

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships
Kirsten Trammell
Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women.
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
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Jan 14, 2025 • 39min
Fertility Expert Explains The Secrets To Male Fertility
Is your fertility sending warning signals about your overall health? If you're a man wanting to start a family now or in the future, you'll learn, how to protect your reproductive health years before trying to conceive and why your fertility status could be an early warning system for other health conditions. Learn how everyday exposures - from your workout routine to your work environment - could impact your fertility without you knowing it. Whether you're actively trying to conceive or simply want to preserve your reproductive health for the future, this episode has vital insights for you. Featuring renowned fertility specialist Gabriela Rosa, who breaks down the science of male fertility and shares actionable steps you can take today. Plus, discover why treating conception as a "team sport" could transform both your fertility journey and your relationship. This episode is a must-listen for men aiming to enhance their reproductive health and overall vitality. Connect with Gabriela Rosa Fertility Breakthrough by Gabriela Rosa Free Program: Ferility Challenge at fertilitybreakthrough.com 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Jan 7, 2025 • 29min
Uncovering the Hidden Dynamics of Substance Use and Love
How does your nightcap impact your sexual performance? Is your girl always drinking or popping a gummy before you get intimate? In this episode, Kirsten brings you Dr. Jennifer Kansan, a sex therapist and chemical dependency counselor, to explore the significant impacts of substance use on relationships and sexuality. Whether you are in a relationship with someone suffering from substance use or you are wondering how your casual drinking influences your sex life, this episode has something for you. If you are wondering what impact your drinking or drug use has on your sexual performance, ability to maintain a romantic relationship, or connect more closely- this is for you! Connect with Dr. Jennifer Konzen The Art Of Intimate Marriage ransomjourney.com Reach out Directly: jenniferkonzen@yahoo.com 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Dec 31, 2024 • 15min
What To Focus Your Sex Life On In 2025
Are you having problems when it comes to being intimate with women? 2025 is where that changes. For good. Relationship goals and New Year's resolutions for 2025 can be fun to set- but hard to keep. In this episode, Kirsten offers 3 Focal points to make for your sex life and relationships in the year ahead. Whether you are single, looking for ways to meet more women, or are in a relationship ready to dive deeper together, this episode has something specific for you. Tune in to gain tools and insights to transform your sexual and relational life in the year ahead. 2025 Here we come…lets get some! 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:14 Setting Your 2025 Goals 01:42 Building Your Social Ecosystem 02:44 Creating a Life of Connection 05:30 Engaging with the World 07:08 Focus for Men in Relationships 09:33 Expanding Your Sexual Intimacy 11:45 Commit to Your Focus 12:14 Thank You and Happy New Year

Dec 24, 2024 • 26min
3 Deadly Mistakes That Kill Her Sexual Desire for You
Want to know why your seduction attempts aren't working? If you are a man struggling to create genuine connections with women, you will learn authentic seduction techniques, how to move beyond superficial strategies, and why "nice guy" behavior might be sabotaging your love life. Learn why women can sense when you're "working for sex" and how to create real desire instead of trying to earn it. Whether you are single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode reveals game-changing insights about what women actually want. Discover the power of "desire gaps," why direct communication trumps manipulation, and how to maintain your center while creating space for genuine attraction to grow. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 02:00 The Strategic Player: A Common Pitfall 02:56 The Nice Guy Mask: Hidden Desires 03:55 The Bargainer: Transactional Intimacy 06:14 Creating a Desire Gap 07:53 Seduction with Integrity: Key Principles 16:22 Practical Examples of Seduction with Integrity 18:11 What Women Really Want in Seduction 22:11 The Power of Possibilities in Relationships

Dec 17, 2024 • 36min
Expert Shares Why Your Dates Fail & Sex Declines After Kids
If you are dating women wondering why attraction isn't building, or simply curious about the science of love, in this episode, you will learn about the biological foundations of physical attraction, how our hormones influence who we find attractive, and the fascinating chemistry behind relationships once children come into the picture. Whether you are a single man trying to understand what drives attraction in the dating scene or a man in a committed relationship wanting to deepen your love and intimacy, this episode has insight for you. Love isn't just poetry and mystery - it's also biology in action, orchestrating a cocktail of hormones and chemicals that bring humans together in the most remarkable ways. Get Dr. Liat Yakir's Book: A Brief History of Love: What Attracts Us, How We Fall in Love and Why Biology Screws it All Up 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:44 The Biology of Love and Attachment 05:42 Modern Dating Challenges 10:52 The Nature of Monogamy and Cheating 20:42 Parenthood and Relationship Dynamics 28:04 Rebuilding Intimacy and Connection 33:30 Prescription for Love and Wellbeing

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Dec 10, 2024 • 19min
4 Powerful Keys To Sexual Seduction: Revive Her Desire
Uncover the secrets to genuine seduction with four essential keys to capturing a woman's interest. Learn to navigate the intricate world of arousal, breaking down the biological aspects that drive attraction. Discover the significance of small positive moments in building emotional safety and intimacy. This enlightening discussion also tackles common pitfalls men make, offering practical techniques to revive desire and enhance your overall sex life. A must-listen for anyone looking to master the art of meaningful connection!

