

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jan 2, 2022 • 1h 10min
How Much I’m Spending On My Wedding ft. Mrs. Dow Jones
In this episode, I am joined by my friend Haley Sacks aka Mrs. Dow Jones. We discuss how much I'm spending on wedding, what's important and what isn't im- portant during wedding planning, how to side hustle well, saving money on a wedding, brides- maids dresses, bachelorettes, influencers weddings, wedding planners, what to DIY, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss reflections on the past year, how to stay cool in wedding planning, finding motivation when you work for yourself, staying sober during the hol- idays, how guys heal differently from break ups, and why I’m not TEGG. Postmates App code ACME for $20 off $30 or more Milkandhoney.com code ACME for 20% off your next purchase Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 26, 2021 • 1h 14min
Finally Feeling Comfortable In Your Own Skin ft. Sami Sage
In this episode, I am joined by Sami Sage, co-founder of Betches. We discuss mixing business and pleasure by working with friends, being married to a younger guy, freezing her eggs even though she's married, her weight journey and feeling comfortable in her own skin, the loss of her brother, succession, if it's easier to date as a "hot girl" and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if your partner should be the best sex you ever had, saturn return learnings, etiquette for the first few sleepovers, and all the dating rule exceptions. Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Blueland.com/acme for 15% off your order Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Thepillclub.com/acme for your first birth control care package and to make a donation Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 19, 2021 • 1h 20min
Can You Gaslight Someone If You Don’t Know What That Means ft. Greg Grippo and Andrew Spencer
In this episode, I am joined by Greg Grippo and Andrew Spencer from The Bachelorette. We discuss what gaslighting means, Greg’s state of mind after the bachelor, his past as an Uber driver, why Andrew is ready to get married, farting in front of your SO, if Greg would take Katie back now, going to therapy, meeting Harry Potter IRL, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the bachelorette I went on, things I didn't realize were part of wedding planning, if you should tell someone they're being cheated on, and how to deal with relatives that annoy you, and my thoughts on “And Just Like That.” Sponsors: Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Dailyharvest.com code ACME to get up to $40 off your first box Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 12, 2021 • 1h 1min
You Can Only Meet Someone As Deeply As You’ve Met Yourself ft. Amy Nobile
In this episode, I joined by love coach Amy Nobile. Amy is the founder of Love Amy, and we discuss the 4 things that need to be in tact when it comes to a good rela- tionship or partner, why you should meet someone without make up on, how the second date is the real date, going on 3-4 dates a day, how your dating app profile has nothing to do with who you are, and the real way to welcome that deep love into your life. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss weird pre-marriage dreams, how to make the first move, break up tips, when to discuss moving in together, and why we need instant gratification date 1. Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 5, 2021 • 44min
I’m So Over Myself
In this full solo episode, I am sick of my own shit. I discuss feeling ex- tremely over myself, how to stop overthinking if they like you or not, what I do when people make comments about my body, what skincare stuff I’m doing before my wedding, how some- one impersonated Steven on Thanksgiving, what to do when your partner is frustrated that you’re not finishing from sex, tips from my own therapist, how I really feel about myself, and more. Milkbarstore.com/acme for $10 off an order of $50 Jennikayne.com code ACME for 15% off your first order Crabtree-evelyn.com code ACME15 for 15% off Blueland.com/acme for 15% off your first order Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 28, 2021 • 55min
Would You Rather Be A Troll Or Be Trolled? ft. Audrey Peters
In this episode, I virtually sit down with TikTok queen/content creator Au- drey Peters. We discuss bad nosejobs, how she deals with tiktok hate, all the tea on her boyfriend and how they met, why she never tags her BF on social media, our rendezvous in a bathroom a few years ago, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I cried during wedding planning, navigating workplace romance, playing matchmaker for my single friends at my wedding, self sabotaging when dating, getting the ick after bad sex, and more. Milkandhoney.com code ACME for 20% off your next purchase Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Thepillclub.com/acme for your first birth control care package and to make a donation Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 21, 2021 • 1h 7min
According To This Guy, The Rules Don’t Work ft. Jon Birger
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Jon Birger, author of Make Your Move. We discuss the rise of hook up culture, declining marriage rates, why Jon is anti dating online, if men are afraid to approach women, his theory that men don’t need the chase, why you should date your coworker, and maybe even propose to your male SO! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling safe in a relationship vs. feeling bored, what makes a bache- lorette fun, how Taylor Swift’s red re-release affected me, how Austin was, craving intimacy while you’re single, and more! Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Mejuri.com/acme for 10% off your first order Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 14, 2021 • 1h 7min
If Astrology Isn’t Real, How Is The Pattern So Spot On? ft. The Pattern’s Lisa Donovan
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Lisa Donovan, creator and founder of The Pattern app. We discuss how she got into astrology, Lisa gives me a chart reading, my compatibility with Steven's chart, Lisa's timeline for her own relationship, what it takes to dedi- cate yourself to your calling, why The Pattern is so thorough and accurate, using astrology for dating, what to say when someone is hating on astrology, what a dream chart looks like, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss things people can't discuss with partner. My chemical peel, best practices for early stages of dating, if Steven is the type of guy I thought I'd end up with a vice versa, how to know if your SO is going to propose within the next year, how do you know if you want kids or not, and more! Athleticgreens.com/ACME for a free one year supply of vitamin D and to give AG1 a try Milkbarstore.com/ACME for $10 off an order of $50 Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Blueland.com/acme for 15% off your first order Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 7, 2021 • 1h 12min
I Went To Couples Therapy So You Don’t Have To ft. Elizabeth Earnshaw
In this episode, I virtually sit down with well known couples therapist Eliz- abeth Earnshaw, LMFT. We discuss the best practices for conflict resolution, the leading rea- son for divorce, how to not let your SO’s mood affect you, signs a couple won’t make it, how men and women handle break ups, if some people are just better apart, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss more wedding planning, kim k and pete davidson (and their charts), if previously engaged people more quicker or slower in future, moving on tactics/hacks, how I used to spend so much on weed, gift ideas for SO, and the future of WMAA when I’m married with kids. Milkandhoney.com code ACME for 20% off your next purchase Dailyharvest.com code ACME to get up to $40 off your first box Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more DipseaStories.com/acme an extended 30 day free trial Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 31, 2021 • 59min
How You Treat Your Body Is How You Treat Your Partner ft. Max Lugavere
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Max Lugavere, NY Times best selling author of Genius Foods. We discuss learning from past relationships, love languages, why being kind is the most important trait of all, why not being healthy is a dealbreaker, how loss sparked his food curiosity, if we're hoping to date people similar to our parents, why eating well is a form of self respect, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why doubts are not okay, my fav places to go out sober, navigating upcoming holiday seasons with a SO, +1 wedding etiquette, why I knew my dress was the one, the best thing my fiancé shared at carolines, my attachment style and my SO’s, high school reunions, and more. www.sakara.com/ACME code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order thepillclub.com/acme to get your first birth control care package and donate Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


