

The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Aileen Xu
Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
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May 28, 2023 • 1h 8min
231: Kristina Bazan on Nourishing Your Spirit & Creativity
Art, creativity, spirituality, fulfilment — they’re all interconnected. Join Aileen and entrepreneur and creator, Kristina Bazan, as they delve into the realm of the spirit and the self to discuss how our relationship with our own energies can influence ourselves internally, the work that we put out, and the world around us.
Kristina Bazan is an entrepreneur, artist, and spiritual seeker, opening gateways of knowledge by bridging music, fashion, and spirituality merged with grace, passion, and beauty to showcase their interconnectedness.
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TIMESTAMPS:
2:22 The start of my eclectic story
4:36 Finding my community
7:25 Taking it day by day
10:36 The dance between business and the creative
16:46 A new chapter: A call to re-center
18:55 You can make anything happen
20:00 Art as medicine, to communicate, and transform
22:55 Your life is your greatest art
24:03 Reconnecting with my spirit and spirituality
30:34 This world is built on stories
35:20 Your voice matters
39:50 About my new book "Through the Veils of Mystery"
40:58 My experience with light beings
46:39 The integration period
50:08 Reconnecting with the power of feeling
51:51 Our feminine and masculine polarities
1:03:19 You are absolutely perfect
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The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 231
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May 24, 2023 • 12min
Money Affirmations | Attract Abundance, Prosperity, Wealth ✨
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In this episode, we present positive affirmations for money, wealth, abundance and prosperity. Listen to this daily to manifest more abundance and opportunity in your life. Reprogram your mind while you sleep, or use as daily morning affirmations.
Stay tuned for more guided audios every other Wednesday!
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May 14, 2023 • 1h 3min
230: Optimizing Your Productivity: The Power of $10K Work with Khe Hy
In this society, we are “addicted” to productivity and always being on the move, always having to be “busy” doing something. We often speak about rest, reflection and self-care as if it were the opposite to productivity and progress. In this episode, Khe Hy talks about how productivity is not the end, but the means, and how to work smarter and focus on the right things. Khe also discusses his philosophy and optimizing your life for ALIVENESS.
Khy Hy is the founder and CEO of RadReads, an online education company that helps professionals lead productive, examined and joyful lives. Khe is creator of the $10K Work productivity method and teaches the popular cohort-based course Supercharge Your Productivity. RadReads provides guides, trainings, and coaching for over 40,000 professionals to help them gain back free time, scale their impact and make their little dent in the universe.
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TIMESTAMPS
2:17 Looking back at the start on his journey as a creative
5:15 The Pebble in My Shoe
7:15 Optimising for Aliveness
10:17 The Lottery Test
13:11 The addiction to achievement
19:02 Reconnecting with my childhood self
21:43 Productivity and self worth - the means, not the end
25:37 The 10K Work Framework
32:38 Examples of 10K Work
36:05 Think about your work like a book
40:23 10K Work and 10K Questions
45:54 The first step is awareness
52:58 Aliveness and Flow
57:38 I was my own worst boss - your inner self talk
59:53 You don’t need to achieve something to be enough
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The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 230
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May 10, 2023 • 20min
Guided Sleep Meditation & Deep Relaxation
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In this episode, we present a 20 minute guided meditation and talk down for sleep and deep relaxation, including breathing exercises and gentle stretching to release tension and stress from your body and mind. Calm your mind, fall asleep quickly, and sleep better with this meditation, which is great for beginners and all levels.
Stay tuned for more guided audios every other Wednesday!
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May 7, 2023 • 1h 3min
229: The Healing Power of Gua Sha with Dr. Eileen Li
Gua Sha — there’ s so much more to it than just facial gua sha. We all get aches and ills in our bodies, but our bodies have built-in mechanisms to heal itself. In this episode, Dr. Eileen Lee talks us through the history of gua sha in Chinese medicine, understanding and communicating with our bodies so we can feel great and live our best lives to the fullest.
Dr. Eileen Li is a second generation acupuncturist & Chinese herbalist, and licensed physical therapist who is passionate about making acupuncture and Chinese medicine accessible, so that people can teach their bodies how to heal themselves.
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TIMESTAMPS:
2:22 Experience seeing Gua Sha as a child
2:46 Gua Sha - a traditional Chinese healing technique
3:46 What’s happening when you do Gua Sha?
5:22 The Benefits of Gua Sha
10:38 The meaning behind Gua Sha
14:58 Your body is it’s own pharmacy
17:32 How Gua sha helps with fevers
19:36 Tools right in your kitchen
22:23 Gua Sha for headaches
30:45 No system in the body is isolated
34:00 What is Gua Sha effective for?
