

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships
Kirsten Trammell
Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women.
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!
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Mar 14, 2025 • 16min
Snowballing: What You Need To Know About This Taboo Act
Explore the psychology behind taboo intimacy acts that create deeper connections and trust between partners. If you are curious about expanding your sexual horizons beyond conventional experiences, you will learn about snowballing, how to communicate about taboo desires, and the surprising psychological benefits. Learn why breaking sexual norms in a safe, consensual way can create profound intimacy and why many couples who explore edgier practices often report more satisfying relationships. Whether you are someone who's always been adventurous in the bedroom or someone who's just beginning to explore beyond vanilla sex, this episode has insight for you. Remember - knowing your boundaries is just as important as discovering your desires. 🍆 Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:17 Introducing Freaky Friday 00:55 Understanding Fetishes 02:25 Exploring Snowballing 06:02 Why People Enjoy Snowballing 08:29 How to Experiment Safely 12:47 Psychological Arousal and Communication 14:55 Conclusion and Next Steps

Mar 11, 2025 • 46min
The Truth About Why She Doesn't Want Sex With You
Struggling with a sexless relationship? Discover the hidden truths of female desire and how to reignite passion with expert insights. If you are in a relationship with mismatched sexual desire, you will learn about arousal archetypes, how to create better sexual communication, and understand the deeper roots of sexlessness. Learn why the type of intimacy you're having may be causing disconnection and discover practical techniques to reignite desire. Whether you are the partner wanting more sex or the one feeling pressured for intimacy, this episode has insight for you. Transform your bedroom experience by understanding what's really happening beneath the surface. 🍆 Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping Connect with Susan Morgan Taylor https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 🔔 02:01 Understanding Sexual Desire Differences 04:05 The Importance of Knowing Your Own Body 06:15 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Exploration 08:59 Identifying Arousal Maps and Blueprints 14:43 Clarifying Sexual Desires and Boundaries 22:17 Understanding the Dynamics of Sexual Pleasure 22:37 Clarifying Roles in Sexual Relationships 24:29 Exploring Direct and Indirect Pleasure 28:17 The Importance of Self-Exploration 31:40 Embracing All Emotions in Sexual Experiences 35:43 Building a Framework for Sexual Connection 37:09 Practical Steps to Enhance Sexual Pleasure

Mar 4, 2025 • 18min
The Sensational Female Sex Organ You've NEVER Heard Of
Discover the hidden pleasure zone that will revolutionize your intimate experiences and take her satisfaction to new heights! If you are a man who wants to elevate your sexual knowledge and skills, you will learn about vestibular bulbs, how to properly stimulate this overlooked erogenous zone. Learn why most women have never experienced the full potential of this erectile tissue and discover three game-changing techniques to incorporate this knowledge into your intimate encounters. Whether you are in a committed relationship or dating someone new, this episode has insight for you. The difference between good sex and mind-blowing sex isn't technique – it's understanding the full landscape of her pleasure anatomy. 🍆 Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to a Hidden Pleasure Zone 02:51 Revealing the Vestibular Bulbs 03:16 Understanding the Anatomy and Function 05:43 Why the Vestibular Bulbs Matter 07:29 Techniques for Stimulating the Vestibular Bulbs 07:57 The Triangle Technique 09:50 Using Fingers for Direct Stimulation 11:45 The Thigh Technique 13:26 Communication and Exploration 15:08 Integrating Techniques for Maximum Pleasure 16:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Feb 25, 2025 • 47min
"Nice Guy" Behaviors That Will Ruin Your Sex Life with Dr. Robert Glover
Dr. Robert Glover, author of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy,' uses over 40 years of experience to tackle the pitfalls of 'Nice Guy Syndrome.' He reveals how excessive niceness can sabotage authentic relationships and sexual fulfillment. Listeners learn why seeking approval hinders genuine connections and how to embrace vulnerability and set healthy boundaries. Glover discusses the importance of honest communication and the exploration of hidden desires, empowering men to transform shame into intimacy and live authentically.

Feb 18, 2025 • 38min
How To Stop Financial Stress From Ruining Your Sex Life
Discover the hidden link between your bank balance and bedroom confidence - here's why financial intimacy might be the key to a deeper connection. Whether you're a high-earning professional feeling disconnected in relationships or someone working to build financial confidence while dating, this episode offers insights to help you build authentic connections and have better sex. If you are struggling with relationship intimacy or dating confidence, you will learn about money trauma, how to identify your money personality and transform your relationship with finances. Learn why financial shame creates barriers to open communication and intimacy, and discover practical exercises to heal your relationship with money. Ready to transform your relationship with money and unlock deeper intimacy? This episode gives you the tools to start that process today. Connect with Shannah Game: etmpod.link/starthere Everyones Talkin Money Podcast: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ Get her new book Unraveling Your Relationship With Money by Shannah Game 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 🔔 00:00 Introduction: Money and Your Sex Life 01:00 Meet Shawna Game: Money Specialist 02:10 Financial Shame and Intimacy 07:33 Exploring Money Stories 14:55 Money Personalities and Relationships 24:10 Practical Exercises for Financial Healing 27:51 Impact of Money on Dating Choices 32:37 Common Lies About Money and Self-Worth 35:51 Conclusion: Owning Your Money Story

