

Psychotherapy Central
Jennifer Nurick
A place to learn about love, attachment and healing from trauma. Jen is a licensed psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer with over 18 years of experience working with love, attachment and trauma. Join me to discover, learn and grow together to heal and create intimate, thriving relationships.
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Oct 18, 2024 • 1h 5min
Ep 38 Conscious Leadership: Self-Awareness and Transformation
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In this insightful episode of Psychotherapy Central, Jennifer Nurick welcomes Sue McDonnell, a seasoned psychotherapist and executive coach, to explore the profound connections between leadership and self-awareness. Sue shares her extensive experience working with executive teams and senior leaders, highlighting how conscious leadership can transform organizational dynamics and foster meaningful change.
Throughout the conversation, Sue delves into the concept of the leadership shadow, emphasizing the significant impact leaders have through their thoughts, words, and actions. She distinguishes between executive coaching and traditional psychotherapy, explaining how coaching focuses on outcome-driven goals and incorporates feedback from multiple stakeholders to enhance accountability and growth.
Listeners will gain valuable insights into Sue’s intuitive approach to coaching, which blends various therapeutic tools to meet the unique needs of each client. The episode also touches on the importance of vulnerability and authentic connection in leadership, the challenges of balancing personal and professional growth, and strategies for overcoming loneliness in today’s fast-paced world.
Sue and Jennifer discuss the lasting effects of COVID-19 on interpersonal relationships and the critical need for community and co-regulation to combat isolation. They explore practical tips for offering and receiving compassionate feedback, managing internal and external self-awareness, and cultivating a supportive environment both personally and professionally.
Whether you’re a leader seeking to enhance your self-awareness or someone interested in the intersection of psychotherapy and executive coaching, this episode offers profound wisdom and actionable strategies to foster transformation and build stronger, more empathetic relationships.
Key Takeaways:
The impact of leadership behavior on team dynamics and organizational culture.
Differences and complementary aspects of executive coaching versus psychotherapy.
The importance of clear, kind, and compassionate feedback in personal and professional growth.
Strategies for overcoming loneliness and building meaningful community connections.
Balancing continuous personal development with professional responsibilities.
Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how conscious leadership and self-awareness can drive meaningful change within yourself and your organization.
References:
Books:
Lost Connections by Johann Hari: This book discusses the broader social and cultural factors contributing to depression, offering a perspective beyond the traditional medical model.
Works by Esther Perel: Mentioned in the context of relationships and transitions within marriages, particularly her insights on long-term partnerships and evolving dynamics.
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker: valuable resource on the importance of community and creating meaningful gatherings
Websites and Concepts:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sue-mcdonnell-91b5983/ - For more information on Sue's work with executive teams and leaders.
Thomas Hübl: Referenced for his expression “I’m feeling you feeling me,” highlighting the importance of attunement and connection in therapeutic work.
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Sep 24, 2024 • 9min
EP 37 Dissociation Through the Lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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Join host Jennifer Nurick, a clinical psychotherapist, as she delves into the topic of dissociation from the perspective of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. This episode of Psychotherapy Central offers a deep dive into how dissociation can be understood and approached using the IFS model, providing valuable insights for therapists, clients, and anyone interested in the dynamics of psychological healing.
In this episode we cover the following:
Understanding Dissociation: Gain a foundational understanding of dissociation, including its symptoms and triggers, and why it occurs as a psychological defense mechanism.
Introduction to IFS: Learn about the Internal Family Systems therapy model, its core concepts, and how it differentiates between various parts within an individual.
Dissociation in IFS: Explore how dissociation is viewed within the IFS framework, focusing on the roles of protective parts and exiled parts in the dissociative process.
Healing Strategies: Discover the steps involved in healing dissociation using IFS, including building trust within the internal system, negotiating with protective parts, and helping exiled parts to unburden.
Practical Example: A case study illustrating the application of IFS in treating dissociative episodes, showing the therapeutic journey and the gradual integration of parts.
Featured Concepts:
The Self: The core of IFS therapy, representing the compassionate, curious, calm, and connected leader within. You can hear more about the ‘Self’ in IFS in Ep 7 - The Central Role of the “Self’ in IFS Therapy.
Managers and Firefighters: Protective parts in IFS that manage everyday functioning and respond to immediate threats, respectively. Ep. 8 Exiles, Managers and Firefighters in IFS Therapy.
Exiles: Parts that carry traumatic memories or intense emotions, often leading to dissociation when activated. Ep. 8 Exiles, Managers and Firefighters in IFS Therapy.
This episode is particularly beneficial for those working in mental health, those experiencing dissociative symptoms, and anyone looking to understand more about innovative approaches to psychotherapy.
Additional Resources:
Ep 5 - What is IFS Therapy?
Ep 6 - Six things you Need to Know About ‘Parts’ from an IFS Perspective
Ep 10 - Healing Trauma with Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)
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I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
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Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
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Sep 9, 2024 • 8min
EP 36 Understanding Dissociation - A Basic Introduction
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In this insightful episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick dives deep into the often misunderstood phenomenon of dissociation. This episode is particularly useful for professionals in the mental health field, individuals experiencing dissociation, and anyone interested in psychological phenomena.
What You Will Learn:
Definition and Mechanics of Dissociation
Triggers and Causes of Dissociation
Symptoms of Dissociation
First Steps Towards Help
For Our Listeners: If you recognize signs of dissociation in yourself or others, reaching out for professional help is recommended. Understanding dissociation deeply can be the first step toward healing and developing healthier coping mechanisms.
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Jul 7, 2024 • 34min
EP 35 Unlocking Relationship Patterns: The Pursuer-Withdrawer Dynamic with Dr. Amanda Ferguson
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In this enlightening episode of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, host Jennifer Nurick welcomes Dr. Amanda Ferguson, a registered psychologist and clinical hypnotherapist with over 32 years of experience. They delve into the pursuer-withdrawer pattern in relationships, a dynamic that can significantly impact relationship satisfaction and longevity. Dr. Ferguson shares her journey into psychology and hypnotherapy, offering deep insights into how these modalities can aid in self-discovery and healing. The discussion covers practical strategies for recognizing and addressing the pursuer-withdrawer pattern, the importance of active listening, and the value of seeking help early in a relationship. Jennifer and Amanda also explore how respecting and nurturing the foundational elements of respect and friendship can strengthen intimate relationships.
Referenced Books and Websites:
Life Works: Rediscover Yourself and Transform Your Relationships by Dr. Amanda Ferguson
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
Mom’s House, Dad’s House by Isolina Ricci
Dr. Amanda Ferguson's website
Psych for Life podcast with Dr. Amanda Ferguson
Follow Psychotherapy Central:
Website: psychotherapycentral.health
Instagram: @psychotherapycentral
Facebook: Psychotherapy Central
Youtube: @psychotherapycentral
Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast
Offerings:
One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here
Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here
Online Courses: Explore our courses here
Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here
Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle
Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family.

