
Conversations with a Dom
A podcast for the sexually curious and hedonistic adventurers, by the people behind KinkyEvents.co.uk. Feel empowered sexually, and learn about kink, BDSM and Dom/sub dynamics. Chief (a male Dom) and Moineau (a female sub) discuss everything from events they've been to, to advice on starting a D/s relationship, becoming comfortable with your sexuality, getting your partner to be more dominant, explaining the world of D/s for newbies, and some killer tips for the more experienced kinksters amongst you. The show contains adult themes, strong language, and discussions of sexual activity.
Latest episodes

Jun 3, 2023 • 48min
E29: How Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies?
Dive into the intriguing world of sexual fantasies as the hosts analyze a revealing study on what constitutes 'unusual' desires. They explore how gender influences fantasies, discussing men's preference for multiple partners versus women's inclinations. The conversation touches on unconventional themes, including water play, while debunking societal stigmas. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their fantasies, knowing many are more common than they think. Get ready for a humorous and enlightening exploration of kink!

May 15, 2023 • 32min
E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)
Exploring BDSM can be thrilling yet daunting for beginners. Common mistakes can lead to emotional turmoil, but clear communication and understanding are key to avoiding pitfalls. This discussion emphasizes the importance of defining personal desires, creating a sex menu, and recognizing red flags for safety. Building a supportive community is vital, as well as practicing self-compassion on this journey. It's all about balancing exploration with emotional health and celebrating growth in the kink world.

May 8, 2023 • 51min
E27: Spring Swinging Shenanigans at the Venus Star Resort in Maspalomas, Gran Canaria
Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, visit the accompanying Kinky Events article.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

May 1, 2023 • 44min
E26: Divine Darkness Party Review & Spring BDSM Scene Ideas
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, and a favourite new activity - face f*cking. Listen along for spicy tips to incorporate into your power play dynamic and get a sense of what really happens in a real-life D/s relationship.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Apr 24, 2023 • 36min
E25: Swinging Pineapples, Kinky Conundrums, and Reader Questions
Exploring transitioning from Master/slave to Daddy Dom/Little dynamics, kinky conundrums like swinging pineapples, communication in mismatched kinky desires, and community safety measures in BDSM relationships.

Apr 17, 2023 • 37min
E24: Divine Darkness with Special Guest Mistress Jayne
London-based Dominant Mistress Jayne discusses her journey in BDSM, emphasizing safe exploration, healing past trauma, power dynamics, and the importance of communication and education in BDSM relationships.

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Apr 10, 2023 • 35min
E23: 9 Powerful Techniques to Supercharge Your Dominance and Drive your Submissive Wild
Explore tips and techniques for enhancing dominance and pleasure in BDSM dynamics. Learn about edging, teasing, orgasm denial, and arousal techniques. Discover the importance of communication, consent, and self-exploration for a fulfilling BDSM experience.

Mar 9, 2023 • 35min
E22: How Herpes Simplex Virus Impacts D/s with Guest Emily
Guest Emily shares her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for HSV. Topics include symptoms and transmission of HSV, impact on play with her Dom, navigating stigma, intimacy in D/s relationships, community support, and importance of seeking medical attention for HSV.

Jan 29, 2023 • 1h 4min
E21: All about DDlg and CGl (Warning: May be triggering to some)
Delving into DDlg and CGl, the podcast explores psychology, introducing kink into relationships, and discussing sensitive topics like childhood trauma. It also dives into dominance dynamics, taboo fantasies in BDSM, and the importance of trust and communication in intimate relationships within the BDSM community.

Jan 22, 2023 • 51min
E20: London Alternative Market, Punishments, Consent, and ChatGPT
Exploring the London Alternative Market, consent complexities in BDSM, the grey area of punishments, and ChatGPT's knowledge of BDSM are discussed in this intriguing podcast episode.
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