Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Mar 19, 2025 • 36min
Episode 556: Real Life: I Want to Have an Affair
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to have an affair on his wife of 27 years.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 17, 2025 • 37min
Episode 555: Slimier Than the Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found out her boyfriend of four years was cheating on her the whole timeJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 14, 2025 • 37min
Episode 554: He Asked Me Not to Text Him...Should I?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like he met THE one, even though the one told him not to text him.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 12, 2025 • 25min
Episode 553: Turns Out He Sucked the Whole Time
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found out her ex was saying awful things about her to her friend during their relationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 10, 2025 • 34min
Episode 552: He Cheated and I Was Controlling – Can It Still Work?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she was the unhealthy one in her relationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 3, 2025 • 33min
Episode 551: How Sierra's Birth Anxiety is Like Your Relationship Problem
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to change her dating patterns (and Sierra announces her new pregnancy).Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 3, 2025 • 35min
Episode 550: I Love Him as a Husband But Not as a Coparent
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someonoe whose partner is a wonderful husband but a difficult and lacking coparent.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 3, 2025 • 33min
Episode 549: My Boyfriend's Anger Issues
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someonoe whose partner has anger issues that come out in scary ways.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 28, 2025 • 34min
Episode 548: Honoring Your Love By Walking Away
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should get back with her ex who seems to be turning his life around.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 26, 2025 • 28min
Episode 547: Finding Clarity in Confusing Friendships
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is friends with a guy she also might be dating??Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
