They don’t want you to know. — (3:10) Nines are everyone’s least favorite mud cattle — (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers — (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicide Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the NOTA4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this. — (8:42) Why we’re talking about Dogville / Plot overview — (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection — (24:30) How things went from bad to worse — (30:04) The arrogance of 9 — (37:32) Grace confronted by the Dogville principle — (47:14) Grace representing the unprotected innocence of the body center — (53:00) The 8 tenet of first protecting your self and life force — (1:03:39) Why Dogville is a must watch for 9s and 9-fixers Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Toni Morrison, Osho, and The 145 Bermuda Overlay and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Live from Harlem tunneling thru the catacombs of the heart. Watch here: https://youtu.be/tnkHm0LCX_c — (2:18) Alright.. the heart center live — (6:45) The value of shame / heart-2nd impresisons — (13:15) Josh’s core 3 image and sensitivity to self-abandonment  — (16:07) Decoupling emotion from the feeling of the heart center — (20:40) Shame shame shame — (30:05) The developmental view of the centers / the moment to moment self vs the fixed self — (35:25) “I’m this type of person now” / your identity is what you pay attention to and care about — (43:37) 3 image adaptability vs 4 image rigidity / the freedom and fluidity of identity — (55:12) The social instinct bridging to the heart center  — (1:00:27) The passion and creativity of identity  To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on David Blaine, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

New insights emerging on having your heart center last. — (4:22) Alexandra’s new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity  — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself — (16:28) Painting your self-portrait and updating how things reflect on you  — (23:18) Aesthetic of personality and unearthing an ocean of values — (26:08) What does neglecting the heart center cost you? — (33:02) Heart last and 4 fix reflex to wince away from being seen — (39:00) Heart lasts underestimate how what they’re doing will cause them to feel shame — (44:33) Events of the world as heart-last phenomenons — (56:20) Heart last and what’s valuable about me To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

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Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals. — (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram — (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip  — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah — (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth — (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7 — (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups — (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality — (49:41) Plans for 2024 — (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio — (1:01:52) The return of trump — (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Malcolm Gladwell, Charles Bukowski, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Chatting the enneagram in the movies. — (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx — (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies — (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories — (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies — (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks — (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness — (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell — (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry’s a 2 director — (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx — (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance — (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Matt Rife, Andre 3000, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography. — (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this? — (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map — (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean — (25:25) John’s lines confirm his love affair with Egypt — (29:04) DG’s meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa — (34:02) Alexandra’s lines and the birthplace of her love — (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots — (44:57) How far away is too far from a line? — (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place — (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map — (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on 269 Trifix, Andre 3000, and Jeremy Fragrance. Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram. — (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct? — (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization — (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity — (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i’m doing — (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves — (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization  — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4 — (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram. — (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles — (14:18) What does flex mean? — (20:03) Flex vs friends — (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends — (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1? — (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization  — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka — (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic — (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition — (56:32) What’s specialization? — (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone — (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex — (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message