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APPLE | SPOTIFY In this insightful episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick interviews Dr. Clare Rosoman, clinical psychologist, international Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) trainer, and author of three powerful books on attachment and relationship healing. With over 25 years of clinical experience, Clare brings profound wisdom and practical insights into healing attachment injuries—those painful breaches of trust, betrayal, or abandonment in relationships. In this conversation, Clare and Jennifer explore: Clare’s personal and professional journey into Emotionally Focused Therapy. Why vulnerability is the "magic juice" of relationship healing and attachment security. The hidden personal benefits therapists experience when working deeply with EFT. The wide-ranging impact of attachment injuries, beyond just infidelity. How attachment injuries disrupt fundamental questions of emotional safety and trust. The Attachment Injury Resolution Model—an evidence-based framework to repair relational ruptures. Why creating safety and stability is essential before healing attachment wounds. Key Resources Mentioned: Clare's Books: Repairing Attachment Injuries in Close Relationships: An Emotionally Focused Guide to Moving Beyond Betrayal An Emotionally Focused Guide to Relationship Loss: Life After Love An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Relationship Loss: Healing Heartbreak Session by Session Dr. Sue Johnson’s foundational EFT book: Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson Related Episodes: Episode 43: What Avoidants Really Need (But Struggle to Ask For) Episode 40: Why We Choose Avoidant Partners: An Internal Family Systems Perspective Episode 2: Avoidant Attachment Explained Connect with Dr. Clare Rosoman: Dr. Clare Rosoman’s Website Instagram: @clarerosoman Connect with Jennifer Nurick and Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapy.central Facebook: Psychotherapy Central YouTube: Psychotherapy Central Explore more resources, insights, and support for secure and fulfilling relationships at Psychotherapy Central.   #AttachmentInjuries #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFTtherapy #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentTheory #TrustRepair #CouplesTherapy #SecureAttachment #AttachmentHealing #TherapyInsights #DrClareRosoman #PsychotherapyCentral #HealYourRelationships #AttachmentTrauma #MentalHealthPodcast #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipAdvice #HealingFromBetrayal  

Episode 43: What Avoidants Really Need (But Struggle to Ask For) APPLE | SPOTIFY In this episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick delves into the often misunderstood world of avoidant attachment. While avoidantly attached individuals may appear self-sufficient and distant, they harbour deep emotional needs that they often find challenging to express. In this episode Jennifer explores: The internal experience of avoidant attachment Core emotional needs of avoidant individuals, including: Emotional safety without pressure Acceptance for who they are Connection on their terms Freedom and autonomy within relationships Reliability and consistency from partners Non-verbal understanding Validation of their feelings and boundaries The reasons behind their difficulty in expressing these needs Steps toward healing and fostering healthier relationships Resources Mentioned: Book: Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick. This holistic guide offers a trauma-informed approach to help individuals feel more secure, cultivate self-worth, and build healthier relationships. Insight: Esther Perel emphasizes the importance of maintaining mystery and surprise in relationships to counteract routine and sustain desire. Related Episodes: Episode 2: Avoidant Attachment Explained – A comprehensive overview of avoidant attachment, its development, and its impact on relationships. Episode 25: 9 Tips for Dating When You Are Avoidantly Attached – Practical advice for navigating the dating world with an avoidant attachment style. Episode 31: Understanding Avoidant Attachment Behaviours – Delving deeper into the behaviors associated with avoidant attachment and strategies for change. Episode 40: Why We Choose Avoidant Partners: An Internal Family Systems Perspective – Exploring the unconscious patterns that draw individuals to avoidant partners. Connect with Jennifer Nurick: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapy.central Facebook: Psychotherapy Central YouTube: Psychotherapy Central For further resources, insights, and support on your journey toward secure and fulfilling relationships, visit Psychotherapy Central.

