

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych
Robert Duff, Ph.D.
Hey, friends! My name is Robert. I am a neuropsychologist and self-help author. In this podcast, I interview fascinating individuals and provide information about psychology, mental health, neuroscience, relationships, and more. I have been told that I ask amazing questions and that I am talented at breaking down complex science into digestible information. Come have a listen and let me know if you agree!
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Mar 28, 2025 • 1min
An Update From Robert
Just a quick update! Back to regularly scheduled programming next week!

Mar 14, 2025 • 39min
Chapter From My NEW BOOK - Bipolar Answers
Pre-Order Bipolar Answers https://www.amazon.com/Bipolar-Answers-Questions-Answered-Psychologist-ebook/dp/B0F1DW5WQZ/ In this special episode, Dr. Robert Duff announces the pre-order launch of his latest book, Bipolar Answers: Questions from Real People Answered by a Real Psychologist. To celebrate, he provides listeners with an exclusive reading of the book's introduction and one full chapter, giving a firsthand look at what to expect. This book is built from real questions asked on The Hardcore Self Help Podcast, expanded with deeper insights, case studies, and practical strategies for managing bipolar disorder. Dr. Duff shares details about the book's structure, how it tackles common misconceptions, and why he felt compelled to write it. He also reads a powerful chapter about navigating college after a bipolar episode, offering valuable guidance on advocacy, accommodations, and resilience. Timestamps: [00:00] – Introduction and book announcement: Bipolar Answers is now available for pre-order on Amazon! [02:00] – What the book covers: real questions, practical answers, case studies, and clear explanations. [03:00] – Full reading of the book's introduction, covering the basics of bipolar disorder, diagnostic criteria, and case study of Olivia, a professional managing bipolar I. [18:00] – Full chapter reading: Navigating college after a bipolar episode. [24:00] – The importance of self-advocacy, understanding accommodations, and legal rights for students and employees with bipolar disorder. [37:00] – Encouragement and final thoughts: Pre-order now and stay tuned for updates on the print and audiobook releases. Key Takeaways: Bipolar Answers is designed to cut through misinformation and offer real, actionable advice. Bipolar disorder is complex and often misunderstood—this book provides a clear and stigma-free breakdown. Returning to school or work after a bipolar episode can be daunting, but knowing your rights and advocating for yourself can make all the difference. The book includes real-life examples, diagnostic clarifications, and practical tools for individuals living with bipolar and those supporting them. Connect with Dr. Robert Duff: Website: https://www.duffthepsych.com Email: duffthepsych@gmail.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@duffthepsych Instagram: https://instagram.com/duffthepsych If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might find it helpful! Your support means the world.

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Mar 7, 2025 • 33min
433: Stuck in Trauma & Embarrassed by Emotional Reactions
Dive into the complexities of PTSD and trauma responses. Explore how living environments can trigger overwhelming emotions and the struggle to break free from those triggers. Gain practical strategies for managing emotional reactions in public and reducing feelings of embarrassment. Learn about the value of trauma-informed therapy, journaling for self-reflection, and using gratitude to foster connections. This conversation offers compassionate insights to help navigate the rocky path of healing and self-acceptance.

Feb 28, 2025 • 1h 9min
432: What is High-Functioning Codependency? Terri Cole
Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist and boundary expert, shares her journey from talent agent to therapist, motivated by her own struggles with codependency. She defines high-functioning codependency and discusses its roots in childhood and societal expectations. Terri offers practical tools for recognizing and breaking free from these patterns, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and self-awareness. The conversation also addresses the complexities of family dynamics amidst political discord, providing strategies for maintaining harmony.

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Feb 21, 2025 • 29min
431: Pathological Demand Avoidance & Persistent Low-Grade Depression
Explore the complexities of Pathological Demand Avoidance and its impact on coaching neurodivergent individuals. Discover practical strategies for fostering autonomy and collaboration in challenging situations. Shift focus to Persistent Low-Grade Depression, where insights on behavioral activation shine as an effective treatment approach. Delve into innovative therapies for treatment-resistant cases, while underscoring the importance of hope and identity in one’s journey towards mental wellness.

Feb 7, 2025 • 55min
430: The Truth About Recovery with Dr. Mala
Dr. Malasri Chaudhery-Malgeri, known as Dr. Mala, is the Chief Clinical Officer at recovery.com, where she fuses Western psychology with Eastern philosophies in addiction recovery. She shares her personal journey into this field and emphasizes the importance of holistic, individualized treatment. Dr. Mala discusses the non-linear nature of recovery and the role of trauma in shaping her approach. She advocates for breaking stigma surrounding addiction and highlights innovative treatments like virtual therapy, yoga, and adventure therapy.

Jan 31, 2025 • 29min
429: Coping with the Cruel World & Enduring Heartbreak
This episode tackles the serious impact of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation on a trans man’s mental health. The discussion covers coping strategies for doomscrolling and the importance of finding supportive communities. It also dives deep into the heartbreak of losing a best friend due to unrequited love, providing insights on handling grief and regret. Practical tips for self-care and rebuilding one's life amidst emotional turmoil are highlighted, offering listeners validation and support through personal challenges.

Jan 24, 2025 • 1h 10min
428: Overcoming Self-Hatred with Dr. Blaise Aguirre
Dr. Blaise Aguirre, a world-renowned psychiatrist and DBT expert, dives deep into the complexities of self-hatred. He discusses how self-hatred often stems from early life experiences and differs from self-criticism. Dr. Aguirre shares practical tools for healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing toxic relationships and identifying the roots of these damaging beliefs. With insights from his upcoming book, he highlights the transformative power of dialectical behavior therapy and the critical role of compassionate treatment for those struggling with self-loathing.

Jan 17, 2025 • 27min
427: THE Guided Meditation you need for 2025
Join an immersive journey through a guided meditation that encourages letting go of mental burdens. Experience vivid visualizations aboard a futuristic spacecraft, navigating the calmness of the cosmos. Engage in intentional breathing exercises to release tension and find clarity. The session is designed for anyone seeking mental reset, whether a meditation novice or a pro. This tangible exploration of your inner space fosters healing and reconnection, perfect for overcoming January stressors.

Jan 10, 2025 • 53min
426: How to Find Purpose and Not Regret Your Life with Jordan Grumet
Dr. Jordan Grumet, a hospice director and author, discusses finding meaning through 'little p purpose' in life. He shares insights from his book, encouraging listeners to transform regrets into motivations and focus on daily actions that bring joy. Grumet reflects on his personal journey shaped by loss and emphasizes the importance of pursuing passions over societal pressures. He also sheds light on lessons learned from hospice care, highlighting the value of living intentionally. This conversation is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone seeking fulfillment and joy.


