

The Eating Disorder Therapist
HARRIET FREW
Overcome disordered eating and find peace with food.
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Sep 17, 2025 • 9min
Why Do Some Clients Change, Whilst Others Don't? 5 Secrets From The Therapy Room
Change is a complicated and nuanced factor. Ultimately, an eating disorder is a coping strategy, so there will always be some inevitable ambivalence around change.
In this episode, I explore 5 factors that help support a client's change. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Sep 13, 2025 • 10min
How To Cope With Feeling Full in Eating Disorder Recovery
In this episode, I explore how to navigate feeling full. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Sep 10, 2025 • 15min
It's Not About Food, It's About Feelings
In this episode, I dive into the psychology of eating disorders. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Sep 6, 2025 • 11min
When Food Has Become Your Best Friend
In this episode, I explore how food can become your best friend and primary turn-to, when you have an eating disorder. I consider how this can be a substitute for healthy relationships with other humans and how to begin to foster more positive connections with others. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Sep 3, 2025 • 11min
5 Food Rules You Didn't Know You Had
Food rules can be sneaky and subtle. You may consider that you don't have any! If you are struggling with food noise and angst around eating, then food rules will be likely in the background. In this episode, I explore some of these more subtle and lingering rules. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Aug 30, 2025 • 14min
The Transformational Hack that you’re Avoiding in Eating Disorder Recovery
In eating disorder recovery, you’ll be searching for the latest mindset hack or magic technique to miraculously propel you out of food obsession and into the land of peaceful eating.
You’re absorbing YouTube recovery content like it’s a full-time job and following the progress of inspiring recovery warriors on socials.
You might watch ‘What I Eat in a Day Content’ on repeat, in a search of the perfect meal plan, so that your body can recover in the ‘right way’. The ideal recovery fantasy is a thing!
Perhaps you are fixated on healthy eating, bordering on orthorexia whilst searching for the plan that will transport you to recovery land, without having to embark on embracing your forbidden foods or anything that could contaminate your system.
Sometimes you can search for every possible solution without returning to some of the basic and fundamental recovery practices.
You’re metaphorically rearranging the skidding deckchairs on the sinking Titanic, rather than addressing the core issue that’s sinking you deeper into the sea.
It is the boring and unsexy work of regular eating in eating disorder recovery.
In this episode, I explore the importance of regular eating and how to practically put it into practice.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Aug 27, 2025 • 19min
The Skinny Jab and Eating Disorders
In this episode, I talk about anecdotal experience of the skinny jab and eating disorders. Clients are at high risk of being drawn into using these meds. It's something we need to talk about more with compassion and understanding.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Aug 23, 2025 • 13min
When You Feel Competitive - the Thinnest, Cleverest, Fittest and Don't Feel Good Enough
In this episode, I explore the need to feel extraordinary in some way, when you have an eating disorder and how this is often a coping mechanism for not feeling good enough. I explore the roots of the issue and how to feel good enough.
I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Aug 20, 2025 • 6min
5 Bitter Truths About Eating Disorder Recovery
If eating disorder recovery was just an easy-peasy walk in the woods, picking bluebells and skipping along beautifully curated paths, then you probably wouldn’t be listening to this.
Although recovery can lead to some spectacular destinations and a whole bucket of inner peace, the initial routes are often bumpy and tangled with weeds and rocks blocking the way. It can feel frankly quite terrifying.
This is not to put you off embarking or continuing along the road.
In fact, it is to support you in honesty and reality, and to empower you to keep on going.
In this episode, I explore 5 bitter truths about eating disorder recovery. I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Aug 16, 2025 • 11min
Praise for Thinness, Family Dieting and Trauma: Understanding Your Body Image Preoccupation
In this episode, I explore different factors that influence body image development from insights inside the therapy room.
I hope that you find it helpful.
Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist
To find out more about my work:-
Go to my Website
ONLINE COURSES - link to all courses HERE
Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food.
Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa.
Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders.
Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.