Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Apr 18, 2025 • 34min
Episode 569: Should Marriage Be an Ultimatum?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't sure if he doesn't want to marry *her* or doesn't want to get married at all.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 16, 2025 • 29min
Episode 568: Self-Proclaimed Player but Actually a Lover
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to date casually but isn't behaving casually.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 14, 2025 • 33min
Episode 567: He Didn't Even Tell Me He Was Moving!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose good friend is moving away and didn't tell her.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 11, 2025 • 32min
Episode 566: You Have to Break the Pattern
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop comparing herself to her really awful ex and his new love interest.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 9, 2025 • 27min
Episode 565: Is a Lack of Physical Attraction a Deal Breaker?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their seamingly perfect partner because he wasn't attracted to him.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 7, 2025 • 39min
Episode 564: My Partner's Hidden Credit Card Debt
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just found out their partner of two years has over 40k in secret credit card debt.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 4, 2025 • 33min
Episode 563: Post Break Up Regrets
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who regrets breaking up even though she still thinks it was the right thing to do.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 2, 2025 • 28min
Episode 562: I Found His List of Reasons to Break Up With Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found a list of reasons her partner should break up with her in his planner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 31, 2025 • 31min
Episode 561: My BF Searches the Internet for Explicit Pictures of His Ex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is searching for explicit photos of his ex multiple times a week.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 28, 2025 • 29min
Episode 560: I Didn't Cheat...But Almost
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who didn't cheat on her partner but definitely crossed some lines.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
