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Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®
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Aug 25, 2025 • 45min

Why Telling Your Story is Complex, Courageous and Healing, #353

The power of abuse lies in secrecy. The power of healing begins with telling. In this episode, Tim Hein shares his story of surviving childhood sexual abuse and the journey of healing. From the courage it takes to break the silence, to the importance of being believed, to the steps of recovery that lead to restoration, Tim offers raw honesty and hard-earned wisdom. He reflects on how trauma shaped his life, marriage, and faith—and how choosing to tell your story is ultimately an act of self-love and grace. This hopeful conversation offers encouragement for survivors and practical insight for those who walk alongside them. Guest: Tim Hein Join an Authentic Intimacy Online Book Study! Follow us or leave us a rating & review in your favorite podcast app. Follow-Up Resources: Understanding Sexual Abuse: A Guide for Ministry Leaders and Survivors by Tim Hein Blog: God's Healing Stinks by Dr. Juli Slattery Video Q&A: Past sexual trauma keeps me from enjoying sex. Is there hope that I can heal? Blog: How to Choose a Wise Counselor by Dr. Juli Slattery
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Aug 18, 2025 • 40min

Good Girls, Bad Books: Erotica in Young Adult Fiction?, #579

Juli and her guests explore the infiltration of erotica and LGBTQ themes into young adult fiction. From board books to bestselling novels, today's literature isn't what it used to be—and parents are the last to know. You'll hear stories from the frontlines and get practical tools to help you navigate today's fiction. Whether you're raising toddlers or talking with teens, this is a conversation every parent, teacher, and youth leader needs to hear. Guests: Greta Eskridge and Korrie Johnson Follow-Up Resources: It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn: A Parent's Guide to Helping Children and Teens Develop Sexual Integrity by Greta Eskridge Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy and the Longings of a Woman's Heart by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dannah Gresh Good Book Mom Plugged In Redeemed Reader Read Aloud Revival
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Aug 11, 2025 • 38min

What Your Husband Wishes You Knew About Sex, #126

Have you ever wanted to get inside the mind of your man–just for a day? Now's your chance! Juli and Hannah sit down with pastor and author Chip Ingram to find out what husbands wish their wives knew about sex. From why men fear rejection more than they let on, to how wives misunderstand their husbands' need for connection, this conversation is filled with eye-opening insight and practical wisdom. Guest: Chip Ingram, Co-host: Hannah Nitz Follow us in your favorite podcast app. Join an online book study today! Resources: God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery Blog: Struggling with Sexual Intimacy? You Might Need a "Sex Break" Blog: Are You Entitled to "Good" Sex in Marriage? Blog: 5 Healthy Ways to Respond to Your Husband's Porn Problem Q&A: What Should I Do If I Discover My Spouse Is Looking at Porn? Q&A: Does My Spouse Watch Porn Because of Me? Find more resources at www.authenticintimacy.com Follow us on social media at @authenticintimacy Follow Chip Ingram at @chip_ingram
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Aug 4, 2025 • 35min

From Head to Heart: Why Love Changes Everything, #578

If loving God (or others) has felt hard or risky, this episode is for you. Join Juli and Hannah to discover why surrendering to love is not weakness—it's the first step toward knowing the One whose love sets you free. Drawing from scripture and real-life tension in the Church today, they unpack how Christians are called to love in three radical ways: our neighbors, the family of God, and even our enemies. Co-host: Hannah Nitz Follow-up Resources: Get your copy of Surrendered Sexuality now! Find more resources at authenticintimacy.com Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy Follow Hannah Nitz at @hannahnitz
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Jul 28, 2025 • 37min

Single, Married, or Searching: What Are We Really Longing For?, #577

In a culture that elevates marriage, sex, and romance as the ultimate goals, many of us are left feeling unfulfilled or sidelined. Have we unknowingly made idols out of good things? In this episode, Juli unpacks how our hearts can get entangled in false narratives—even within the Church. Whether you're married, single, or discipling others, you're invited to surrender your desires and expectations to God and find contentment on the other side. Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here.
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Jul 21, 2025 • 43min

Q&A with Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo, #576

Jackie Hill Perry and Laurence Koo tackle some of the most pressing questions surrounding faith, sexuality, and discipleship. No small talk here—just honest answers about the reality of same-sex attraction, the cost of following Jesus, and the beauty of surrender. Whether you're a pastor, parent, friend, or someone personally navigating LGBT questions, this is a must-hear conversation. Guests: Jackie Hill Perry & Laurence Koo Follow-up Resources: Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here. Follow Jackie Hill Perry at @jackiehillperry Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy
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Jul 14, 2025 • 40min

How Knowing Jesus Makes You Whole, Not Perfect, #575

We're moving from shame-based "sexual purity" to sexual integrity—the day-by-day journey of aligning your sexual choices with God's truth. Whether you're single, married, or just asking hard questions, you'll find hope in this episode. Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor to Authentic Intimacy today! Get your copy of Surrendered Sexuality. Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso
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Jul 7, 2025 • 37min

Is God Outdated? Surrendering the Story You Believe About Sex, #574

If you've ever wrestled with how to reconcile your faith with your sexuality, or how God's design seems outdated (or even unloving), this is an episode you can't miss. Continuing in our theme of Surrendered Sexuality, Juli exposes the cultural narratives shaping how you think about sexuality — often without realizing it. Become a monthly donor and get your free copy of Surrendered Sexuality today! Or, buy your copy here.
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Jun 30, 2025 • 29min

How To Trust God With the Hardest Parts of Your Story, #573

You believe God loves you—but you're afraid to trust Him with your most painful places. In this conversation, discover why surrender is one of the most courageous acts of trust—and the beginning of real healing. Plus . . . its book launch week! 🎉 Co-host: Joe Caruso Become a monthly donor and get a free copy of Surrendered Sexuality! Or, buy your copy here. Follow Authentic Intimacy Follow Joe Caruso
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Jun 23, 2025 • 36min

Surrendered Sexuality: Why God Wants More Than Just Your Behavior, #572

What if God asks you to surrender not because of what He wants to take from you, but because of what He wants to give? Grab your Java and listen in as Juli shares the core message of her new book, "Surrendered Sexuality." Follow-up resources: Watch on YouTube Preorder your copy of "Surrendered Sexuality" Register for the Launch Party! Follow us at @authenticintimacy

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