Sex for Saints

Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn't have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I'm answering real listener questions about sex during pregnancy, including what's safe, what feels comfortable, and how to stay emotionally and physically connected through every trimester. We'll talk about shifting desire, body image, and practical ways to communicate and adapt as your body changes. My goal is to help you and your partner approach this season with curiosity, confidence, and closeness instead of fear or frustration. You'll walk away feeling more at ease, better informed, and equipped with real strategies to keep intimacy thriving during every stage of pregnancy. Remember to consult with your healthcare provider about any concerns related to intimacy during pregnancy. Every pregnancy is unique, and individual medical guidance is important.

In this episode, I'm sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their intimacy and could change yours too. We dive into the surprising benefits of using a truly natural, skin-loving intimate product, why lube is essential (not optional!), and how communication and playfulness can take a good marriage and make it great. Justin and Natalie share their story of creating a product that's 100% natural, edible, safe for sensitive skin, and doubles as both a massage oil and lubricant, plus how it's changed the way they connect in and out of the bedroom. Whether you're navigating dryness, menopause, or just wanting more pleasure and connection, this conversation is full of encouragement and practical insight for couples of faith. Tune in to hear why investing in intimacy matters and how something as simple as the right lubricant can bring more joy, confidence, and closeness into your marriage.

The podcast explores the damaging belief that sex equals love, highlighting how this mindset harms relationships. It discusses societal influences on men equating intimacy with affection and challenges the narrative propagated by media. Amanda emphasizes the importance of recognizing diverse expressions of love beyond the bedroom and encourages listeners to shift their focus from being loved to showing love. Practical tools are provided to facilitate more authentic connections, ultimately freeing both love and desire from unrealistic pressures.

Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two types of rejection, how to tell the difference, and why understanding this can change everything in your relationship. We'll talk about what rejection looks like when it's personal, what it looks like when it's not, and how to stop letting painful stories in your head dictate the way you feel. If you've ever wondered, "What's really happening when my spouse says no?" this conversation will give you clarity, hope, and practical steps forward.

The discussion tackles the common male frustration of unmet sexual needs in relationships. Framing sex as a 'need' can actually diminish desire, creating a counterproductive caretaking dynamic. A case study illustrates how this mentality can lead to resentment and dread. The conversation explores how transactional views on sex sabotage intimacy and the importance of genuine connection. Practical advice is offered to shift from a mindset of need to one of desire, encouraging a more fulfilling sexual connection.

Have you ever wondered why you can feel like a totally different person during sex than afterward? In this episode, I break down what's actually happening in your brain before, during, and after intimacy, and why it matters for your sex life. I'll show you how your neurobiology impacts desire, openness, and connection, and how you can use that knowledge to feel more present, communicate better, and stop judging yourself for normal responses. If you've ever been confused about why you or your partner seem "on different pages," this conversation will make so much sense.

In this episode, I'm diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives' feelings. I'll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband's identity is tied so closely to being "the good guy." You'll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I'll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

The podcast dives into the often-ignored topic of sexual grief, exploring the gap between expectations and reality. It highlights how this grief can manifest in various forms, from mismatched desires to experiences of infertility. Listeners learn the importance of acknowledging and processing this grief, as it is as valid as any other loss. Practical strategies for healing and rebuilding intimacy are discussed, alongside real-life examples that underscore the significance of embracing one's journey through sexual grief.

In this episode, I'm tackling one of the most common questions I hear in my coaching practice: why do so many women say no to sex? The truth is, it's often not about low libido, it's about the kind of sex they're having. When intimacy feels like an obligation, when body image fears take over, or when pleasure and freedom are missing, it's no wonder women start turning away. I'll walk you through the real reasons behind sexual rejection in marriage and share how couples can rebuild connection, joy, and desire so intimacy feels safe, fun, and fulfilling again.

Katie Runyon, creator of Faithful Fling, is back to share her insights on keeping long-term marriages passionate. She discusses how role-play can infuse novelty and deep emotional intimacy, breaking routines that lead to stagnation. Katie reveals surprising demographics embracing these flings and explains how preparation can heighten trust and tension. She emphasizes the importance of play and curiosity in rediscovering each other, offering over 50 creative ideas to spice up monogamy. Get ready for inspiration to reignite the flames!