Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jun 25, 2025 • 32min
Episode 595: The Stories People Tell About Us Aren't Ours
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose terrible ex-friend is still talking sh*t about her
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Jun 23, 2025 • 42min
Episode 594: You're Allowed to Ask for Privacy in Your Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to balance her own privacy with her partner's right to share
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Jun 20, 2025 • 43min
Episode 593: Is My Grief Ruining My Relationship?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose parner shared how hard it is to watch her grieve
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Jun 18, 2025 • 34min
Episode 592: Herpes Isn't A Moral Failing
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose newly contracted herpes has changed her relationship with herself and her body, with sex, and with future partners
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Jun 16, 2025 • 32min
Episode 591: Closeted And Heartbroken
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose on again/off again partner is now dating someone else
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Jun 13, 2025 • 29min
Episode 590: Is Empathy Okay After a Breakup?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should be more angry at her ex
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Jun 11, 2025 • 39min
Episode 589: Her Needs Are Truths, Yours Are Burdens
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels uncomfortable with the physical relationship between her wife and their friend
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Jun 9, 2025 • 37min
Episode 588: His Browsing History Is Spicier Than Our Bedroom
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose very vanilla husband is looking at very spicy porn
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Jun 2, 2025 • 43min
Bonus Episode: He Wants Me to Be Sorrier for Being a Former Cam Model
Sam & Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend can't get over the fact that her former cam work might still exist online
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May 30, 2025 • 30min
Episode 587: What Does It Look Like for You to Say No More Often
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who wants to know why her mother gets to fully grieve but she doesn't
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