Jun 24, 2024 • 51min
Ep 34 Embracing a Brave New You with Cory Allen
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Welcome back to Psychotherapy Central, the podcast where we explore the depths of the human psyche and provide practical insights for your mental and emotional well-being. I'm your host, Jennifer Nurick, a psychotherapist dedicated to helping you navigate life's challenges.
In today's episode, I am thrilled to be joined by Cory Allen, a renowned personal development writer, podcast host, and influencer from Austin, Texas. Cory has just released his latest book, "Brave New You," a transformative guide that encourages readers to embrace change and live authentically. With a massive Instagram following reaching over a million people weekly and features in The New York Times, Cory brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our conversation.
In This Episode, We Discuss:
Cory's journey into meditation and spiritual practice, sparked by a challenging upbringing and a quest for relief from emotional turmoil.
The evolution of Cory's self-awareness and consciousness through various experimental practices, including breathwork, psychedelics, and deep dives into Western and Eastern philosophies.
Practical strategies for embracing change and overcoming fear, highlighted by the key themes in Cory's new book, "Brave New You."
The importance of self-awareness in personal growth and how to develop resilience in the face of life's challenges.
The intersection of Eastern and Western approaches to mental health and how integrating both can lead to profound personal transformation.
Cory's unique insights on self-confidence, the power of mental narratives, and how to foster a deeper connection with oneself.
Resources Mentioned:
Cory Allen's book, Brave New You
Cory Allen on Instagram: @heycoryallen
Cory Allen's Substack: coryallen.substack.com
Cory's website: cory-allen.com
Book details: bravenewyoubook.com
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Jun 10, 2024 • 21min
Ep 32 Do You Worry Too Much About Your Children?
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In this episode of Psychotherapy Central your host, Jennifer Nurick, dives deep into a topic that resonates with every parent: worrying about our children. We all experience it, but when does normal concern cross the line into excessive worry? Jen explores this important question, providing insights and practical strategies to help you manage your worries.
Highlights:
In this episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick delves into the topic of worrying about our children, a concern familiar to every parent. Jen explains the nature of worry, emphasizing that it is a natural part of parenting, but also explores how Western culture often sends mixed messages about parental worry, suggesting that excessive concern can indicate unhealthy attachment. She helps listeners identify the signs of excessive worry and offers practical strategies for managing it.
The episode also provides you with a free Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) worksheet designed to help parents effectively work through their worries. Tune in to gain valuable insights and tools to prevent worry from becoming overwhelming. Also, remember to check out the free CBT worksheet linked below.
Connect with Us:
If you have any questions or topics you’d like us to cover in future episodes, please reach out to us on social media or through our website. Remember, you’re not alone in your worries. We’re all in this together.
Resources:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) Worksheet: 5 Steps to Help Managing Parental Worry
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/5-Steps-to-Help-Manage-Parental-Worry
Extra Resources:
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

