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Playing With Fire

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Sep 23, 2023 • 1h 12min

125 The Jealousy Roadmap

Struggling with your own jealousy?  Partner struggling with jealousy? Friends/community arguing about how to handle jealousy? This episode was MADE for you. The jealousy roadmap emerged directly from my qualitative research on jealousy. Since then I’ve put it to the test with hundreds of people- it works.  And I want you to have it for free because jealousy is a normal emotion and you deserve to feel empowered to work with jealousy proactively. You’ll also want to download >>>The Jealousy Roadmap Workbook HERE BONUS!!! If this gets you excited, take the next step and download The Jealousy Masterclass — a 3-hour seminar and 30-page workbook perfect for continuing your jealousy shadow work  50% off because I LOVE that you are diving into your jealousy work!   GET THE JEALOUSY MASTERCLASS 50% off Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Stuck on step 5 of the jealousy roadmap? Nurture Compersion by checking out Dr. Marie Thouin's work at www.WhatIsCompersion.com
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Sep 9, 2023 • 1h 3min

124 Are you ready to bring your whole quirky self to your relationships? with Rachel Wright

How does it go for you to show up with all your unique you-ness? Of course some of you is private, but it can be tricky to bring the rest of you out into your relationships. We talk with distinguished psychotherapist and renowned speaker Rachel Wright about our various experiences being out as our individual selves. For more from Rachel: ⁠www.rachelwrightnyc.com⁠ ⁠The Wright Conversations podcast⁠ Instagram: ⁠@thewright_rachel⁠ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at ⁠www.JoliQuiz.com⁠
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Aug 26, 2023 • 41min

123 Weasel Words and Creating More Intimacy in your Relationships

There are things you can do to build intimacy in your relationships, and things you can do that can break it down. We're talking about wording agreements and commitments in ways that avoid leaving back doors you can sneak out of. and leave you present to your partners and yourself. And what can happen if you don't. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Aug 19, 2023 • 1h

122 Get The Skills to Build your Own Relationship - With Guest Expert Carrie Jeroslow

Do the limited choices on the mainstream relationship menu leave you feeling restless and looking for something else? Do you think something more customized would suit you and your partners or partner better? I hear you, so we're talking with guest expert Carrie Jeroslow, host of Relationship Diversity Podcast. We talk about solo-amory, the line between monogamy and non-monogamy, embracing discomfort, the value of intention in relationships - we packed a lot in here. Click here to download a free guide to explore Relationship Diversity Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Aug 12, 2023 • 29min

121 Am I cut out for non-monogamy? Finding safety during your exploration

Non-monogamy is a big adventure. It's also a huge source of fear and dysregulation for a lot of us. Individuating also involves quite a bit of discomfort. When that all gets too much, you can fall back on your routes to safety. If you're not familiar with yours, check out Jake Ernst and the resource link below. But what if you've outgrown your old familiar routes and they don't work as well anymore? No fear, we've got some strategies for managing that. Download the Routes of Safety resource by Jake Ernst Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Aug 5, 2023 • 48min

120 How do I break through relationship stagnation?

If you've got a relationship that's feeling like it's hit a plateau, what can you do? It doesn't matter if it's with a romantic partner or a friend or a family member, the moves are pretty similar. We've been there, and we're talking about options to enhance your own aliveness, and the vitality of your relationships. It's not particularly complicated, but it might be hard. How hard it is is specific to you and your relationship. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Jul 22, 2023 • 46min

119 Soft Cock Week with guest expert Michelle Renee

Wiggly, firm, soft, rigid - peens are shape shifters. Why does that matter? Well, somebody you know might have one, and they might have feelings about that, what with the cultural pressures brought to bear on them. Guest expert Michelle Renee started Soft Cock Week, we talk with her about why she did that, what it's for, what's in it for you, and lots more about finding pleasure in life. Go to SoftCockWeek.com for resources, upcoming events, opportunities to participate and contribute. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Jul 15, 2023 • 56min

118 Are there quick and easy ways to manage stress? A: Yes. With guest experts Elisabeth Kristof, Melanie Weller, and Matt Bush

You're alive in a human body, so you have a nervous system, and sometimes it freaks out. What do you do then? We learned Neuro-Somatic Intelligence from the incomparable Elisabeth Kristof, Melanie Weller, and Matt Bush, and they have the same problems we all do. So we got them to share some of their stories of how they use the tools they teach us in their daily lives, and how you can learn to use them too. They're enrolling their next cohort now, so ⁠go to Brain Based Wellness⁠ to get their free workshop and start working with Elisabeth, Mark, and Melanie. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Jul 9, 2023 • 38min

117 Business and pleasure with Beth Hankes

Beth Hankes, Founder and CEO of Earth and Salt, discusses the benefits of bringing relational skills into the business environment. They explore the challenges and lifestyle changes of being a business owner and sex educator, the impact of business ownership on personal relationships, and the importance of balancing personal and professional lives. They also discuss starting a business with a partner and invite listeners to visit the Earth and Salt website and take an open relationship quiz.
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Jul 1, 2023 • 54min

116 Mindful Dating with guest expert Marie Thouin

Guess what they didn't teach us in school? HOW TO DATE. Much less how to date MINDFULLY. Even less-less when we are ready to date non-monogamously. My lovely colleague and fellow Ph.D. Researcher, Dr. Marie Thouin, decided to take this matter into her own hands... She talks with us about mindful dating and how you can turn dating into something joyful! So many good reasons to work with Marie and get more pleasure out of your dating experience, and she's offering a 30 minute free intro session at https://www.whatiscompersion.com/ You can also find her at https://www.loveinsight-dating.com/ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com

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