38:36 Gua sha and foot health
42:08 Explaining the medicine and science behind some old Chinese cultural and traditional health sayings
47:23 Foot health in Eastern vs Western cultures
52:50 Covering up after doing Gua Sha
57:30 Taking care of my vessel
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The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 229
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Apr 26, 2023 • 20min
Sound Healing Guided Meditation ft. Leeor Alexandra on Singing Bowls
In this episode, we present a guided sound bath meditation & sound therapy experience with crystal singing bowls by the lovely Leeor Alexandra. Leeor is on the crystal singing bowls, while I will be lightly guiding the meditation.
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A gentle reminder: the more we relax, the more we return to our true selves.
Stay tuned for more guided audios every other Wednesday!
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Apr 23, 2023 • 49min
228: Mental Health, Self-Care, & Living to the Fullest with Reese Regan
Mental health is an ongoing journey with struggles, ups and downs. It can be a challenging and exhausting experience, but it's important to remember that there is always hope for improvement. Every battle can teach us something new and valuable, leading us toward a brighter future. In this episode, Reese Regan joins Aileen to discuss the journey toward better mental health and her self-care practices and they delve into the significance of spirituality and living to the fullest!
Reese Regan is a Philadelphia-based content creator who uses her platforms to bring awareness to mental health and simple living. By sharing her own experiences battling her mental health, she hopes to make others feel less alone in their struggles and to build a supportive community.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:26 How creating content helped Reese express herself
6:43 Reese's mental health journey
14:35 Mindset shift
17:24 Self-care routine
22:00 Resources that helped her with her spiritual journey
23:30 Doing spirituality with friends
24:46 The Future of Self-care, Spirituality, & the Internet
29:27 Cycle syncing
33:57 Using Crystals for spiritual growth
37:10 Motivation for creating content
40:09 Self-care over content creation
41:37 Mental health battle
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Apr 16, 2023 • 52min
227: Enneagram, Self-love, & Creativity w/ Sarajane Case
Have you ever wondered why you do what you do and struggle with certain weaknesses? The Enneagram is a powerful tool that can help you understand the underlying motivations behind your behavior, as well as your unique strengths and weaknesses. In this episode, Aileen sits down with Sarajane Case to explore the fascinating world of the Enneagram, discussing the nine different Enneagram types, their key motivations, and what each type can do to grow and thrive. They also delve into the important topic of self-love and how the Enneagram can help us cultivate a deeper sense of compassion and acceptance towards ourselves. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that will help you unlock your full potential and live your best life!
Sarajane Case is first and foremost a passionate advocate for your loving relationship to self. She's the author of popular self-help books The Honest Enneagram as well as The Enneagram Letters and host of the Enneagram & Coffee Podcast - a daily podcast dedicated to self-care, personal growth, and creativity.
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TIMESTAMPS
2:01 - What is Enneagram?
6:01 - The 9 types of Enneagram
9:32 - What are Enneagram wings?
14:30 - How the Enneagram empowered Sarah Jane
16:06 - Things to let go for each Enneagram type
20:20 - Motivations for each Enneagram type
24:02 - The Honest Enneagram
25:00 - Sarah Jane's self-love journey
30:54 - Insecurity and self-confidence
33:16 - Habits and routines
37:47 - How to handle burnout
41:24 - Definition of dream life
45:13 - Intentional boredom
48:03 - Idea management
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Apr 12, 2023 • 16min
Guided Meditation for Anxiety & Stress
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In this episode, we present a powerful guided meditation for anxiety and stress. This 15-minute meditation will help you relax and release tension from your mind and body. Use this meditation to cultivate gratitude, positive energy, and peace. It includes gentle neck stretches, full-body relaxation, positive affirmations, and visualization.
Great for beginners and all levels.
Stay tuned for more guided audios every other Wednesday!
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Apr 9, 2023 • 1h 1min
226: Gretchen Rubin on Happiness, Human Nature, & Activating Your Five Senses
Although there are numerous ways and strategies to find happiness, it's important to recognize that not every pattern or strategy we observe from others will necessarily work for us. In this episode, Aileen speaks with Gretchen Rubin, a best-selling author, podcaster, and speaker who is known for her work on happiness, habits, and human nature. And together, they explore the concept of human nature and how it plays a role in our pursuit of happiness. Additionally, they discuss the benefits of activating your five senses to live a richer and more meaningful life.
Gretchen Rubin is one of today’s most influential and thought-provoking observers of happiness and human nature. She’s an unusual combination: a literary writer who explores how we can put transcendent ideas into practice.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:45 - what sparks Gretchen to write about personal development
7:30 - struggles in habit formation
11:06 - Gretchen's philosophy in life
13:48 - Gretchen's biggest inspirations
16:18 - Explore your happiness
21:50 - The four tendencies framework
28:30 - connecting with your five senses
34:21 - how to utilize your five senses
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