APPLE | SPOTIFY Do you feel an overwhelming urgency to fix things right after a disagreement? Does the silence feel unbearable, like something terrible will happen if you don’t resolve it right away? In this episode of Psychotherapy Central, we explore the deep-rooted reasons behind this response, from nervous system activation to attachment wounds. You'll discover: 🔥 Why your body treats arguments like life-or-death situations 🧠 How past experiences shape your response to conflict ❤️ The pursuer-withdrawer cycle in relationships 🌿 Six powerful strategies to calm your nervous system and break the cycle This isn’t about fixing the argument—it’s about learning to regulate yourself so you can respond from a grounded, secure place. Resources Mentioned: 📩 Have a question for Jen? – Email us at hello@psychotherapycentral.health 👶 Meet Your Inner Child Mini-Course – Learn to connect with and parent your younger parts: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration 💌 Join My Mailing List – Get exclusive content and offers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/site/contact   For more content like this, follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast   To get help on your journey through life, access our offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle   💖 If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who might need it. And don’t forget to leave a review—you might just win free access to one of my courses! For more content on love, attachment, and healing, follow me on Instagram: @psychotherapy.central See you next time! Warmly, Jen

APPLE | SPOTIFY Do you find yourself repeatedly drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, even though you crave connection? In this episode of Psychotherapy Central, we explore why this pattern happens through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS), or parts work. You'll discover: 💔 Why avoidant behavior is protective and how it forms🧠 How your own avoidant part might be choosing unavailable partners❤️ How childhood wounds and unprocessed relationship trauma influence partner choice🌿 The steps to break free from these patterns and cultivate secure attachment IFS helps us understand the parts within us that unknowingly lead us toward distant partners. Healing begins with self-awareness, compassion, and working with these protective parts. Resources Mentioned: 💌 Join My Mailing List – Be the first to know about new offers and resources:https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/site/contact 👶 Meet Your Inner Child Mini-Course – A self-paced course to connect with and nurture your inner child:https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration 📚 Heal Your Anxious Attachment – My signature course to develop secure attachment within yourself and in relationships:https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/heal-your-anxious-attachment Episodes Referenced: 🎧 EP2: Avoidant Attachment Explained🎧 EP5: What is IFS Therapy? Internal Family Systems Therapy Explained   For more content like this, follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast   To get help on your journey through life, access our offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle 💖 I hope you found this episode insightful. If you enjoyed it, please leave a rating or review. If you're watching on YouTube, don't forget to like and subscribe—it really helps! 👉 For more content on love, attachment, and healing, follow me on Instagram: @psychotherapy.central See you next time!Warmly,Jen #PsychotherapyCentral #IFS #AnxiousAttachment #RelationshipHealing #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealing #AttachmentStyles #SelfCompassion #InnerWork #HealingJourney #MindfulRelationships #TherapyTools #BreakTheCycle #HealYourAnxiousAttachment #CycleBreakers #SelfHealers

YOUTUBE | APPLE | SPOTIFY Have you ever found yourself texting your partner repeatedly, withdrawing to get their attention, or starting arguments over small issues? These are protest behaviors—your nervous system’s way of saying, I need to feel safe and connected. In this episode, we dive deep into: 🔹 What protest behaviors are and why they happen 🔹 How childhood attachment wounds shape these reactions 🔹 The impact of protest behaviors on adult relationships 🔹 How Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help you heal these patterns IFS teaches us that these behaviors stem from protective parts of us—exiles carrying deep fears of abandonment, and managers trying to keep us safe. Instead of criticizing yourself, you can learn to approach these parts with awareness, curiosity, and compassion. 💡 Want to go deeper? 📖 Heal Your Anxious Attachment—my book includes over 20 meditations and practical tools to support your healing. Available at all major book retailers. 🎧 IFS Deep Dive—Listen to episodes 5-13 of this podcast, especially episode 5, to understand IFS more deeply. 📲 More resources in the “ATTACHMENT” highlight on my Instagram. If this episode resonated with you, please leave a 5-star review—it really helps! 🌿 Healing takes time, and every step you take matters. Love, Jen 💛   For more content like this, follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast To get help on your journey through life, access our offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle #PsychotherapyCentral #IFS #AnxiousAttachment #RelationshipHealing #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealing #AttachmentStyles #SelfCompassion #InnerWork #HealingJourney #MindfulRelationships #TherapyTools #BreakTheCycle #HealYourAnxiousAttachment #CycleBreakers #SelfHealers

