Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Feb 24, 2025 • 40min
Episode 546: Is It The Ick or Just Your Feelings?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who got the ick from their partner taking care of them.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 21, 2025 • 28min
Episode 545: The Person Who Hurt You is Broken, Not You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is haunted by the ghostly presence of her awful ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 19, 2025 • 30min
Episode 544: How Do We Let Go of Hurt?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has forgiven her partner but still wonders if he is secretly betraying her.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 17, 2025 • 32min
Episode 543: I'm the Maid of Honor and I Hate the Groom
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is the maid of honor but she doesn't have anything positive to say about the groom.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 14, 2025 • 37min
Episode 542: He's Benefiting From You Hating Yourself
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like she doesn't deserve love...and apparently, neither does her boyfriend.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 12, 2025 • 31min
Episode 541: Navigating Romance in Early Sobriety
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her feelings for her longtime friend are strictly platonic while navigating early recovery.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 10, 2025 • 36min
Episode 540: My Ex Died and I Feel Complicated
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is suprised by how much grief she has for an ex who passed away.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 7, 2025 • 28min
Episode 539: Returning to Yourself After a Year of Self-Betrayal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has lost his ex and might also lose his friends.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 5, 2025 • 29min
Episode 538: Closing the Door (Even If We Love What's Behind It)
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their ex but doesn't want to be out of their life for good.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 3, 2025 • 37min
Episode 537: But She's Just a Barista...
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling put off by her partner's different ambitions and lifestyleJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
