

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Mar 13, 2022 • 56min
An Episode For Our 90s Babies ft. Josh Peck
In this week’s episode, I sit down with actor Josh Peck. We discuss how his Drake and Josh days, how he lost 100 pounds, his sobriety and how it came about, meet- ing his now wife, being in an interfaith relationship, staying relevant as we get older, the cringes thing he’s ever been apart of, Amanda Bynes, the Vlog squad, Hilary Duff, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the magical Disney World wedding that I went to, my thoughts on Love Is Blind season 2, what it means to be a modern “good girlfriend,” how I knew I was ready to get married, sex positions, and how to attend a wedding solo. Sponsors: Dailyharvest.com/acme to get up to $40 off your first box Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Download OkCupid for FREE in the App Store today Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 6, 2022 • 54min
Say This To Get The Highest Response On Dating Apps ft. Melissa Hobley
In this week’s episode, I sit down with the CMO of OkCupid, Melissa Hobley. We discuss why everyone needs that outgoing friend, the reason after a break up is the best time to date, going through an addiction in the family, what we don't know about dating apps, dating app insider tips, how political we should be getting on apps, what gets the highest response rate on dating apps, and what is the hardest to respond to on dating apps. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss resetting expectations in an LTR, sending guys flowers, following the rules when you’re in the same group, how life gets better for women as we age, if my exes were at my wedding, how often is normal to have sex, and more. Sponsors: Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 27, 2022 • 58min
How I Got Married In 5 Months
In this week’s episode, we’re talking all about MY WEDDING!!! What!! I’m still so shook that I got married. I’m discussing the real reason we got married so quickly, the most stressful part of the night, the couples that met at our wedding, what I wish had hap- pened differently, my favorite moment, if there were tears, what went wrong that night, the thought process behind having 4 dresses, all the wedding songs, lessons I learned, and so much more! Sponsors: Download OkCupid in the App Store today. Ringconcierge.com and @RingConcierge on Instagram Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 20, 2022 • 59min
Maybe DO Date Your Best Friend ft. Arielle Vandenberg
In this week’s episode, I sit down with vine superstar and host of Love Island USA Arielle Vandenberg. We discuss how she started off as friends with her SO, what wedding planning has been like, her go-to for a bad mental health day, how she knew Matt was the one, dating a musician, her obsession with Bieber, what Arielle chooses to keep off social media, why she hasn’t told her engagement story, when/if she wants to have kids, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if rules change as you get older, advice for young moms dating, the rules for weddings, bachelor/bachelorette trips dos and donts, and why my relationship is not perfect. Sponsors: Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Imperfectfoods.com code ACME for 20% off your first 4 orders Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 13, 2022 • 1h 1min
Why Your Dating App Profile Sucks ft. Leanna and Jared
In this week’s episode, I sit down Leanna Joan and Jared Rodrigues of Hello & Goodbye Podcast. We discuss Leanna’s divorce, why her and Jared aren’t a couple, the rules for platonic friendships, why selfies should never be on dating app profiles, how to not take yourself too seriously when on the apps, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I got married yesterday, the different friend break ups we go through, and rules for the relationship stage before getting engaged. Leanna and Jared will be posting their dating profiles in their stories when the episode airs, and you can DM or email them your submissions for a zoom date with one of them! ig @helloandgoodbyepodcast and email is info@helloandgoodbyepodcast.com. They can check out all of things on www.helloandgoodbye- podcast.com Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Takethesis.com/acme to save 10% on your first starter kit Wealthfront.com/acme to start growing your savings Dailyharvest.com/acme to get up to forty dollars off your first box Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 6, 2022 • 54min
Rules For Getting Back Together With An Ex ft. Leslie Grant
In this week’s episode, I sit down with Leslie Grant, host of Interstates and Heartbreak Podcast. We discuss rules for getting back together with an ex, situations in which a break can work, wanting to know what our SO's talk about with their therapists, the benefits of dating multiple people in one night, scarcity vs abundance mindset, why we stay in bad friendships, signs you're being love bombed, examples of times we were love bombed, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss dry spells with a SO, our valentine’s day plans, rules for dating someone you’re already friends with, if it’s healthy to not settle after finding a certain feeling, and a botched hair cut. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Ringconcierge.com and @RingConcierge on Instagram Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 30, 2022 • 1h 14min
How To Make Dating Less Exhausting ft. Rashad aka Corporayshid
In this week’s episode, I sit down with Rashad aka Corporayshid on TikTok. We discuss his go-to first date routine, most common date clichés, the most bizarre DM’s he gets, the problem with meeting up with people off social media, how to make a wedding fun, why everyone wants to skip the small talk on dates, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my first (and last) lymphatic drainage massage, unsolicited advice, future tripping, if my dating story was linear, and more. Sponsors: crabtree-evelyn.com code ACME15 for 15% off Takethesis.com/acme to save 10% on your first starter kit Wealthfront.com/acme to start growing your savings Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 23, 2022 • 39min
What Mistresses Do That Wives Won’t
In this full solo episode, I discuss a viral tiktok on mistresses vs. wives, forgiveness of past partners/hurts, how to not get omicron for your wedding, initiating the 3 month convo on 3/3/3, Ramona Singer's rules, maid of honor speech advice, the roommate phase of relationship, having covid, my colonic, and what my ideal big 3 is for my kids. Sponsors: crabtree-evelyn.com code ACME15 for 15% off Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Imperfectfoods.com code ACME for 20% off your first 4 orders Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 16, 2022 • 1h 6min
If They Wanted To, Would They? ft. Sophie Ross
In this episode, I am joined by writer and pop culture columnist Sophie Ross. I found that Sophie was not so happy about the rules on Twitter, so we discussed them at length. We talk about why sex on the first date is not the move, the backlash she has dealt with from her candidness on Twitter, her current relationship and why it’s different from her past ones, why she hates call her daddy, if they really would if they wanted to, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my bachelorette party, how easy it is to find support if you want to be sober, the 90/10 rule in relationships, and if my wedding is sponsored in any way. Sponsors: Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order crabtree-evelyn.com code ACME15 for 15% off Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 9, 2022 • 1h 1min
How To Thrive After A Break Up ft. Amy Chan
In this episode, I am joined (for a second time!) by Amy Chan, founder of Renew Break Up Bootcamp. We discuss how to get over the guilt of ending things, if "no con- tact" is the best method, why you can't blame yourself in a break up, what to do if you are in the same friend group as an ex, if you should block/mute, how to not feel anxious if you haven't met someone yet at 30+, if you need to explain why you're ending it, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Tristan and Khloe, where should you be in 6 months of dating, dry January, how to know when a relationship is over, my honeymoon plans, and if I’ll move to the burbs. Sponsors: Dailyharvest.com/acme to get up to forty dollars off your first box Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Wealthfront.com/acme to start growing your savings Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


