Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
Episodes
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May 5, 2025 • 39min
Episode 576: Fumbly Chemistry or Sexual Incompatibility?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is disappointed with her sex life with her new partner
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May 2, 2025 • 28min
Episode 575: We Don't Always Have to Know
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner has a crush on a mutual friend
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Apr 30, 2025 • 33min
Episode 574: He's Changed but I Can't See It
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is deeply frustrated by the boyfriend in her head
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Apr 28, 2025 • 38min
Episode 573: Why Did My Ex Send Me $2000?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex sent him $2000 and he doesn't know why.
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hours, and more!
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Apr 25, 2025 • 28min
Episode 572: Why Can't I Get the Healed Sober Version of Him Like Everyone Else?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to get the wonderful man her ex has become now that he's sober.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 23, 2025 • 29min
Episode 571: When Our Partners Become Our Caretakers
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose normally supportive partner isn't taking care of her well.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 21, 2025 • 35min
Episode 570: What About the What-Ifs?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who really likes his friend but doesn't want to be a creep.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 18, 2025 • 33min
Episode 569: Should Marriage Be an Ultimatum?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't sure if he doesn't want to marry *her* or doesn't want to get married at all.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 16, 2025 • 28min
Episode 568: Self-Proclaimed Player but Actually a Lover
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to date casually but isn't behaving casually.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 14, 2025 • 32min
Episode 567: He Didn't Even Tell Me He Was Moving!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose good friend is moving away and didn't tell her.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
