

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jun 6, 2021 • 47min
Maybe You’re The Problem ft. Whitney Cummings
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the hilarious Whitney Cummings. We discuss lessons she's learned, having an addictive personality, how she started dating her vet, why it's important to have a partner who doesn't feed into your BS, what you don't like about your partner is your fault, why you'll never get 100% happiness in a relationship, finding the right birth control for you, something off brand about her, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I knew I was depressed, dealing with friend jealousy, least favorite fashion trends, bringing up that you don’t drink when dating, if I was truly in love with exes, and more! www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise for 20% off your House of Wise purchase Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 30, 2021 • 56min
You’ll Have An Orgasm After This ft. Emily Morse
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the amazing Emily Morse from Sex With Emily podcast. We discuss how to achieve an orgasm if you never have, how important sex is in a relationship, tips on communication when it comes to intimacy, why Emily doesn’t believe in sex on a first date, normalizing not wanting to have kids, if sex is better in your 20s or 30s, how vibrators may be hurting your chance to orgasm during sex, how to get out of your own head, sexual kinks, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss being too picky, dating when you’re not over an ex, how we found an apartment, how the move went, and how to find friends in NYC. www.DailyHarvest.com with code acme for $25 off your first box www.Ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months www.OseaMalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your first order www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 23, 2021 • 1h 6min
Carrie Bradshaw Is Doing Everything Wrong ft. The Bradshaw Boys
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Cory, Kevin, and Jon from The Bradshaw Boys Podcast. We discuss the cringey things Carrie Bradshaw does, why they start- ed their podcast, what makes each character in SATC relatable, why Big should not be the villain, the character’s zodiac signs, how Carrie would be different if SATC was written today, why every guy should watch SATC, what they could not get away with today, if it’s okay to pull a Miranda and not support your friend’s partner, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss juggling dating multiple people at once, how I found success with WMAA, if it’s possible to have too much sex with a partner, when to move in with someone, red flags from in- laws, my apt move, what food I want served at my wedding, and why you should give guys on apps that you’re not attracted to a chance. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme to save 20% on your first order www.Curology.com/acme to unlock your free 30-day trial www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your free 30-day trial Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 16, 2021 • 51min
Date Like He’s Obsessed With You ft. Candice Jalili
In this episode, I am virtually joined by dating expert and writer Candice Jalili. We discuss the meet-cute way she met her partner, why you should date like he's obsessed with you, should you actually send the text, getting caught trying to be sly when writing about or podcasting about a guy, trying to be that easy-going girl, how she broached the girlfriend convo with her now fiancé, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to argue better with your SO, dealing with a partner’s tough mom, what to talk about with a therapist, and how to meet people at weddings. www.ISSUU.com/podcast and use promo code acme for your free account or get 50% off your premium account www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 13, 2021 • 43min
Why Women Don’t Understand Themselves Sexually ft. Base Founder Lola Priego and House of Wise Founder Amanda Goetz
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Lola Priego of Base and Amanda Goetz of House Of Wise. We discuss why it’s important to take a test for your libido, why it’s bad that alcohol is normalized for moms, getting married young, how CBD can positively affect your life, why women don’t understand themselves sexually, body insecurity, why masturbation is crucial and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss difference in intellectual levels with a partner, masturbating when you live together, why a relationship should be easy, and if a relationship can work when you want to live in different places. Visit www.Get-Base/HouseofWise to see what they’re up to and to purchase the sex drive deep dive + the HOW sex gummies You get 20% off your first month of Base with code ACME And 20% off your House of Wise purchase with code ACME Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 9, 2021 • 56min
Finding Love In Non-Cringey Ways ft. Lox Club Founder Austin Kevitch
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Lox Club founder Austin Kevitch. We discuss his fear of commitment, why he started Lox Club, what he's bad at when it comes to dating, finding love in non-cringey ways, how rejection can be motivating, the dangers of staying in touch with an ex, needing an aggressive woman, his turnoffs, how he takes care of his own needs, the last time he cried, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why you need to live together before marriage, friends who aren’t happy for you, break up regret, why serial monogamy isn’t a bad thing, and how to show up as a bridesmaid. www.Uqora.com/ACME for 20% off your order www.DailyHarvest.com with promo code ACME for $25 off your first box www.get-base.com/houseofwise with code ACME for 20% off your House of Wise purchase Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 2, 2021 • 52min
The Realest Bravo Housewife: Countess Luann
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the one and only Countess Luann De Lesseps. We discuss how she met the count, dating someone with the same sign, living together before engagement, why it'll never work out with Tom, men who have friends that are girls, learning to love yourself after rejection, how she got involved with RHONY, her relationship status with the other housewives, a preview of what's to come this season, if any housewives should be sober, her thoughts on my rules, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss relationship anxiety, mother’s day gifts, knowing a proposal is coming, some- one asking you to take it slow, and overcoming a fear of getting hurt. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme for 20% off your order. www.DipseaStories.com/ACME for your free 30-day trial. And choose to feel everything. Shop SKYN on www.Amazon.com Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 25, 2021 • 53min
You’ll Never Hear Crazier Dating Stories ft. Jon Laster
In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian Jon Laster. We discuss our night at the comedy cellar, shady things men do, experiencing death in relationships, knowing when it’s time to stop drinking, how alcohol and drugs makes anxiety worse, why it’s important to have your own joy, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss different parenting ideas, your partner taking care of their family financially, how to handle red flags when you live together, the difference between nagging and contempt, and not wanting to see your partner right away after time spent away. www.Issuu.com/podcast with promo code ACME to get your FREE account or 50% off your premium account. www.Sakara.com/ACME to get 20% off your first order. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 18, 2021 • 55min
So You’re Single Again ft. Anisha Ramakrishna
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Anisha Ramakrishna from Bravo’s Family Karma and Currently Cringing Podcast. We discuss getting out of a long relationship and being single again, being two different people with friends and family, Indian culture vs. American culture, if we should date someone who was raised similar, splitting checks with a partner, changing your mind in relationships, the importance of toxic and healthy relationships, losing our libidos, keeping the door open after a break up, how to get a guy hooked, knowing when to break your own rules, how much to share about our sex lives on our podcasts, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to approach your desired gender when you see them, the different phases of my 20s, the stigma of being single in your 30s, fears/concerns about long term commitment, and men who are intimidated by successful women. www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.Athenaclub.com with code acme for 20% off www.Curology.com/acme to get your free 30 day trial And choose to feel everything. Show SKYN condoms on www.Amazon.com Hear Anisha's pod at Currently Cringing Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 11, 2021 • 50min
Overcoming Our Bad Dating Patterns ft. Christian Gonzalez
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Dr. G aka Christian Gonzalez from Heal Thy Self Podcast. We discuss overcoming bad dating patterns, fear of being alone, dating when you've experienced loss, distracting ourselves from feeling pain, jumping from one relationship to another, does someone bring out a bad side of you or is it already there, what we're seeking is inside of us, why someone shouldn't be your better half/complete you, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling like you’re in a more mature place than friends, why my BF didn’t kiss me on our first date, judging someone based on their social media, “The One” show on Netflix, and being too picky. www.Dailyharvest.com with code ACME to get $25 off your first box. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order. www.DipseaStories.com/ACME for your free 30 day trial. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.