E21: All about DDlg and CGl (Warning: May be triggering to some)
Jan 29, 2023
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Delving into DDlg and CGl, the podcast explores psychology, introducing kink into relationships, and discussing sensitive topics like childhood trauma. It also dives into dominance dynamics, taboo fantasies in BDSM, and the importance of trust and communication in intimate relationships within the BDSM community.
DDLG/CGL explores dominance and care-giving roles with age play distinction.
Little space can evoke joy but may trigger childhood trauma.
Communication is vital for navigating taboo fantasies with trust and respect.
Deep dives
Understanding DDLG/CGL Dynamics
DDLG, also known as Daddy Dom/Little Girl, or CGL/Caregiver Little, explores dominance and care-giving roles within relationships. The dominant takes on a parental role, offering care and nurturing, while the little embraces a more vulnerable, childlike persona. Age play may or may not be included, highlighting a mental space of reduced adult responsibilities and stress. It's crucial to differentiate between age play and pedophilia, ensuring a safe and consensual exploration within the DDLG/CGL dynamic.
Exploring Emotional Components and Trauma
Embracing a little space can evoke joy and wonder, akin to childhood experiences. However, diving into this space may also stir up deep-seated childhood trauma. Some individuals may struggle to fully engage in little space due to fears of confronting past wounds. The dynamics of regression and age play can act as coping mechanisms, offering a mental escape from adult responsibilities.
Navigating Taboo Fantasies and Role Play
Fantasies, such as incest role play, or rape fantasies, present complex and controversial aspects within BDSM dynamics. Participants find allure in forbidden or non-consensual scenarios as part of consensual adult play. Discussion emphasizes the importance of clear boundaries, trust, and mutual understanding to navigate and safely explore these taboo fantasies.
Communication, Trust, and Limits
Open and honest communication plays a crucial role in discussing and exploring taboo kinks and fantasies. Partners must establish mutual trust, respect, and clear boundaries to ensure a safe and consensual dynamic. Trusting your partner with vulnerable desires requires emotional maturity, empathy, and a deep understanding of each other's needs.
Educating and Respecting Personal Boundaries
When revealing taboo kinks, educate your partner on the origins and desires behind these fantasies. Disgust or judgment may stem from lack of information rather than intrinsic beliefs. Partners need to approach discussions with empathy, openness, and a willingness to learn, balancing personal boundaries and understanding with mutual respect.
*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it.
Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and parental wounds, which can be very sensitive topics. Please proceed with caution if these are triggering for you.
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