Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Apr 11, 2025 • 31min
Episode 566: You Have to Break the Pattern
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop comparing herself to her really awful ex and his new love interest.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 9, 2025 • 26min
Episode 565: Is a Lack of Physical Attraction a Deal Breaker?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their seamingly perfect partner because he wasn't attracted to him.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 7, 2025 • 38min
Episode 564: My Partner's Hidden Credit Card Debt
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just found out their partner of two years has over 40k in secret credit card debt.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 4, 2025 • 32min
Episode 563: Post Break Up Regrets
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who regrets breaking up even though she still thinks it was the right thing to do.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 2, 2025 • 27min
Episode 562: I Found His List of Reasons to Break Up With Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found a list of reasons her partner should break up with her in his planner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 31, 2025 • 30min
Episode 561: My BF Searches the Internet for Explicit Pictures of His Ex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is searching for explicit photos of his ex multiple times a week.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 28, 2025 • 29min
Episode 560: I Didn't Cheat...But Almost
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who didn't cheat on her partner but definitely crossed some lines.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 26, 2025 • 35min
Episode 559: Crowdsourcing Why This Guy Ghosted Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who posted a picture of the guy she was dating in a "Is This Your Man" forum and it kind of blew up on her.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 24, 2025 • 33min
Episode 558: I'm Stressed About My Partner's Future Health
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stressed her partner could have a heart attack one day.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 21, 2025 • 33min
Episode 557: My Boyfriend Might Have a Secret Family
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke into her lover's safe and thinks his dead wife might not actually be deadJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