Dec 3, 2024 • 39min
Break Free from Hidden Blocks to Become a Confident, Authentic Lover
In this episode, you will dive into sexual mastery and masculine confidence as we explore intimacy healing and relationship dynamics. Dr. Ray Doktor reveals powerful personal growth strategies that will revolutionize how men understand themselves, break through hidden blocks, and create more authentic, meaningful connections. You will learn how to build confidence, channel sexual energy, and show up as the man you want to be. Whether you are looking to explore tantric experiences or amplify your emotional awareness, this episode has something for you. Connect With D. Ray Doktor All It Takes Is One by Dr. Ray Doktor https://www.youtube.com/user/raydoktor 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:05 Defining Sexual Mastery 02:04 Emotional and Energetic Dynamics 05:35 Inner Work and Self-Love 20:22 Generational Influences and Trauma 28:37 Practical Steps to Sexual Mastery

Nov 26, 2024 • 19min
The Truth About What To Do With Different Libido In A Relationship
Explore the complexities of libido discrepancies in relationships and discover the dual control model that acts as a roadmap for understanding sexual desire. Learn practical strategies to enhance intimacy and communication, focusing on alleviating pressures in your relationship. The discussion emphasizes the significance of emotional connections and body positivity to foster a supportive environment for desire to flourish. Uncover insightful tips to navigate differences and transform your intimate life.

Nov 19, 2024 • 47min
Mastering the Art of Effective Fighting for Better Love
In this episode, psychotherapist Lisa Breitman joins us to discuss the pitfalls you face during arguments and how to transform conflict into productive conversation. Kirsten and Lisa cover common reasons for fights, such as money and family dynamics, and provide advice on how to address these issues without becoming defensive and destructive. Whether you are sick of having the same fight with your partner, or you are single and want to ensure your next relationship is filled with productive conversations, this episode is for you. Get ready to explore strategies for effective communication, set boundaries, and resolve conflicts related to sex and intimacy. Connect with Lisa Brateman https://www.lisabrateman.com/ Get her book: What Are We Really Fighting About by Lisa Brateman 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:24 Common Pitfalls in Arguments 03:09 Underlying Issues in Fights 08:40 Effective Communication Strategies 14:56 Ground Rules for Healthy Arguments 20:00 Managing Anger and Frustration 22:51 Hurtful Accusations and Defensiveness 23:54 The Desire to Win vs. Relationship Harmony 27:57 The Impact of Avoiding Conflict 33:09 Reconnecting in the Age of Distractions 38:54 Navigating Sexual Intimacy Conflicts 45:47 The Importance of Effort in Relationships

Nov 12, 2024 • 40min
The Secrets to Having Better Sex With Older Women
Sex only gets better with age! Tune in to learn how to have better sex with older women, particularly women in their midlife (40-50s) and beyond. In this episode, Kirsten and sexologist Eva Clay discuss the intricacies of sex, dating, and relationships with women in their midlife. As women transition through perimenopause and menopause, they experience significant hormonal changes that affect their libido, identity, and view of society. Kirsten and Eva explore how couples can navigate these changes successfully and highlight the importance of empathy, understanding, and redefining intimacy. Eva offers insights into the evolutionary role of estrogen, how its decline impacts women's behavior, and provides advice for men to support their partners through this transition. They also discuss how aging enhances sexual experiences and deepens emotional connections. Whether you are currently in this stage of life, or preparing for it, this episode sheds light on embracing these changes and living a fulfilling, intimate life. Connect with Eva Clay https://www.evaclay.com/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Relationships 01:56 Understanding Menopause and Perimenopause 04:09 Impact of Hormonal Changes on Relationships 05:39 Navigating Intimacy During Menopause 06:18 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 09:49 Redefining Sex and Intimacy 13:42 The Benefits of Aging in Relationships 34:48 Dating in Midlife: Embrace the Adventure