APPLE | SPOTIFY In this insightful episode of Psychotherapy Central, Jennifer Nurick welcomes Sue McDonnell, a seasoned psychotherapist and executive coach, to explore the profound connections between leadership and self-awareness. Sue shares her extensive experience working with executive teams and senior leaders, highlighting how conscious leadership can transform organizational dynamics and foster meaningful change. Throughout the conversation, Sue delves into the concept of the leadership shadow, emphasizing the significant impact leaders have through their thoughts, words, and actions. She distinguishes between executive coaching and traditional psychotherapy, explaining how coaching focuses on outcome-driven goals and incorporates feedback from multiple stakeholders to enhance accountability and growth. Listeners will gain valuable insights into Sue’s intuitive approach to coaching, which blends various therapeutic tools to meet the unique needs of each client. The episode also touches on the importance of vulnerability and authentic connection in leadership, the challenges of balancing personal and professional growth, and strategies for overcoming loneliness in today’s fast-paced world. Sue and Jennifer discuss the lasting effects of COVID-19 on interpersonal relationships and the critical need for community and co-regulation to combat isolation. They explore practical tips for offering and receiving compassionate feedback, managing internal and external self-awareness, and cultivating a supportive environment both personally and professionally. Whether you’re a leader seeking to enhance your self-awareness or someone interested in the intersection of psychotherapy and executive coaching, this episode offers profound wisdom and actionable strategies to foster transformation and build stronger, more empathetic relationships. Key Takeaways: The impact of leadership behavior on team dynamics and organizational culture. Differences and complementary aspects of executive coaching versus psychotherapy. The importance of clear, kind, and compassionate feedback in personal and professional growth. Strategies for overcoming loneliness and building meaningful community connections. Balancing continuous personal development with professional responsibilities. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how conscious leadership and self-awareness can drive meaningful change within yourself and your organization. References: Books: Lost Connections by Johann Hari: This book discusses the broader social and cultural factors contributing to depression, offering a perspective beyond the traditional medical model. Works by Esther Perel: Mentioned in the context of relationships and transitions within marriages, particularly her insights on long-term partnerships and evolving dynamics. The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker: valuable resource on the importance of community and creating meaningful gatherings Websites and Concepts: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sue-mcdonnell-91b5983/ - For more information on Sue's work with executive teams and leaders. Thomas Hübl: Referenced for his expression “I’m feeling you feeling me,” highlighting the importance of attunement and connection in therapeutic work.     For more content like this, follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast To get help on your journey through life, access our offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family.

YOUTUBE | APPLE | SPOTIFY Join host Jennifer Nurick, a clinical psychotherapist, as she delves into the topic of dissociation from the perspective of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. This episode of Psychotherapy Central offers a deep dive into how dissociation can be understood and approached using the IFS model, providing valuable insights for therapists, clients, and anyone interested in the dynamics of psychological healing. In this episode we cover the following: Understanding Dissociation: Gain a foundational understanding of dissociation, including its symptoms and triggers, and why it occurs as a psychological defense mechanism. Introduction to IFS: Learn about the Internal Family Systems therapy model, its core concepts, and how it differentiates between various parts within an individual. Dissociation in IFS: Explore how dissociation is viewed within the IFS framework, focusing on the roles of protective parts and exiled parts in the dissociative process. Healing Strategies: Discover the steps involved in healing dissociation using IFS, including building trust within the internal system, negotiating with protective parts, and helping exiled parts to unburden. Practical Example: A case study illustrating the application of IFS in treating dissociative episodes, showing the therapeutic journey and the gradual integration of parts. Featured Concepts: The Self: The core of IFS therapy, representing the compassionate, curious, calm, and connected leader within. You can hear more about the ‘Self’ in IFS in Ep 7 - The Central Role of the “Self’ in IFS Therapy. Managers and Firefighters: Protective parts in IFS that manage everyday functioning and respond to immediate threats, respectively. Ep. 8 Exiles, Managers and Firefighters in IFS Therapy. Exiles: Parts that carry traumatic memories or intense emotions, often leading to dissociation when activated. Ep. 8 Exiles, Managers and Firefighters in IFS Therapy. This episode is particularly beneficial for those working in mental health, those experiencing dissociative symptoms, and anyone looking to understand more about innovative approaches to psychotherapy. Additional Resources: Ep 5 - What is IFS Therapy?  Ep 6 - Six things you Need to Know About ‘Parts’ from an IFS Perspective Ep 10 - Healing Trauma with Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) One-on-one Therapy Sessions with Jen or her Team: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/bookings Meet Your Inner Child Course: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/meet-your-inner-child-registration  FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation: Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration Also, join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration Browse Jen’s suite of online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store Connect on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist

