Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're Asking Us, #407
Jan 12, 2026
Hannah Nitz, a contributor and co-host passionate about sexuality and Christian discipleship, dives into the often-taboo subject of masturbation. The discussion reveals that it's not just about right or wrong but requires nuance and spiritual maturity. They explore biblical references, separating masturbation from lust and pornography while addressing its role in both single and married lives. The conversation sheds light on how to disciple young people in managing sexual desires, suggesting healthier alternatives for emotional comfort and discussing when masturbation can positively affect marriage.
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Awkward Live Q&A Moment
- Juli Slattery accidentally answered a masturbation question live while her son crawled to the printer behind her. The moment became an awkward real-life illustration of how private this topic often feels.
Onan Story Is Often Misread
- The Bible never explicitly mentions masturbation and the Onan story is often misunderstood. Juli explains Onan's sin was refusing levirate duty, not a general statement about masturbation.
Mind Matters More Than Mechanics
- Masturbation differs from porn and lustful fantasy because Scripture addresses lust of the heart and mind explicitly. Jesus taught that lustful looking equals heart-level adultery, making mental imagery morally relevant.
