Sex for Saints

Episode 399 - Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

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Dec 12, 2025
Explore the idea of infusing sexual energy into daily life, not just during intimate moments. Learn how playful touch, flirty texts, and witty wordplay can sustain desire. Discover the importance of emotional intimacy and giving without pressure. Hear real stories from couples who prioritize connection amidst their routines. Understand how to navigate fluctuations in desire and reclaim your sexual identity. This discussion emphasizes the joy of making everyday moments feel playful and intimate.
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INSIGHT

Sex As An Ongoing Undercurrent

  • Sexuality in marriage should be an ongoing undercurrent, not a compartmentalized event confined to the bedroom.
  • Amanda Lauder says treating sex as part of who you are keeps desire simmering throughout daily life.
ADVICE

Use Small Touches Often

  • Use frequent, small touches (hands on back, playful smacks) to maintain connection without pressure.
  • Ensure both partners have agreed these touches are welcome so they remain playful, not coercive.
ADVICE

Flirt By Text During The Day

  • Send flirty, well-timed texts or reminders during the day to keep desire present.
  • Mention past moments or future plans to keep sexual connection active even when apart.
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