May 26, 2024 • 17min
EP 31 Understanding Avoidant Attachment Behaviours
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When you possess an avoidant attachment style, you might find that your voice grows louder in moments of distress, and you may become critical or demanding. This tendency can often lead you to focus predominantly on the negatives within your relationship, making it difficult to recognize positive aspects unless the relationship ends. Interestingly, these behaviors are often subconscious strategies aimed at creating a sense of safety, yet they can inadvertently distance you from your partner. This may leave you questioning why you react so and wondering if something is fundamentally wrong with you. It's important to understand that there is nothing wrong with you. Your behaviors are adaptations from your childhood experiences, which can be addressed and healed. If you ever feel perplexed by your actions and reactions, I encourage you to listen to this episode. Enjoy! Jen
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of attachment theory, listen to Episode 1.
EP1 - Five Things You Need to Know About Attachment Theory https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/podcasts/psychotherapy-central/episodes/2148037195
To learn more about the basics of avoidant attachment, listen to Episode 2.
EP 2 - Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/podcasts/psychotherapy-central/episodes/2148041419
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

May 16, 2024 • 12min
EP 30 Understanding Anxious Attachment Behaviours
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When you possess an anxious attachment style, you might find that your voice grows louder in moments of distress, and you may become critical or demanding. This tendency can often lead you to focus predominantly on the negatives within your relationship, making it difficult to recognize positive aspects unless the relationship ends. Interestingly, these behaviors are often subconscious strategies aimed at creating a sense of safety, yet they can inadvertently distance you from your partner. This may leave you questioning why you react so and wondering if something is fundamentally wrong with you. It's important to understand that there is nothing wrong with you. Your behaviors are adaptations from your childhood experiences, which can be addressed and healed. If you ever feel perplexed by your actions and reactions, I encourage you to listen to this episode.
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of anxious attachment, listen to Episode 3.
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings
Meet Your Inner Child Course:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

May 11, 2024 • 17min
EP 29 The Mindset of Secure Attachment
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Discover the transformative power of secure attachment in our latest podcast episode, "The Mindset of Secure Attachment." Hosted by Jennifer Nurick, a seasoned psychotherapist. This episode delves into how developing a secure attachment can significantly enhance your relationships and self-awareness.
This episode explores five key aspects of secure attachment. Jennifer provides in-depth analysis and practical advice on cultivating these traits in your life, explaining how they lead to more stable, reliable connections and a healthier, more positive self-image.
Listeners will learn how secure attachment allows for self-reliance and meaningful closeness with others, helps manage and express emotions constructively, and encourages a reflective mindset that embraces growth and learning from mistakes.
This episode is not only insightful but also offers practical benefits that can improve your interpersonal relationships and personal development. Whether you want to deepen your connections or enhance your emotional intelligence, "The Mindset of Secure Attachment" provides valuable guidance and support.
Tune in to build more satisfying and resilient relationships and enhance your journey towards personal fulfilment. Connect with Jennifer on Instagram for personalised advice and insights. Let's grow together in understanding and implementing the principles of secure attachment.
Enjoy the show!
Resources:
To learn more about the basics of attachment, listen to my earlier episodes:
Ep 1: 5 Things You Need to Know About Attachment Theory
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623522185
EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769
EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027
EP 4 Disorganized Attachment Explained
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000624299907
Extra Resources
Attachment theory by John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth & Main & Solomon
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Connect on socials:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

Apr 16, 2024 • 21min
EP 28 How to Heal Your Anxious Attachment
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In this episode, we discuss my new book ‘Heal Your Anxious Attachment’ and break down the work of building ‘Earned Secure Attachment’ into two vital parts:
Building INNER secure attachment and OUTER secure attachment.
Jen is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist and Energetic Healer. She practices online from her home in Sydney, Australia and is licenced to practice globally.
Resources
BOOK: Heal Your Anxious Attachment - US LINK | AU LINK
Extra Resources
FREE TRAINING:
I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration
Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration
Browse Jen’s suite of online courses:
https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store
Follow Jen on:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/
• Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist