Sex for Saints Episode 95 - When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex
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Feb 14, 2020 Sara Payne, a life coach dedicated to helping the wives of physicians navigate the complexities of their partners' demanding careers, shares insights on managing exhaustion and intimacy. She discusses common issues that arise when sexual desire takes a backseat to busy lifestyles. The conversation delves into reframing intimacy from an obligation to a shared desire, offering practical strategies and heartfelt stories to inspire couples. Sara emphasizes the importance of communication in nurturing relationships and enhancing sexual satisfaction.
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Be Explicit in Requests
- Be explicit about what you want from your spouse without hinting or beating around the bush.
- If you want something special, ask directly and clearly to avoid misunderstandings.
Sexual Repression in Conservative Women
- Conservative Christian women often experience guilt and shame around sex due to cultural and religious attitudes.
- This repression causes confusion and lack of development in their sexual identity after marriage.
Plan Sex Flexibly With Schedule
- Prioritize and plan sex according to your unique schedules rather than expecting spontaneous moments.
- Flexibility can maintain spontaneity by setting flexible deadlines to ensure intimacy happens regularly.