Big Hormone Enneagram

We’re back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram. — (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people — (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just paying your bills and taking care of yourself — (29:54) Difficulty making long term choices / a blindspot for one’s limitations — (34:18) Sp-blinds identifying with their capacity to be affected by others — (37:30) Sp blinds still stuck in high school / connection and chemistry without animal reality — (41:58) Slippery conversational amnesia — (43:47) Hobosexuals and so/sx frivolous bling display / personality as a juicy social ornament — (52:10) Social activism but make it cool / best friends way too fast — (54:57) sx/so mist is just mist / catfish lovebombers — (58:43) DG’s compatibility with sx/so and being stuck in yearning / love in the air without a foundation to grow — (1:03:42) sx/so bimbofication   Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Keke Palmer, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Watch the live pod on youtube: https://youtu.be/lhaDNCSuwW4 — (18:41) What we’ve contributed to the enneagram as a group — (23:18) Josh leads us through piecing together the history of the group — (37:44) DG’s instinct cards and the birth of the collage exercise  — (44:34) How Alexandra found the group and typing meltdowns — (53:51) Courtney finding the group and her object relations contributions — (59:12) How COVID led to the first zone and John met Alexandra — (1:04:48) How did Josh find the group and began creating with the enneagram? — (1:22:33) How Alexandra came to join the pod? — (1:33:20) How the Kristen and the dream team made connections between dreams and the enneagram and started the SinSomnia podcast Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

— (10:40) Welcome to our roast of the sx-blinds — (15:52) so/sp are way too serious and stuck-up about relational categories and context — (21:40) so/sp’s do it with their gloves on in the museum  — (25:57) The power drive of so/sp / lineage and geneology?! — (30:35) What we like about so/sp reluctantly — (37:38) The roast of sp/so begins - the fixation on stuff — (43:52) sp/so collectors and hoarders — (49:30) sp/so’s killing the vibe with their day to day minutia and gross body stuff — (1:03:16) What we like about sp/so Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SO/SP VS SP/SO SX blindspot, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

— (6:30)  Peering into the catfish void and the starvation of connection — (13:10) The failure of social in the west and the nuclear family / catfish as an internet age phenomenon  — (19:50) Soft white underbelly and the horrors that arise from a lack of community — (23:42) What’s in it for the catfisher? — (27:13) We’re all catfishing a little bit out of fear of rejection — (31:15) The thirst to reveal ourselves to someone and falling in love with AI — (33:18) Our wounds and missing pieces make us vulnerable — (40:26) We’re doing an episode on the art of loving book — (46:50) Akashic records and aliens genetically modifying the human species Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,Genesis Porridge, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Exploring the behavior of 3w2 vs 3w4, comparing their self-image and interpersonal skills, discussing if 3w2s are better manipulators, debating the singing and chameleon abilities of each type, highlighting the positive vs reactive wing, examining the superego offerings of 3w2, cringes about other 3w4s, and the inquiry skills of 3w2s.

— (4:16) What it’s like to have frustration, rejection, or attachment last — (14:26) Emeka’s rejection/frustration refined border freakouts — (23:16) DG & Alexandra are rejection last ghostly 9s  — (25:22) John’s frustration/rejection locked down non-personhood — (32:54) What 4s with more attachment are like — (42:55) Attachment/rejection are stable negotiators  — (48:56) Gut lasts are unhinged  — (50:42) Head lasts are impulsive creatures — (54:40) Heart lasts are dead inside Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

— (1:27) Am I just attracted to 9s because they’re soft? — (12:41) ♫ The softest place on earth ♫ — (16:53) What do people like about hooking up with 8s or 1s? — (25:33) How do I help my 7 process grief? — (34:08) The fixated 9 crusade around healing — (39:38) Why are people so obsessed with image when image types are so rare? / what’s it like to have each center last? — (52:33) Center lasts and different O.R. last episodes coming soon — (54:48) Important philosophical discussions on milfdom Check out Julie’s fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Watch Nancy’s core 3 interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You: https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

The podcast discusses topics such as attraction from an instinctual lens, the involvement of chemicals in attraction, the merging of sexual instinct, the role of polarity in sexual chemistry, and disagreement as a form of sexual polarity. They also touch on the impact of gender neutrality versus polarity, the truth serum effect of a porn stash, and the relationship between sexuality and spirituality. Additionally, they explore the concept of attractiveness, the non-linear growth element of sexual chemistry, and the challenges of understanding and articulating the sexual instinct.

Super spreader hormoan instinct talks. — (7:47) Nancy chimes in on instinct love languages and what men really want but won’t say they want — (13:01) Sex work revealing missing needs and desires / strip club talk — (20:28) What’s up with America’s hyper-sexuality vs sexual conservatism  — (25:52) Culture as an instinctual meme / Latin culture drawing from Aztec mythology culturally integrates more sexual instinct — (29:06) Sex at Dawn and the creation of monogamy / the sexual threat of trans-racial mixing to culture, legacy and blood lines — (42:32) Hookup chronicles and sp/so sexuality Watch Nancy’s interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You: https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Type Twins. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Dearly beloved / we’re gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct  — (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct — (5:47) Integrating the social instinct’s verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra’s ‘love cup’ religion propaganda — (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave — (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / ’socially slutty’ — (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility. — (35:53) Alexandra’s war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds — (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction — (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let’s flesh out love languages for instincts Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message