

Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You
Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®
Dr. Juli Slattery sits down with guests over coffee and you get to join them. We have honest conversations about sex, marriage, intimacy, singleness, and God’s design for sexuality.
Java with Juli is an outreach of Authentic Intimacy.
Java with Juli is an outreach of Authentic Intimacy.
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Jul 28, 2025 • 37min
Single, Married, or Searching: What Are We Really Longing For?, #577
In a culture that elevates marriage, sex, and romance as the ultimate goals, many of us are left feeling unfulfilled or sidelined. Have we unknowingly made idols out of good things? In this episode, Juli unpacks how our hearts can get entangled in false narratives—even within the Church. Whether you're married, single, or discipling others, you’re invited to surrender your desires and expectations to God and find contentment on the other side. Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here.

Jul 21, 2025 • 43min
Q&A with Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo, #576
Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo tackle some of the most pressing questions surrounding faith, sexuality, and discipleship. No small talk here—just honest answers about the reality of same-sex attraction, the cost of following Jesus, and the beauty of surrender. Whether you're a pastor, parent, friend, or someone personally navigating LGBT questions, this is a must-hear conversation. Guests: Jackie Hill Perry & Laurence Koo Follow-up Resources: Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here. Follow Jackie Hill Perry at @jackiehillperry Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy

Jul 14, 2025 • 40min
How Knowing Jesus Makes You Whole, Not Perfect, #575
We’re moving from shame-based “sexual purity” to sexual integrity—the day-by-day journey of aligning your sexual choices with God’s truth. Whether you're single, married, or just asking hard questions, you’ll find hope in this episode. Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor to Authentic Intimacy today! Get your copy of Surrendered Sexuality. Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso

Jul 7, 2025 • 37min
Is God Outdated? Surrendering the Story You Believe About Sex, #574
If you’ve ever wrestled with how to reconcile your faith with your sexuality, or how God’s design seems outdated (or even unloving), this is an episode you can’t miss. Continuing in our theme of Surrendered Sexuality, Juli exposes the cultural narratives shaping how you think about sexuality — often without realizing it. Become a monthly donor and get your free copy of Surrendered Sexuality today! Or, buy your copy here.

Jun 30, 2025 • 29min
How To Trust God With the Hardest Parts of Your Story, #573
You believe God loves you—but you're afraid to trust Him with your most painful places. In this conversation, discover why surrender is one of the most courageous acts of trust—and the beginning of real healing. Plus . . . its book launch week! 🎉 Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here. Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso

Jun 23, 2025 • 36min
Surrendered Sexuality: Why God Wants More Than Just Your Behavior, #572
What if God asks you to surrender not because of what He wants to take from you, but because of what He wants to give? Grab your Java and listen in as Juli shares the core message of her new book, “Surrendered Sexuality.” Follow-up resources: Watch on YouTube Preorder your copy of “Surrendered Sexuality” Register for the Launch Party! Follow us at @authenticintimacy

Jun 16, 2025 • 34min
4 Identity Traps That Are Keeping You Stuck, #571
Discover why finding your identity in Christ isn't about changing your behavior—it's about knowing Jesus, and letting Him redefine who you are. In this episode, get a sneak peek at what’s inside Juli’s new book as she shares four identity traps that keep us stuck. Co-host: Joe Caruso Follow-up Resources: Preorder your copy of "Surrendered Sexuality" and get a FREE devotional! Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso

Jun 9, 2025 • 26min
The #1 Thing That Defines You (And It's Not What You Think), #570
What’s the most important thing about you? Get ready—this episode will challenge what you've always believed about yourself. Listen in as Juli shares why our identity must be rooted in who God says we are—not in our past, our “purity,” or our pain. Co-host: Joe Caruso, @joecaruso06 Follow-up Resources: Join our email list to stay in the know about all things related to Juli’s upcoming book, “Surrendered Sexuality.” Pre-order “Surrendered Sexuality” today!

Jun 2, 2025 • 44min
God's Design for Sexuality: Teaching Kids to Stand Firm & Love Big, #569
Want to raise faithful and loving kids in an LGBT-affirming world? This episode is one you can’t afford to skip. You don’t have to choose between truth and love—this conversation will equip you to give your kids both. Grab your Java and join us! Guest: Rachel Gilson Follow-up Resources: Parenting Without Panic in an LGBT-Affirming World by Rachel Gilson Java with Juli #312 Born Again This Way: Rachel’s Story (AI Members Only) Sign up for our email list and stay in the know about all things happening around Juli's upcoming book, Surrendered Sexuality.

May 26, 2025 • 50min
Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568
Turns out, the stuff we haven’t dealt with from childhood shows up ... right in the middle of our relationships. Sit down with Juli and Dr. Dan Allender as they discuss why we must be willing to explore our own stories in order to create safety, nurture curiosity, and repair what’s broken. Guest: Dr. Dan Allender Follow-up Resources: The Deep-Rooted Marriage by Dr. Dan Allender Java with Juli #169 Your Wounded Heart (AI Members Only) Join an Online Book Study!