge it and are aware of it or not. Often, it is part of your subconscious that blocks intimacy before you have any conscious say in the matter. This can be incredibly frustrating and painful for you and your partner. It can be a confusing time.
In this episode, Jen discusses the four factors that make dating difficult for the avoidantly attached and her 9 top tips for dating when you have an avoidant attachment adaptation.
Resources:
To learn more about avoidant and anxious adaptions - listen to Episodes 2 and 3.
EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
Extra Resources
Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick
Attachment by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
Visit my website: www.psychotherapycentral.health

Dec 19, 2023 • 13min
Ep 24 Six Tips for Dating Someone with Anxious Attachment
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You suspect (or have been told by your partner) that you are dating someone who is anxiously attached. You are growing in love for them, and want to be close to them, but it feels difficult.
You are wondering if there are any tips or things to remember as you move into more vulnerability and connection with this beautiful person. You are in the right place.
In this episode, Jen will help you know if you are dating someone with anxious attachment and then give you her six top tips for moving into deeper intimacy.
Enjoy! Jen
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Resources:
Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick
To learn more about avoidant and anxious adaptions - listen to Episodes 2 and 3:
EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Extra Resources
Attachment by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
Park, Y., Johnson, M. D., MacDonald, G., & Impett, E. A. (2019). Perceiving gratitude from a romantic partner predicts decreases in attachment anxiety. Developmental Psychology, 55(12), 2692–2700. https://doi.org/10.1037/dev0000830
FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/
Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
Visit my website: www.psychotherapycentral.health

Nov 28, 2023 • 23min
Ep 23 Seven Tips for Dating when you are Anxiously attached
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When you are anxiously attached, the dating phase of a relationship can be painful, triggering and confusing. It is often difficult to know if your gut feelings of anxiety are real and valid, or if it is your anxious attachment patterns causing your inner alarm bells to go off for no reason. It can be a really confusing time.
In this episode, Jen discusses the 4 factors that make dating difficult for the anxiously attached and her 7 top tips for dating when you have an anxious attachment adaptation.
Enjoy! Jen
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Resources
Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick
To learn more about avoidant and anxious adaptions - listen to Episodes 2 and 3.
EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
Extra Resources
FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/
Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
Visit my website: www.psychotherapycentral.health
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