The Art of Love With Lucia
Lucia
Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!
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Aug 27, 2025 • 9min
Why No Contact Pulls Avoidants Back EVERY Time
Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it’s because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You’ll learn why avoidants don’t miss you while you’re still reaching out, the stages they go through after a breakup, and the two main reasons they eventually return—even if it takes longer than you’d like.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #BreakupPsychology #EmotionalUnavailability #FearOfIntimacy #GetExBack #NoContact
Aug 20, 2025 • 9min
Does Breaking No Contact Ever Work?
Tempted to break no contact? Don't do it until you listen to this episode!Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when breaking it might lead to reconciliation and when it's almost guaranteed to backfire.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #breakupadvice #exback #getexback #nocontactrule
Aug 13, 2025 • 13min
Is Your Ex REALLY Gone Forever ?
"No chance" doesn't mean it's over. In this episode, find out how to take back control and shift the way your ex sees you - so they may start rethinking the breakup.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shows you exactly how to change the dynamic, build attraction and create the best chance of getting them back. Press play to discover how to turn things around.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#GetYourExBack #BreakupAdvice #NoContactRule #SecondChances
Aug 6, 2025 • 12min
How Avoidants React When They Lose Someone Who Really Loved Them
Were you broken up with or had to walk away from an avoidant? Do you wonder if they miss you and regret to break up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens when someone with avoidant attachment realize they lost someone irreplaceable. Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #BreakupPsychology #EmotionalUnavailability #FearOfIntimacy
Jul 30, 2025 • 10min
What Avoidants SECRETLY Hope For When You Go No Contact
Think avoidants aren't affected by no contact? Think again! In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 things they secretly hope for when you leave them alone after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #NoContactRule #AttachmentTheory #BreakupRecovery
Jul 23, 2025 • 12min
Why No Contact Hurts Like Hell (And How To Survive)
Struggling with no contact? If you have an anxious attachment style, silence from your ex can feel like physical pain.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why no contact is so hard for you and the dopamine hacks to use to rewire your nervous system.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hello on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #anxiousattachment #getexback
Jul 16, 2025 • 10min
No Contact Ended - Now Don’t RUIN It
Your ex finally reached out after no contact! This is where most people screw it up!Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why most people mess it up when they hear from their ex and how to not be one of them!Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hello on Instagram!#nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule
Jul 9, 2025 • 10min
Is My Ex Gone For Good?
Is your ex REALLY gone forever? Or will they return?Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the clear signs your ex is gone for good vs. the hidden clues they might return.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule
Jul 2, 2025 • 16min
The Rules Of No Contact (2025 Update)
Struggling with no contact? The rules have evolved! Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the new 2025 no contact rules to help you get your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book#nocontact #nocontactrule #exback #getexback
Jun 21, 2025 • 11min
Avoidant Ex Regret Timeline: When They Actually Start To Miss You
Avoidant partners often appear cold or indifferent after a breakup. Does that mean they don't care?Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the psychology and regret timeline of avoidant exes.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book
