Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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May 28, 2025 • 36min
Episode 586: You're in Two Different Relationships and Both Aren't Working
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's the toxic one after having an affair with her married coworker
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May 26, 2025 • 36min
Episode 585: Am I Doomed to Be Isolated With Kids in The Midwest?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling lost, afraid, and like she's running out of time
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May 23, 2025 • 37min
Episode 584: Do I Owe My Father Forgiveness?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose wondering if she should reconnect with her estranged father
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May 21, 2025 • 29min
Episode 583: He *Always* Picks Up When His Mom Calls
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is talking to his mom ALL THE TIME
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May 19, 2025 • 30min
Episode 582: So...My New Boyfriend Doesn't Tip
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is a terrible tipper
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May 16, 2025 • 31min
Episode 581: Now I Have to See Him at the Gym 6 Days a Week :(
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to hold space for the complex person his ex is
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May 14, 2025 • 38min
Episode 580: Navigating a Twenty Year Age Gap
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is concerned about the future of their relationship with someone who is 20 years older than them
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May 12, 2025 • 33min
Episode 579: But...I Don't Want To Set My Friend Up With My Crush!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want her friend to date her crush
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May 9, 2025 • 38min
Episode 578: Can You Prioritize Yourself While Trying to Save This Relationship?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose shared about her addiction with her partner and he didn't handle it well
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May 7, 2025 • 25min
Episode 577: My Friend with Benefits Caught Feelings!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose former friend with benefits is hurt that she broke things off
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