YOUTUBE | APPLE | SPOTIFY   In this insightful episode of Psychotherapy Central, host Jennifer Nurick dives deep into the often misunderstood phenomenon of dissociation. This episode is particularly useful for professionals in the mental health field, individuals experiencing dissociation, and anyone interested in psychological phenomena. What You Will Learn: Definition and Mechanics of Dissociation Triggers and Causes of Dissociation Symptoms of Dissociation First Steps Towards Help For Our Listeners: If you recognize signs of dissociation in yourself or others, reaching out for professional help is recommended. Understanding dissociation deeply can be the first step toward healing and developing healthier coping mechanisms.   Follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast Offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family.      

YOUTUBE | APPLE PODCASTS In this enlightening episode of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, host Jennifer Nurick welcomes Dr. Amanda Ferguson, a registered psychologist and clinical hypnotherapist with over 32 years of experience. They delve into the pursuer-withdrawer pattern in relationships, a dynamic that can significantly impact relationship satisfaction and longevity. Dr. Ferguson shares her journey into psychology and hypnotherapy, offering deep insights into how these modalities can aid in self-discovery and healing. The discussion covers practical strategies for recognizing and addressing the pursuer-withdrawer pattern, the importance of active listening, and the value of seeking help early in a relationship. Jennifer and Amanda also explore how respecting and nurturing the foundational elements of respect and friendship can strengthen intimate relationships. Referenced Books and Websites: Life Works: Rediscover Yourself and Transform Your Relationships by Dr. Amanda Ferguson  The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman Mom’s House, Dad’s House by Isolina Ricci Dr. Amanda Ferguson's website Psych for Life podcast with Dr. Amanda Ferguson Follow Psychotherapy Central: Website: psychotherapycentral.health Instagram: @psychotherapycentral Facebook: Psychotherapy Central Youtube: @psychotherapycentral Podcast: Psychotherapy Central Podcast Offerings: One-on-One Therapy Sessions: Book a session here Couple Counselling Sessions: Book a session here Online Courses: Explore our courses here Relationship Cycle Breaker: Register here Free Training: Cycle Breaker's Circle Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends and family.

YOUTUBE | APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY Welcome back to Psychotherapy Central, the podcast where we explore the depths of the human psyche and provide practical insights for your mental and emotional well-being. I'm your host, Jennifer Nurick, a psychotherapist dedicated to helping you navigate life's challenges. In today's episode, I am thrilled to be joined by Cory Allen, a renowned personal development writer, podcast host, and influencer from Austin, Texas. Cory has just released his latest book, "Brave New You," a transformative guide that encourages readers to embrace change and live authentically. With a massive Instagram following reaching over a million people weekly and features in The New York Times, Cory brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our conversation. In This Episode, We Discuss: Cory's journey into meditation and spiritual practice, sparked by a challenging upbringing and a quest for relief from emotional turmoil. The evolution of Cory's self-awareness and consciousness through various experimental practices, including breathwork, psychedelics, and deep dives into Western and Eastern philosophies. Practical strategies for embracing change and overcoming fear, highlighted by the key themes in Cory's new book, "Brave New You." The importance of self-awareness in personal growth and how to develop resilience in the face of life's challenges. The intersection of Eastern and Western approaches to mental health and how integrating both can lead to profound personal transformation. Cory's unique insights on self-confidence, the power of mental narratives, and how to foster a deeper connection with oneself. Resources Mentioned: Cory Allen's book, Brave New You Cory Allen on Instagram: @heycoryallen Cory Allen's Substack: coryallen.substack.com Cory's website: cory-allen.com Book details: bravenewyoubook.com Connect with Me: Book a psychotherapy session: Psychotherapy Central Bookings Explore my online courses: Psychotherapy Central Store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central  Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/psychotherapycentral  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-nurick-psychotherapist Stay Connected: Don't forget to subscribe to Psychotherapy Central on your favorite podcast platform and follow us on social media for updates, tips, and more!