

Coaching Culture
Coaching Culture Podcast
A podcast for leaders and coaches sharing practical strategies and tools to build your team's culture and help you grow as a leader. Co-hosted by J.P. Nerbun and Nate Sanderson of TOC Culture Consulting, and Betsy Butterick. Get the podcast notes and learn more about us at tocculture.com
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May 14, 2023 • 51min
296 It's NOT Just a Game- How to Focus on BOTH Winning AND Purpose
In this episode, JP and Nate discuss two contrasting perspectives held by sports enthusiasts. On one side, there are those who believe that there is no such thing as failure in sports, but rather continuous progress and valuable lessons to be learned. On the other side, there are individuals who emphasize that the scoreboard is the ultimate determinant of success. Our hosts explore the question of whether coaches, players, and organizations can genuinely prioritize both winning and purpose in their approach.
√ It’s more than a game, but not a true measure of worth
√ “There is no failure in sports” (Giannis Antetokounmpo)
√ Differences in approach: John Wooden vs Dave Brandt
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May 7, 2023 • 31min
295 Dusty May on How to Embrace Personal Growth and Development as a Busy Leader
JP and Nate are joined by special guest Dusty May, the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team for Part 2 of this conversation. Coach May led his team to make history in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. Dusty shares more about his personal journey and how he navigates the rapidly-changing landscape of college sports, while staying committed to leading every day.
√ Accept the evolution of expectations and operations
√ Value people, character, and consistency
√ Staying the course vs. stockpiling talent
Guest Twitter: @CoachDustyMay
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Apr 30, 2023 • 48min
294 Dusty May on his Leadership Style that Took FAU from Underdog Status to the Final Four
Coaches are always looking for inspiration and the secrets of successful coaches, especially those from unexpected places. In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Dusty May, who is the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team. Coach May and his Owl’s made history this year in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. As a lifelong learner, Dusty reached out to JP after reading Calling Up. Dusty shares some of his journey and what he attributes to his growth and most notably recent success.
√ Make people aware of leadership strengths & weaknesses
√ Using confidentiality is more effective than confrontation
√ Culture evidence shows up in the quality of conversations
Guest Twitter: @CoachDustyMay
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Apr 23, 2023 • 39min
293 Truth Talk: Unlocking Honest Conversations without Straining Relationships
Awareness leads to responsibility. Responsibility leads to growth. It is our responsibility as coaches to get our players to the truth so that we can help them maximize their growth. Many times, coaches are fighting against the inaccurate voices that influence players outside of the program. JP and Nate discuss many best practices to enhance the player-coach relationship.
√ Accept reality so that perception is accurate
√ The cost of candor vs. the cost of kindness
√ The false narrative from the board of advisors
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Apr 16, 2023 • 55min
292 Anson Dorrance on Accountability, Playing Time, Valuing Every Player, Helping Players Get to the Truth, and Working with Parents
The fight against mediocrity is taxing. It is even more taxing from a leadership perspective where you can’t just take care of yourself, you have to inspire the ones around you to follow your example. In this episode, JP and Nate continue the conversation with special guest Anson Dorrance, the longtime head coach of the women’s soccer program at the University of North Carolina. He has one of the most successful coaching records in the history of athletics and with Dorrance's guidance, the Tar Heels have won numerous NCAA Women's Soccer Championships.
√ Do not make playing time complex or subjective
√ Coaches oftentimes owe the parents a thank you
√ Get people and players to the truth as fast as possible
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Apr 9, 2023 • 46min
291 Anson Dorrance on Creating a Competitive Cauldron, Peer Evaluations, and Challenging the Fragility of Today’s Athletes
The climate for developing players is better when competition exists. In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Anson Dorrance, the longtime head coach of the women’s soccer program at the University of North Carolina. He has one of the most successful coaching records in the history of athletics. Under Dorrance's leadership, the Tar Heels have won numerous NCAA Women's Soccer Championships.
√ Lessons from UNC coaching legend, Dean Smith
√ Design a program you would want to play in
√ Target alphas, not lowest common denominators
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Apr 2, 2023 • 45min
290 Creating Your Own Coach Development Plan
How do you get better at coaching when you aren't coaching? Similar to our desire as coaches for players to grow out-of-season in various areas of their lives and sport, we too must take ownership of our development beyond the sidelines. In this episode, JP and Nate discuss the harsh realities of problems in programs and where fault falls. They share ways to develop solutions personally and professionally.
√ Whose fault is it and does it really matter?
√ Psychological safety: A non-negotiable
√ The gift of transparency & vulnerability
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Mar 26, 2023 • 31min
289 Helping Others Pursue Excellence with Ryan Hawk, Part 2
In this episode (Part 2 of 2), JP and Nate continue the conversation with special guest Ryan Hawk. Ryan was formerly the quarterback at Miami University. After finishing his playing career, he started The Learning Leader Show (Podcast). He is the author of two books - Welcome to Management: How To Grow From Top Performer To Excellent Leader and The Pursuit of Excellence: The Uncommon Behaviors of The World’s Most Productive Achievers. Working his way up from an entry-level salesman, he is now an author, podcast host, and also a consultant.
√ It’s more than just executing the offense
√ Have strong beliefs, weakly held
√ Outwork your self-doubt
Guest Twitter: @RyanHawk12
Ryan’s Newest Book: The Pursuit of Excellence: The Uncommon Behaviors of the World's Most Productive Achievers
Get Your Copy of JP's Newest Book, The Culture System, now.
Become Part of Our 1:1 Coaching Program (Click here for more information).
Do you want to learn more about how we can support you and your team? Get in touch with us here.
Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to Our Weekly Newsletter.
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Mar 19, 2023 • 35min
288 The Pursuit of Excellence with Ryan Hawk, Part 1
In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Ryan Hawk. He was formerly the quarterback at Miami University. After finishing his playing career, he started The Learning Leader Show (Podcast). Ryan is the author of two books - Welcome to Management: How To Grow From Top Performer To Excellent Leader and The Pursuit of Excellence: The Uncommon Behaviors of The World’s Most Productive Achievers. Working his way up from an entry-level salesman, he is now an author, podcast host, and also a consultant.
√ Inspire others to value & pursue excellence
√ Learn how to become a Learning Machine
√ Lead yourself so that you can lead others
Guest Twitter: @RyanHawk12
Ryan’s Newest Book: The Pursuit of Excellence: The Uncommon Behaviors of the World's Most Productive Achievers
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Mar 12, 2023 • 36min
287 Getting Intentional in Your Post Season Review
Dive into the world of coaching as JP and Nate highlight the importance of intentional reflection at season's end. They explore how evaluating decisions, much like poker strategy, can enhance outcomes. Coaches are encouraged to gather diverse feedback and manage their time wisely. The conversation emphasizes the 1% rule—refining existing practices instead of adding new ones for efficiency. Ultimately, they advocate for a supportive environment through thoughtful communication and exit interviews with players, promoting genuine growth.


