

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships
Kirsten Trammell
Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women.
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
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Nov 5, 2024 • 15min
3 Habits That Will Change Your Relationship With Women
Are you tired of dates and relationships that go nowhere? Here are 3 habits that will change your dynamic with women. These habits are crucial not just for dating but also for sustaining a healthy relationship over time. Tune in for practical advice and thoughtful insights to enhance your love life…I dare you. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Attracting Your Ideal Woman 01:00 Habit 1: Shifting Your Focus 03:51 Habit 2: Building the Capacity to Walk Away 09:49 Habit 3: Relinquishing Sex as the Main Focus 14:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Oct 29, 2024 • 44min
How To Overcome Sexual Disconnect in Relationships
Have you been struggling to initiate sex with your partner or feel like your connection is fading? Tune in to connect with Kirsten and men's coach Karen Brody to understand the intricacies of sexual dynamics, the deeper motivations behind intimacy, and the challenges couples face when sex becomes routine. Learn the significance of open and honest communication, playful experimentation, and addressing power dynamics early on. With actionable advice and insights, discover how you can take proactive steps to lead with confidence, elevate your sexual experiences, and rekindle passion and connection in your intimate relationships. Connect with Karen Brody https://karenbrodycoaching.com/best-selling-books/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics 02:04 Understanding the Dynamics of Sex in Long-Term Relationships 03:12 The Role of Communication in Maintaining Intimacy 04:10 Redefining Sex and Overcoming Barriers 06:01 The Impact of Shame and Resistance 07:05 Navigating Sexual Resistance and Leadership 11:09 The Deeper Meaning of Sex 13:14 Revitalizing Sexual Purpose 20:58 The Importance of Mutual Desire 23:58 Opening Up About Relationship Challenges 24:40 The Importance of Honest Communication 25:15 Creating a New Kind of Attraction 26:05 Navigating Sexual Honesty 28:57 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy 30:13 Exploring the 'Sex Lab' Concept 32:11 Impact of Sexual Disconnect on Relationships 35:41 Rebuilding Confidence and Leadership

Oct 22, 2024 • 17min
5 Revolutionary Techniques to Enhance a Woman's Sexual Arousal
Is your woman getting fully turned on during foreplay or sex? In this episode, Kirsten addresses a listeners question about how his partner is not experiencing pleasure during foreplay. Whether you are with someone who struggles to reach orgasm or you want to try out new ways to stroke and touch your woman, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn 5 techniques to enhance female pleasure, reduce discomfort, and activate deeper enjoyment and connection. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 02:30 Understanding the Clitoris 04:13 Technique 1: The Pocket 05:45 Technique 2: Indirect Touch 07:27 Technique 3: The V-Shape 08:49 Exploring the Power of the Thumb 09:46 Understanding the Vestibular Bulbs 10:55 Stimulating the Pleasure Triangle 12:30 General Tips for Effective Stimulation

Oct 15, 2024 • 39min
How Psychedelics Impact Sex, Love & Connections
Curious about using psychedelics to enhance your sex and love life? Tune in to talk with Dr. Steven Radowitz, a psychotherapist who specializes in using psychedelics to foster better intimate connections and address issues like performance anxiety, ED, and intimacy challenges. Whether you are curious about psychedelics in general or are looking for new ways to connect and experience your relationships, this episode has insight for you. And while psychedelics may be a more controversial topic, Dr. Steven and Kirsten discuss nonsubstance alternatives and various ways to enhance your overall intimate life. Key Topics: 00:51 Exploring Psychedelics and Sex 04:56 Understanding Ketamine and Other Psychedelics 07:46 The Impact of Psychedelics on Relationships 10:23 Psychedelics and Personal Growth 13:48 Integration and Aftercare 17:50 Practical Advice for Using Psychedelics Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Connect With Dr. Steven Radowitz Visit his NY Clinic: https://nushama.com/ Learn about his PTSD & Ketamine Research: https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/78m96 https://www.instagram.com/nushamawellness/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Oct 8, 2024 • 24min
What Women Really Want in a Man: 4 Proven Traits
What do women really want? In this episode, you will learn 4 key drivers that attract a woman to men. Kirsten answers a listener's question about what women are drawn to in men. Whether you are single searching for insight on how to attract your dream woman or are in a relationship and wanting to boost your girl's desire to be with you, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn natural ways to boost your attractiveness with women while enhancing your overall well-being. Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Key Topics: 01:32 Understanding Female Cravings 02:48 The Importance of Height and Physical Attributes 07:42 Boosting Testosterone: Natural Ways to Enhance Attraction 09:26 The Power of Music and Artistic Expression 14:11 The Science of Smell and Attraction 18:32 Status and Financial Stability 22:17 Leveraging Biology for Success in Love 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Oct 1, 2024 • 38min
How to Break Free from Anxious and Avoidant Patterns
Are you tired of being in the same painful relationship cycle…yet again? This week, Kirsten talks with Licensed Therapist Jessica DaSilva all about attachment theory and how your attachment style may perpetuate the slump you find yourself in. Whether you are single and want to learn more about who you are in relationships, or you are in a relationship and want to understand better the unconscious dynamic that may be holding you back, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn how to create self-awareness, effectively communicate with your partner, and build attraction towards secure and healthy dynamics. Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Connect with Jessica Da Silva https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thejessicadasilva/?hl=en 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Episode Topics: 01:27 Understanding Attachment Theory and the 4 Attachment Styles 05:23 How To Navigate Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics 09:47 Cultural Influences on Attachment 10:49 Navigating Relationship Needs 14:26 Tools to Communicate Your Attachment Needs 15:43 How to Shift Towards Being Attracted to Healthy Relationships 20:05 Navigating Attraction and Healthy Behavior 23:05 Understanding Secure Self Blueprint 25:05 Dating World Confusions and Insights 28:59 Attachment Styles and Sex Life 34:33 Moving Towards Secure Attachment

