
Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You
Dr. Juli Slattery sits down with guests over coffee and you get to join them. We have honest conversations about sex, marriage, intimacy, singleness, and God’s design for sexuality.
Java with Juli is an outreach of Authentic Intimacy.
Latest episodes

Jul 7, 2025 • 37min
Is God Outdated? Surrendering the Story You Believe About Sex, #574
If you’ve ever wrestled with how to reconcile your faith with your sexuality, or how God’s design seems outdated (or even unloving), this is an episode you can’t miss. Continuing in our theme of Surrendered Sexuality, Juli exposes the cultural narratives shaping how you think about sexuality — often without realizing it. Become a monthly donor and get your free copy of Surrendered Sexuality today! Or, buy your copy here.

Jun 30, 2025 • 29min
How To Trust God With the Hardest Parts of Your Story, #573
You believe God loves you—but you're afraid to trust Him with your most painful places. In this conversation, discover why surrender is one of the most courageous acts of trust—and the beginning of real healing. Plus . . . its book launch week! 🎉 Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here. Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso

Jun 23, 2025 • 36min
Surrendered Sexuality: Why God Wants More Than Just Your Behavior, #572
What if God asks you to surrender not because of what He wants to take from you, but because of what He wants to give? Grab your Java and listen in as Juli shares the core message of her new book, “Surrendered Sexuality.” Follow-up resources: Watch on YouTube Preorder your copy of “Surrendered Sexuality” Register for the Launch Party! Follow us at @authenticintimacy

Jun 16, 2025 • 34min
4 Identity Traps That Are Keeping You Stuck, #571
Discover why finding your identity in Christ isn't about changing your behavior—it's about knowing Jesus, and letting Him redefine who you are. In this episode, get a sneak peek at what’s inside Juli’s new book as she shares four identity traps that keep us stuck. Co-host: Joe Caruso Follow-up Resources: Preorder your copy of "Surrendered Sexuality" and get a FREE devotional! Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso

Jun 9, 2025 • 26min
The #1 Thing That Defines You (And It's Not What You Think), #570
What’s the most important thing about you? Get ready—this episode will challenge what you've always believed about yourself. Listen in as Juli shares why our identity must be rooted in who God says we are—not in our past, our “purity,” or our pain. Co-host: Joe Caruso, @joecaruso06 Follow-up Resources: Join our email list to stay in the know about all things related to Juli’s upcoming book, “Surrendered Sexuality.” Pre-order “Surrendered Sexuality” today!

Jun 2, 2025 • 44min
God's Design for Sexuality: Teaching Kids to Stand Firm & Love Big, #569
Want to raise faithful and loving kids in an LGBT-affirming world? This episode is one you can’t afford to skip. You don’t have to choose between truth and love—this conversation will equip you to give your kids both. Grab your Java and join us! Guest: Rachel Gilson Follow-up Resources: Parenting Without Panic in an LGBT-Affirming World by Rachel Gilson Java with Juli #312 Born Again This Way: Rachel’s Story (AI Members Only) Sign up for our email list and stay in the know about all things happening around Juli's upcoming book, Surrendered Sexuality.

May 26, 2025 • 50min
Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568
Turns out, the stuff we haven’t dealt with from childhood shows up ... right in the middle of our relationships. Sit down with Juli and Dr. Dan Allender as they discuss why we must be willing to explore our own stories in order to create safety, nurture curiosity, and repair what’s broken. Guest: Dr. Dan Allender Follow-up Resources: The Deep-Rooted Marriage by Dr. Dan Allender Java with Juli #169 Your Wounded Heart (AI Members Only) Join an Online Book Study!

May 19, 2025 • 28min
3 Myths We Believe About "Being One" In Marriage, #567
Hannah Nitz, co-host and seasoned marriage expert, shares her 15 years of experience navigating the complexities of marital oneness. They tackle the myth that becoming one means mirroring each other, emphasizing love for individuality instead. The conversation dives into the importance of trust and acceptance over the desire for change, highlighting how disagreements can coexist within a united partnership. With insights on balancing differences, especially in parenting, they present marriage as a transformative journey of personal growth and mutual support.

May 12, 2025 • 46min
AI & Porn: The Attachment Crisis No One Sees Coming, #566
In this engaging conversation, Jonathan Daugherty from Be Broken Ministries shares his journey through pornography addiction and recovery, while Joel Warnicking from 423 Communities sheds light on how AI is altering the landscape of adult content. They discuss the increasing dehumanization associated with modern porn and the illusion of intimacy it creates. The pair also emphasize the importance of community support for healing and how technology complicates our understanding of relationships, offering hope for those navigating these challenges.

May 5, 2025 • 48min
How to (Really) Love Your Neighbor with Jada Edwards, Ep. #565
The relationships you struggle with the most? This episode is for those. Juli sits down with Bible teacher Jada Edwards to share stories about the ways they’ve fallen short when it comes to loving others, and how God has transformed their understanding of what it means to love the way He does. (Spoiler alert: Sometimes the best way to learn love is to start with the person who bugs you the most.) Guest: Jada Edwards (@jada_edwards) Resources: Sign up for our email list and stay in the know! Jada’s book: A New Way to Love Your Neighbor How to Have Tough Conversations (blog) Encountering the Radical Love of Jesus (blog) AI Members Only: Why “Love Is Love” Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means, Ep. #401