Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jan 15, 2025 • 28min
Episode 529: His New GF Is Not An Improved Version of You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex is now dating someone with the same name and who makes similar art.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 13, 2025 • 43min
Episode 528: Don't Get Stuck Mothering This Grown Man
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is waiting for her boyfriend to grow up.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 10, 2025 • 33min
Episode 527: Stuck in the Waiting Room of My Life
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels stuck in a waiting room after his estranged father was just diagnosed with cancer.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 8, 2025 • 32min
Episode 526: It's Time to Lay Down Your Sword
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling discouraged after his very intense but very unhealthy relationship with his ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 6, 2025 • 34min
Episode 525: Communication Confusion
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to have emotional and introspective conversations with her partner but he doesn't seem to be able to.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 3, 2025 • 29min
Episode 524: Super Avoidant Attachment Girl
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to break up with her boyfriend or if it's just her avoidant attachment style.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 1, 2025 • 27min
Episode 523: Honestly, I'm Leading Myself On
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is looking for permission to end her unavailable, long-distance situationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 30, 2024 • 33min
Episode 522: The Orgasm Gap
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is scared to talk to her boyfriend about her ability to orgasm.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 20, 2024 • 25min
Episode 521: Am I Being Mistreated Or Am I Just Too Sensitive?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she is being mistreated in her exhausting relationship or if she is just too sensitive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 18, 2024 • 31min
Episode 520: This Sounds Like a Christmas Movie
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is going on a Christmas trip with his friend who he is also maybe in love with.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
