Savage Lovecast

A candid discussion unfolds around the complexities of consent and inclusivity in bathhouse culture, sparking debate in a group chat. A divorced mother seeks advice on explaining her relationship with her ex to her young daughter. A deep dive with author Katie Simon uncovers the healing paths of sexual assault survivors, including the notion of a 'slut phase.' Meanwhile, a pre-op trans man reveals his struggles with rejection from partners after disclosing his anatomy, highlighting the need for understanding in intimate relationships.

Christine Wenc, author and original staff member of The Onion, joins the conversation to discuss the magazine's pivotal role in shaping modern news satire. She shares nostalgic moments and insights on how humor has influenced journalism today. The podcast dives into the complexities of dating bisexual men and the misconceptions surrounding their commitment. Listeners also grapple with the dynamics of attraction in LGBTQ+ relationships and the importance of self-acceptance in the pursuit of genuine connections. Remember, the clitoris is much more than just a little button!

This week, Amanda Knox, an exoneree and bestselling author, shares her incredible journey of survival and healing after being wrongfully convicted in Italy. With humor, she discusses the intricacies of modern relationships, from navigating insecurities in threesomes to overcoming friend-zone dilemmas. Amanda also reflects on her difficult past and how it informs her view on emotional connections. Don't miss her insights on sexual wellness and the importance of communication in navigating both love and life.

A Canadian woman's adventure in group sex raises questions about language barriers and intimacy. A high-libido woman considers joining her poly friend’s harem, sparking an internal debate about tradition versus new experiences. A disconcerting moment occurs when a child finds explicit photos on a parent’s phone, leading to important discussions about sex and privacy. Meanwhile, a couple’s first visit to a jack-off club unfolds a mix of nerves and excitement, revealing the need for open communication in exploring new romantic terrains.

Relationships take a twist when a woman navigates trust issues after a painful breakup and confiding in a friend with ulterior motives. A defense of faking orgasms sparks a provocative discussion on intimacy. Comedian Zach Zimmerman joins to explore the nuances of the term 'daddy' in modern relationships. A woman grapples with how much of her past to share with a new partner after moving on. The episode touches on the importance of communication, honesty, and the complexities of dating dynamics.

A chill married lesbian grapples with her friend's surprise coming-out as pan, stirring up complex feelings. A wild tale unfolds about a woman's dog-related disaster as she discovers her boyfriend's son's secret. A poppers expert spills the beans on their history and current controversies. A submissive woman wrestles with heart feelings over her desire for a no-strings-attached experience. From identity to intimate mishaps, the discussions illuminate the fun and messy sides of relationships!

Diana Adams, the Executive Director of Chosen Family Law Center, shares her expertise on navigating legal transitions for trans rights amid a challenging political landscape. She discusses strategies for ensuring safety while updating gender identity documentation. The episode also touches on the complexities of open relationships, especially when boundaries blur in a friend group. A promising study offers hope for bacterial vaginosis treatment that could benefit men, adding a unique twist to health discussions.

Dr. Stacy De-Lin, a board-certified gynecologist and Planned Parenthood member, joins to discuss menopause and the often-overlooked treatments available to women. A caller grapples with the complexities of friendship and loyalty after a new friend ditches her old ones. They also explore the health risks of douching with non-potable water while traveling, alongside a fascinating look at maintaining long-distance relationships under challenging circumstances. Communication and safety take center stage in this engaging conversation.

A man discovers his wife's journals and uncovers her hidden erotic desires, reigniting his love for her. A woman's blindfold experience leads to a surprising revelation about beauty. A candid chat with writer Jeffery Self explores the jealousy felt by straight men towards gay men and the challenges of male sex work. Listener dilemmas abound, including a boyfriend unaware of his odor and another struggling with guilt over intimate acts. The podcast dives into navigating boundaries and intimacy in relationships, emphasizing open communication and evolving connections.

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