Java with Juli - Making Sense of God & Sex

When a marriage is in crisis, it can be hard to know what the next step should be. Is divorce the only option? Are there other steps available that couples often miss? Dr. Greg Smalley, Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family, joins Juli to talk about some of the options couples can explore.     Guest: Dr. Greg Smalley     Focus on the Family Website   Java with Juli: #489 Thinking About Divorce? You Might Want to Listen to This First Java with Juli: #519 Why we Need to be Better at Caring for Divorced People in the Church   Blog: Why and How to Pursue a Healing Separation Blog: Is Divorce the Right Answer?   Become a member!   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

It’s reported that 20-30% of marriages have a higher-desire wife and lower-desire husband. This means that while many women may wish their husbands requested less sex, there are also many women who experience the opposite. For the woman who wants her husband to want sex a little more, Sheri Mueller, LCPC, author of “I Want Him to Want Me”, joins Juli to share insights, wisdom, and encouragement.   Guest: Sheri Mueller, LCPC   Sheri’s Website: marriagetrac.com Sheri’s Instagram: @growthtrac   Book: I Want Him to Want Me by Sheri Mueller, LCPC Blog: Why Christians Need to Care About Sex   Missed last week’s episode? Listen to it here.   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

What secret are you keeping? Many of us keep secrets to protect ourselves. But secrets also hide us from others. They can prevent us from being fully known and fully loved. Jason VanRuler, author of “Get Past Your Past”, joins Juli to share some insights about secrecy and why it’s worth us living in the light.   Guest: Jason VanRuler   Website: jasonvr.com Instagram: @jason.vanruler   Book: Get Past Your Past by Jason VanRuler   Java with Juli: #539 The Impact Of Shame And How To Overcome It   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

In this insightful discussion, Jess Seitz, a trauma-informed pelvic health practitioner, shares her journey overcoming eight years of painful sex. She highlights the misconceptions women face, such as trivial advice and lack of genuine solutions. Jess emphasizes the importance of a holistic healing approach, integrating physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects. She also explores how faith and support can transform intimacy within marriages, and encourages open communication about sexual pain to break the cycle of discomfort and isolation.

Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, reveals shocking findings from a Barna Group study on pornography use, including its prevalence in the church. He discusses the harmful effects of porn addiction and emphasizes the importance of community support for healing. Stumbo advocates for open conversations about sexuality within church contexts, highlighting the necessity of safe spaces for education and recovery. He shares valuable resources that can help individuals and leaders navigate the challenges surrounding pornography.

What does it take to have good friendships, healthy family relationships, or a strong marriage? John Van Epp, creator of the RAM theoretical model, has some strong and well-researched ideas about what it takes to make your relationships stronger than ever.   Guest: Dr. John Van Epp   John’s Website: lovethinks.com Book: Endgame: The Church's Strategic Move to Save Faith and Family in America by John Van Epp and J.P. De Gance Book: Becoming Better Together  by John Van Epp Website: ramseries.com   Java with Juli: #539 The Impact Of Shame And How To Overcome It   Learn more about online book studies   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Talking about sex and sexual issues with your spouse can be intimidating. Dr Corey Allan breaks down why discussing sex can be challenging for married couples, and what husbands and wives can do about it.   Corey’s Website: smr.fm Corey’s Instagram: @sexymarriageradio   Explore more resources on sex in marriage!   Java with Juli: #528 The 3 Superpowers Your Sex Life is Missing Java with Juli: #534 Four Surprising Things Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive Blog: How To Talk to Your Spouse About Sex   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Juli and Hannah answer your questions about sex and singleness in this week’s special Java with Juli episode.   Hannah’s Website: hannahnitz.com Hannah’s Instagram: @hannahnitz   Explore resources on Singleness and Dating   Check out our online book studies!   Partner with Authentic Intimacy— donate today!   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Raising your kids to love and know Jesus has never been easy, and in a culture saturated with messages about human sexuality, it can feel next to impossible to raise your kids with biblical values and a Christian sexual ethic. How do we effectively disciple our kids? Dr. George Barna, founder of the Barna Group and America’s foremost faith and culture researcher, joins Juli to talk about his new book, “Raising Spiritual Champions”, and what parents can do to equip their kids with a robust faith.   Website: georgebarna.com Book: Raising Spiritual Champions by Dr. George Barna   Trying to teach your kids about Christian sexuality? Check out our free resource, “10 Questions and Answers Your Child May Ask About Sexuality”   Partner with Authentic Intimacy— donate today!   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

How do you know you’ve started menopause? Can you get pregnant during menopause? What happens to your sex drive during menopause? Experts Dr. Debra Taylor, LMFT and Dr. Michael Sytsma, CST, CPS, join Juli to share some crucial information about menopause, options for easing symptoms, and how husbands can be sympathetic supporters at this pivotal moment in a woman’s life.   Guests: Dr. Debra Taylor, LMFT and Dr. Michael Sytsma, CST, CPS   Debra’s Website: debraltaylortherapy.com Mike’s Website: intimatemarriage.org Mike’s Instagram: @buildingintimatemarriages @drsytsma   Find out more about our Online Book Study groups! Partner with Authentic Intimacy!   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.