

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Aug 22, 2021 • 1h 8min
Why Men Love Bitches And Why Men Marry Bitches
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Sherry Argov, the author of the world renowned book Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches. We discuss what exactly it means to be a bitch, what’s wrong with being a yes woman, how her rules would apply to technology today, how to “pull back” on social media, her most controversial advice, if women love a-holes, why it’s bad to be an open book, the danger of sexting and nudes, how to act on a first date, if it’s ever okay to play “games” in your relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss The Bachelorette (and if I am team Katie or team Greg), my thoughts on The White Lotus, why I was blacklisted from a sorority in college, and why men cry during break ups. Domestic violence support: thehotline.org or call 800.799.SAFE (7233) Order Sherry’s books here: Why Men Love Bitches Why Men Marry Bitches www.Upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today. www.Framebridge.com with code ACME for 15% off your first order. www.Wealthfront.com/ACME to get your first $5,000 managed FREE, for life. www.Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 15, 2021 • 50min
WTF Is Acme And How Do I Get In? ft. Frankie The Bouncer
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the man behind the hardest door in town, Frankie Carattini. We discuss how he went from coat check to bouncer, the history of Acme, how to get in, the craziest things he’s witnessed, his obsession with the Olsen Twins, how to keep the momentum going when out in NYC, how to cut the line, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss How to be respectful in disagreements w partner, taking someone back after drunk cheating, the viral tiktok about men who don’t touch you on the first date, how to not take someone’s mood personally and let it affect your day, and how Saturn return affects your life. Find your COVID19 vaccine location at www.vaccines.gov www.Functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your order www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended free 30-day trial www.Dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 8, 2021 • 53min
How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the beautiful and ageless Caroline Stanbury. Caroline was a cast member on the Bravo show Ladies of London, and is now the host of fellow Dear Media podcast Divorced Not Dead. We discuss her marriage ending, why it's so hard to leave a partner, signs that make it clear that you're making the right decision in breaking up, how she met her younger man, why “if he wanted to he would” is so true, if Caro- line would be a real housewife, why she'll get a prenup with her fiancé, the importance of sex in a relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss a few poll questions from this week, running into an ex or someone who ghosted you, how to avoid romanticizing every person you vibe with, breaking up with a therapist, how to not feel like something is wrong with you if you haven’t met someone, and having a crush on someone else when in a relationship. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account or 50% off your premium account www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off you first month And visit Ana Luisa for 20% off your order Listen to Divorced Not Dead wherever you listen to podcasts Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 1, 2021 • 1h 1min
Debunking Myths About Guys In Their 30s ft. My Producer—Brian Peoples
In our 200th episode(!!!!!), I am virtually joined by my incredible producer Brian Peoples. We discuss what it’s like working with mostly women, living in LA, the cringy-ness of my old episodes, what he’s looking for in a partner, his favorite piece of WMAA advice, our rocky start, where to meet a single 30 something year old, where a man’s head is at when he’s 30 and single, biggest dating mistakes women make, if guys can be bad texters, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss pick up lines for women, getting emotional on your period, the pros and cons of dating someone who doesn’t have social media, and how to not go home with someone you like at a bar. www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order www.Truff.com with code ACME for 15% off site-wide plus free shipping www.Vivino.com/ACME for 20% off your first order of up to $200 www.Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 25, 2021 • 54min
The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Steffie Baik. We discuss co-dependence in relationships and on your family, growing up without a parent, Korean culture, suppressing your feelings, different kinds of therapy, attachment styles, dating creatives, what it’s like to date people of all cultures, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss last week’s episode, a reflection on my first few episodes, having “ugly weeks,” how much to share on a first date, why it’s a red flag to ask what are we, what hot girl summer really means, and guys girls vs. girls girls. www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/acme to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today And visit www.Vaccines.gov to find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 18, 2021 • 1h 8min
What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer
In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how to go up to guys when you’re out, how soon into a relationship guys know if they want to marry you, dating younger guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss sex/life on Netflix, making out with tongue vs. without, and how the rules apply when you’re in a relationship. www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your Free account or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months And find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you at www.vaccines.gov Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 11, 2021 • 49min
Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff
In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect first date outfit, why the word "balance" is bullshit, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if therapy can make you overthink or insecure, how to get into liking porn, if you can work on your mental health while in a relationship, my new merch!, keeping your sex life hot if you live together, dysfunctional sibling relationships, how I spent July 4th, and questions to ask to get into a relationship. www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your first order www.dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box www.girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 4, 2021 • 55min
Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia
In this episode, I am virtually joined by hugely successful porn star and now fellow podcaster Eva Lovia aka Candice Horbacz. We discuss open relationships, how onlyfans relates to the porn industry, why it's okay to have a healthy relationship with porn, how her and her boyfriend met, one night stands that don't work, being afraid of your kids being made fun of, how to not be scared of your family's judgement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I don’t have one night stands, if there’s a fake “one” before the real “one,” explaining that you want to take it slow, how to become less defensive, and more. Find out where to get your COVID-19 vaccine at www.vaccines.gov www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 27, 2021 • 59min
We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves
In this episode, I am virtually joined by human connection specialist Mark Groves. We discuss how to know if you’re in love, how to know if your relationship is over, things you can work through and not work through, breaking up and getting back together successfully, what codependency looks like, how society affects our relationships, if it’s better to fight all the time or never fight, why couples therapy is so helpful, being defensive, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss problems that come up in your relationship now will come up again in your next, rules and courtesies around relationships on social media, how to be vulnerable in a new relationship, random small confidence tips, and tips for traveling with new SO. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 20, 2021 • 57min
Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Jena Kingsley, of Social Studies podcast. We discuss botox and when you need to get it, why friend break ups are harder than romantic ones, not sleeping together in the beginning of a relationship, normalizing not liking every friend of your SO’s, how to bring up your needs in a relationship, the importance of giving someone a good chance, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the difference between being picky and settling, moving into your SO’s apartment, adjusting to friends spending all their time with a SO, and our apartment update! www.Curology.com/acme for your free 30-day trial www.upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise to save 20% on your first month of membership with code ACME www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


