Sex for Saints

 Do you look outside of yourself for answers to your questions?  Our brain loves to solve problems.  It loves to go to work and answer questions.  So when you have a question, don’t look outside of yourself for the answer, put your brain to work!  In this episode, I have some great questions you can ask yourself about who you are and what you believe about yourself, your spouse, and your marriage.

Have you ever watching your brain think?  It’s a fascinating process and very insightful into why we are feeling and behaving in certain ways.  By becoming a watcher of our thoughts, we can gain power over them and figure out which thoughts are serving us best.  

Do you ever notice things about your life and think “I wish they were different?” or maybe you see what has happened and blame others for how you think and feel.  In either case, in this episode we will talk about owning your result and taking responsibility for what is going on in your life.  This is the best news ever, because it means you have the power to change it.

Does your spouse have a hard time opening up to you?  Or maybe you feel anxious about the state of your relationship?   Both of these come from our attachment style and feeling emotionally safe in our relationship.  How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship?  How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?  Find out how on this week's episode.

Each of us has different ways of expressing love to those around us.  And when someone is showing us they love us in a certain way, we need to let them do it in the way that works best for them, which is not necessarily the way we would like to receive it.  So how do you become a good receiver of love?  That’s what we are talking about on this week’s episode.

Chances are, your sex life isn’t what you thought it would be.  Whether it’s not as pleasurable, you just can’t seem to find the desire, or you and your spouse just don’t see eye to eye, it’s time to start figuring it out.  Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

Wanting more from a spouse can spark intriguing discussions. Ever wondered how personal perceptions shape marital satisfaction? Explore the importance of cultivating love and connection within relationships. Hear personal anecdotes that highlight family dynamics and community involvement. Discover the significance of self-sufficiency in enhancing peace and happiness in your marriage. Why do we always seek more, and what happens when those needs are met? Dive into the nuances of love, kindness, and fulfillment.

Do you struggle with accepting things your spouse does?  Maybe they look at pornography or they’ve left the church.  Or maybe they just don’t behave the way you think they should.  In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

Do you have confidence? Do you have self-confidence?  What is the difference? How does confidence and self-confidence effect your marriage? Find out more on this week’s episode!

Discover how the Law of Chastity continues to be relevant in marriage, transforming sexual intimacy into a divine bond. Explore the importance of personal responsibility in enhancing connection and attraction between partners. Dive into the essence of fidelity, linking it to personal integrity and happiness, while encouraging couples to reflect on their communication and trust. This engaging discussion offers insights that deepen understanding and strengthen marital relationships.