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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
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Aug 8, 2021 • 53min

How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury

In this episode, I am virtually joined by the beautiful and ageless Caroline Stanbury. Caroline was a cast member on the Bravo show Ladies of London, and is now the host of fellow Dear Media podcast Divorced Not Dead. We discuss her marriage ending, why it's so hard to leave a partner, signs that make it clear that you're making the right decision in breaking up, how she met her younger man, why “if he wanted to he would” is so true, if Caro- line would be a real housewife, why she'll get a prenup with her fiancé, the importance of sex in a relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss a few poll questions from this week, running into an ex or someone who ghosted you, how to avoid romanticizing every person you vibe with, breaking up with a therapist, how to not feel like something is wrong with you if you haven’t met someone, and having a crush on someone else when in a relationship.   www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account or 50% off your premium account www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off you first month And visit Ana Luisa for 20% off your order   Listen to Divorced Not Dead wherever you listen to podcasts   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Aug 1, 2021 • 1h 1min

Debunking Myths About Guys In Their 30s ft. My Producer—Brian Peoples

In our 200th episode(!!!!!), I am virtually joined by my incredible producer Brian Peoples. We discuss what it’s like working with mostly women, living in LA, the cringy-ness of my old episodes, what he’s looking for in a partner, his favorite piece of WMAA advice, our rocky start, where to meet a single 30 something year old, where a man’s head is at when he’s 30 and single, biggest dating mistakes women make, if guys can be bad texters, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss pick up lines for women, getting emotional on your period, the pros and cons of dating someone who doesn’t have social media, and how to not go home with someone you like at a bar.   www.Mejuri.com/ACME  for 10% off your first order www.Truff.com  with code ACME for 15% off site-wide plus free shipping www.Vivino.com/ACME  for 20% off your first order of up to $200 www.Girlfriend.com/acme  for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more   Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 25, 2021 • 54min

The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Steffie Baik. We discuss co-dependence in relationships and on your family, growing up without a parent, Korean culture, suppressing your feelings, different kinds of therapy, attachment styles, dating creatives, what it’s like to date people of all cultures, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss last week’s episode, a reflection on my first few episodes, having “ugly weeks,” how much to share on a first date, why it’s a red flag to ask what are we, what hot girl summer really means, and guys girls vs. girls girls.   www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/acme to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today And visit www.Vaccines.gov to find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you!   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 18, 2021 • 1h 8min

What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer

In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how to go up to guys when you’re out, how soon into a relationship guys know if they want to marry you, dating younger guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss sex/life on Netflix, making out with tongue vs. without, and how the rules apply when you’re in a relationship.   www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your Free account or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months And find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you at www.vaccines.gov    Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 11, 2021 • 49min

Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff

In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect first date outfit, why the word "balance" is bullshit, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if therapy can make you overthink or insecure, how to get into liking porn, if you can work on your mental health while in a relationship, my new merch!, keeping your sex life hot if you live together, dysfunctional sibling relationships, how I spent July 4th, and questions to ask to get into a relationship.   www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your first order www.dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box www.girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 4, 2021 • 55min

Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia

In this episode, I am virtually joined by hugely successful porn star and now fellow podcaster Eva Lovia aka Candice Horbacz. We discuss open relationships, how onlyfans relates to the porn industry, why it's okay to have a healthy relationship with porn, how her and her boyfriend met, one night stands that don't work, being afraid of your kids being made fun of, how to not be scared of your family's judgement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I don’t have one night stands, if there’s a fake “one” before the real “one,” explaining that you want to take it slow, how to become less defensive, and more.   Find out where to get your COVID-19 vaccine at www.vaccines.gov www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 27, 2021 • 59min

We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves

In this episode, I am virtually joined by human connection specialist Mark Groves. We discuss how to know if you’re in love, how to know if your relationship is over, things you can work through and not work through, breaking up and getting back together successfully, what codependency looks like, how society affects our relationships, if it’s better to fight all the time or never fight, why couples therapy is so helpful, being defensive, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss problems that come up in your relationship now will come up again in your next, rules and courtesies around relationships on social media, how to be vulnerable in a new relationship, random small confidence tips, and tips for traveling with new SO.   www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your order   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 20, 2021 • 57min

Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Jena Kingsley, of Social Studies podcast. We discuss botox and when you need to get it, why friend break ups are harder than romantic ones, not sleeping together in the beginning of a relationship, normalizing not liking every friend of your SO’s, how to bring up your needs in a relationship, the importance of giving someone a good chance, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the difference between being picky and settling, moving into your SO’s apartment, adjusting to friends spending all their time with a SO, and our apartment update!   www.Curology.com/acme for your free 30-day trial www.upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise to save 20% on your first month of membership with code ACME www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 13, 2021 • 51min

Why There Are No Rules In Gay Dating ft. Matteo Lane

In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian (and opera singer!) Matteo Lane. We discuss the gay take on my rules (since you haven't heard about them enough), the difference between growing up and having to "come out" vs. growing up without that, the experience of being gay in the 90s and being gay today, why it's so important to be true to yourself, who should be paying on dates, why i'm jealous of grindr, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting your partner to go to therapy, body anxiety during summer, what annoys me about engagements, being single in your late 20s, taking meds for depression, my daily schedule/sleep, why butterflies are a red flag, and friends throwing adult tantrums.   www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme to save 20% on your first order www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your free 30 day trial   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 6, 2021 • 47min

Maybe You’re The Problem ft. Whitney Cummings

In this episode, I am virtually joined by the hilarious Whitney Cummings. We discuss lessons she's learned, having an addictive personality, how she started dating her vet, why it's important to have a partner who doesn't feed into your BS, what you don't like about your partner is your fault, why you'll never get 100% happiness in a relationship, finding the right birth control for you, something off brand about her, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I knew I was depressed, dealing with friend jealousy, least favorite fashion trends, bringing up that you don’t drink when dating, if I was truly in love with exes, and more!   www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise for 20% off your House of Wise purchase   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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