Feb 12, 2025 • 22min
How To Create Real Dating Success This Valentine's Day
Master authentic dating, transform single life, and create real connections beyond dating apps this Valentine's season. Ready to turn Valentine's Day from an obligation into an opportunity? If you're a single man wanting to transform your dating life, you'll learn why traditional dating strategies fail, how to build an authentic social ecosystem, and create meaningful connections that go beyond quick swipes. Whether you're newly single or have been navigating the dating scene for years, this episode provides actionable strategies to elevate your dating life- and life overall. From optimizing your dating profile to building real-world connections, discover 3 proven techniques that attract epic romantic connections Stop letting Valentine's Day make you feel less than. Start using it as a catalyst to become the man who naturally attracts the right partner. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 🔔 00:14 Navigating Valentine's Day as a Single Man 01:42 Building Your Social Ecosystem 04:51 Understanding the High Value Paradox 06:57 Redefining the First Date 09:51 Mastering Dating Apps 18:59 Valentine's Day Action Plan 21:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Feb 11, 2025 • 11min
How To Have Better Sex on Valentine's Day (For Couples)
Discover why trying to create the "perfect" Valentine's Day might be sabotaging your chances of mind-blowing sex tonight. Whether you're newly committed or in a long-term relationship, this episode shows you how to break free from performance pressure and create genuine passion this Valentines Day. From adventure-based dates to building sexual tension throughout the evening, you'll discover proven techniques to make this Valentine's Day memorable. Tune in to Learn the science behind why your fancy dinner plans might be blocking arousal and discover how creating "desire gaps" can build explosive sexual tension. Stop following the Hallmark playbook and start creating the kind of raw, authentic connection that leads to explosive sex. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 🔔 00:00 The Truth About Valentine's Day and Your Sex Life 01:26 Understanding the Pressure Problem 01:59 How Traditional Valentine's Day Expectations Fail 03:41 Creating a Passionate Valentine's Day 05:07 Transforming Pressure into Sexual Tension 06:25 Exploring New Ways to Connect 10:05 Final Thoughts and Creative Ideas

Feb 4, 2025 • 20min
How To Turn Foreplay Into Something You Enjoy
If you are tired of foreplay that doesnt build sexual connection and feels more like a "thing you have to do" to get to the good stuff- this episode is for you. If you're arelooking to spice up your sexual experiences or are tired of not knowing what to do to help your girl actually get aroused, here is where you'll learn foreplay techniques to build anticipation, create more pleasure and experience more intense orgasms. Discover why foreplay isn't just "preparation" but a crucial element for both partners' pleasure and learn specific techniques to engage your partner's entire body and mind. Whether you're struggling with rushing through foreplay or wanting to level up your intimate game, these evidence-based techniques will transform your approach to sexual connection. Stop treating foreplay as a checkbox and start creating experiences that keep her thinking about you all day long. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:10 The Power of Foreplay 01:31 Understanding Female Arousal 02:03 The Anticipation Game 05:52 Graduated Presence 09:06 The Full Body Experience 13:07 The Energy Dance 14:08 The Mental Connection 15:08 Overcoming Barriers to Foreplay 16:49 Your Foreplay Challenge

Jan 28, 2025 • 31min
3 Simple Tantric Practices For Couples To Try
Struggling to keep the passion alive? Discover why deep intimacy and mind-blowing connection require more than just being in love (hint: it's simpler than you think). If you're a man who wants to create mind-blowing intimacy that goes beyond routine sex or fleeting attraction, you'll learn practical tantric techniques, how to build deeper connection, and why having a shared purpose matters more than just being in love. Learn why identifying your mission as a couple is crucial for long-term success and discover two simple but powerful tantric practices you can try tonight. Whether you're in a long-term relationship looking to deepen your connection or single and wanting to build something meaningful, this episode offers practical wisdom to elevate your intimate life. Learn how to move beyond basic physical attraction into profound connection that keeps getting better with time. Ready to transform your relationship? Your next level of intimacy awaits. Connect With Angela Ivy Leong https://www.instagram.com/angelaivyleong/ https://anelegantmind.com/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics 01:54 Exploring the KISS Method 02:43 The Importance of Purpose in Relationships 13:06 Tantric Practices for Deeper Connection 15:04 Practical Tantric Exercises 22:51 Overcoming Sexual Shyness 26:20 The Power of Semen Retention

Jan 21, 2025 • 24min
How To Date With Integrity When Not Looking For Something Serious
Seeking authentic connection while keeping things casual? Here's your complete guide. If you're recently single or intentionally taking time before your next serious relationship, you'll learn how to create meaningful connections while maintaining clear boundaries, how to communicate your intentions with confidence, and navigate dating with both freedom and integrity. Learn the five essential questions that ensure alignment between your words and actions, and discover practical strategies for building genuine connections at your own pace. Whether you're healing from a past relationship, focused on personal growth, or simply exploring what you want, this episode provides a thoughtful framework for dating on your own terms while respecting everyone involved. Connection and clarity can coexist. Your journey is your own. Learn how to honor it authentically while creating experiences that enrich everyone involved. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Episode Key Topics: 00:17 Navigating Casual Relationships 01:39 Reflecting on Emotional Readiness 04:18 Understanding Women's Perspectives 06:53 Practical Steps for Casual Dating 12:55 Self-Reflection and Integrity 19:12 Balancing Connection and Commitment Men - We have been featured on the Top 100 Dating Podcasts! https://podcast.feedspot.com/dating_podcasts/


