Big Hormone Enneagram

Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions. Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks — (2:32) How important is trifix order? — (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct? — (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes — (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake? — (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem? — (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers? — (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations — (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion? To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Explore the challenges of maintaining a positive image and reinforcing self-worth. Discover how different Enneagram types deal with shame. Delve into the contradictory nature of the heart types and their desire for specialness. Examine the distorted perception of looks for a Four in the Enneagram. Understand the reactions to shame based on Enneagram types. Uncover the identity mechanisms of a Type Four and their use of disgust as a weapon. Delve into the behavior of Type Twos and their constant need for validation.

Topics discussed include vulnerability of Enneagram type Eight, navigating movements in relationships, frustration with disruption, cultural differences in expression of anger, reflection on the blandness of a bar crowd, bread people and America's problem, and the experience of anger and rage from different Enneagram types.

Delving into fear and anxiety of head types; fear of contamination and avarice; ways to work on 5 avarice; 6 fear disguised as responsibility and logic; 7 running from limitations; anxiety showing up as manic consumption.

— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency — (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for? — (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by — (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body — (26:42) Social-blinds aren’t updating social impressions as the connection evolves — (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction? — (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they’re being cared for or that they care? — (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it’s not — (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections — (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it’s distorted To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray You can support the show with a donation here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

John, a frustrated individual in romantic relationship and creativity, discusses vulnerability and sensitivity as a type 4, the difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity, over-individuating to express singular identity, frustration in romantic relationship and creativity, self-limiting image rigidity, shame with social chemistry, getting dumb as a pathway to loosen up, feeling deficient about getting into the body, getting embodied in sexuality, timeless sense of identity of heart types, and overcorrecting for being self-absorbed.

Courtney Joseph and Kristen participate in a roast of the social-blind legends, discussing their limited personas and channels of engagement. They joke about social blinds being terrible judges of people and compare podcasting in the dark to being perceived on video. They also explore the annoying fixation of SX/SP types on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat. The podcast highlights the social blind approach to social connections and the consequences of missing out on social co-regulation. Despite the challenges, the speakers find social blind obliviousness hilarious and freeing, emphasizing the personal personhood of social versus the personal flavor of sexual. They also share personal anecdotes about the feeling in the body of each blindspot and discuss what makes the social blinds amazing while acknowledging their own grievances with social blinds.

Ikram and Kristen, two social types, discuss the pain and suffering of the social instinct. They touch on the dangers of the social space, the naivety of social-blinds, tearing others down for personal gain, projecting inner identities onto the world, dysfunctional social sabotage, and the healing power of connection. They also explore personal encounters with social wounding and owning one's social danger and obsessions.

Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh. — (12:36) Why do attachment types need support? — (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are — (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment  — (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility — (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding — (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief — (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group — (48:58) The goal isn’t to become like hexad types — (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classes For more on the Attachment Support Group visit: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group If you enjoy the show support us with a donation: cashapp - $bighormone venmo - @bighormone Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Theo Von, Couple’s therapy, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

We’re back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram. — (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people — (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just paying your bills and taking care of yourself — (29:54) Difficulty making long term choices / a blindspot for one’s limitations — (34:18) Sp-blinds identifying with their capacity to be affected by others — (37:30) Sp blinds still stuck in high school / connection and chemistry without animal reality — (41:58) Slippery conversational amnesia — (43:47) Hobosexuals and so/sx frivolous bling display / personality as a juicy social ornament — (52:10) Social activism but make it cool / best friends way too fast — (54:57) sx/so mist is just mist / catfish lovebombers — (58:43) DG’s compatibility with sx/so and being stuck in yearning / love in the air without a foundation to grow — (1:03:42) sx/so bimbofication   Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Keke Palmer, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message