Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Mar 3, 2025 • 34min
Episode 549: My Boyfriend's Anger Issues
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someonoe whose partner has anger issues that come out in scary ways.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 28, 2025 • 35min
Episode 548: Honoring Your Love By Walking Away
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should get back with her ex who seems to be turning his life around.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 26, 2025 • 29min
Episode 547: Finding Clarity in Confusing Friendships
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is friends with a guy she also might be dating??Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 24, 2025 • 41min
Episode 546: Is It The Ick or Just Your Feelings?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who got the ick from their partner taking care of them.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 21, 2025 • 29min
Episode 545: The Person Who Hurt You is Broken, Not You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is haunted by the ghostly presence of her awful ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 19, 2025 • 31min
Episode 544: How Do We Let Go of Hurt?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has forgiven her partner but still wonders if he is secretly betraying her.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 17, 2025 • 33min
Episode 543: I'm the Maid of Honor and I Hate the Groom
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is the maid of honor but she doesn't have anything positive to say about the groom.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 14, 2025 • 38min
Episode 542: He's Benefiting From You Hating Yourself
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like she doesn't deserve love...and apparently, neither does her boyfriend.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 12, 2025 • 32min
Episode 541: Navigating Romance in Early Sobriety
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her feelings for her longtime friend are strictly platonic while navigating early recovery.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 10, 2025 • 37min
Episode 540: My Ex Died and I Feel Complicated
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is suprised by how much grief she has for an ex who passed away.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
