Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Feb 7, 2025 • 29min
Episode 539: Returning to Yourself After a Year of Self-Betrayal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has lost his ex and might also lose his friends.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 5, 2025 • 30min
Episode 538: Closing the Door (Even If We Love What's Behind It)
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their ex but doesn't want to be out of their life for good.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 3, 2025 • 38min
Episode 537: But She's Just a Barista...
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling put off by her partner's different ambitions and lifestyleJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 31, 2025 • 30min
Episode 536: Staying Sane During the Post Breakup Spiral
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to get her ex to tell her exactly what she wants to hear.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 29, 2025 • 33min
Episode 535: My Boyfriend Loves to Correct Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired with long, painful conflicts with her boyfriend where nothing is accomplished.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 27, 2025 • 35min
Episode 534: Is It Hostile or Just a Hostel?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend didn't tell her he shared a hostel room with a stranger...who was a woman.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 24, 2025 • 31min
Episode 533: Unblocking During Climate Catastrophe
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should reach out to her blocked ex to offer support during the LA wildfires.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 22, 2025 • 27min
Episode 532: I Love Him But I Don't Want to Jump His Bones!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is not particularly sexually attracted to their beloved partner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 20, 2025 • 38min
Episode 531: An Ex-Lesbian Enters the Wild World of Dating Men
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is newly bisexual and struggling to date men as a former lesbian.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 17, 2025 • 28min
Episode 530: How To Break Up With Someone!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who knows she should just break up but can't figure out how to do it.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