Sep 24, 2024 • 30min
Why Your Girl Has a Dirty Fantasy. Do This Now!
We all have secret fantasies. What do you do when your girl has a dirty fantasy she wants to play out? In this episode, we walk through the steps to exploring a kinky fantasy with your girl with how to navigate the conversation, successfully execute the fantasy with success and explore the underlying desire the kink is actually fullfilling. If you are feeling uncomfortable with your desires, tune in to learn some of the deeper reasons that drive fantasies and kinks. Let's get some! Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Fantasies 00:24 Why Fantasies Are Hard to Share 00:46 Welcome to The Naked Connection 01:06 Personal Journey and Podcast Anniversary 02:45 Common Fantasies and Their Challenges 04:44 Exploring a Rape Fantasy 07:34 Understanding the Psychology Behind Fantasies 16:04 Setting Boundaries and Safe Words 21:28 Communicating and Respecting Limits 26:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Sep 17, 2024 • 44min
Create Fantastic Foreplay And Build Better Sexual Skills
Want to turn your sex life from good to great? Join Kirsten as she sits down with Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and tantra counselor, to explore ways to take your sex life to the next level. Whether you are currently single and want to learn skills for your next lover or are in a relationship wishing to deepen your sexual experiences, this episode is packed with value for you. Key topics include initiating sex, improving foreplay, maintaining arousal, and enhancing sexual energy during periods of abstinence. Kevin and Kirsten address body image issues that men carry, the importance of a mindful masturbation practice, and how to build polarity and desire in your dynamics with women. Tune in for a deep dive into upgrading your intimacy and sexual prowess. Let's get some! Key Topics: 06:27 Communication and Co-Creation in Sex 12:15 Initiation and Arousal Techniques 17:14 Foreplay: Tips and Techniques 20:19 Understanding Erection Anxiety 21:22 The Importance of Relaxation 22:30 Exploring a Woman's Body 23:37 Body Image Issues in Men 25:35 Taking Action on Body Image 29:11 Keeping Sex Fun and Exciting 35:07 Maintaining Sexual Energy When Single Connect with Kevin Anthony https://www.kevinandceline.com/ https://powerandmastery.com/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Sep 10, 2024 • 24min
3 Actions To Improve Your Masturbation Habits & Love Life
Am I masturbating too much? Is masturbation getting in the way of having more sex? In this episode, we will explore the impact of masturbation on relationships, and common concerns about masturbation, such as secrecy, dependency, and the potential to reduce intimacy. Tune in to learn 3 actionable steps to improve both self-pleasure practices and relationship dynamics. Here is a place to explore more ways to connect, how to leverage masturbation for deeper connection, and amplify your sexual energy - whether you are single or in a committed relationship. Don't miss this! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Masturbation on Relationships 01:05 Statistics and Commonality of Masturbation 01:51 Masturbation as a Coping Mechanism 04:35 Challenges of Masturbation in Relationships 09:15 Effective Communication About Masturbation 14:11 Exploring Mutual Masturbation 18:12 Experimenting with Masturbation Frequency 22:18 Conclusion and Call to Action 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

Sep 3, 2024 • 32min
Warning: Here Is The Number 1 Proven Method For Penis Enlargement
Do you wish your penis was larger? No matter how big or small, many men want safe and effective tools to increase penis size and functioning. This episode is packed with insight into girth and length enhancement strategies that are both natural and long-lasting. Whether you want to increase the size of your penis or value tools to improve your sexual health and functioning, this episode is a must-listen. To have this conversation, join Dr. Judson Brandeis, an award-winning urologist, sexual medicine expert and surgeon who has committed his practice and career to sexual medicine innovations for men. Breaking down the snake oil claims of other providers, If you want to feel great, look good and have better physical intimacy, dont miss this episode. Key Topics: 00:11 Misconceptions About Penis Enlargement 02:14 Penis Enlargement Methods and Their Issues 06:42 The P Long Procedure Explained 10:18 Penis Pumps and Their Effectiveness 13:35 Understanding Peyronie's Disease 16:40 Factors Influencing Penis Size 17:43 Testosterone Levels and Modern Lifestyle 19:59 Improving Testosterone Naturally 23:58 Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) Connect with Dr.Judson Brandeis https://p-long.com/ Check out Dr. Judson's e-Books: https://brandeismd.com/ebooks/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover


