Savage Lovecast

A woman discovers her husband's decade-old affair and has been unknowingly chatting with the other woman who lives nearby. She seeks advice on whether to confront her. Another caller loves anal sex but wants to prolong their pleasure; tips include butt plugs and staying still. A middle-aged man navigates his online feminist persona while juggling interest from younger women, debating how to avoid past mistakes. Plus, insights on Mpox cases from a queer sexual health expert keep listeners informed.

Dive into a wild night as Chrissy shares her shocking first experience at a sex club. From the vibrant queer atmosphere to her thrilling moments of spanking and electrostimulation, every detail is both playful and eye-opening. She emphasizes the importance of consent and safety, highlighting how trust with friends made her feel secure. Chrissy reflects on what she’d do differently next time, like skipping the drinks for a more present experience. This candid chat is packed with tips for first-timers and a celebration of sexual exploration!

In this episode, Therapy Jeff (Jeff Gunther), a licensed professional counselor and social media therapist, shares invaluable tips for surviving Thanksgiving with difficult family dynamics. He emphasizes setting boundaries, finding a 'family buddy,' and even suggests hitting up a gay bar if you're alone. The discussion dives into the importance of emotional self-care, with Jeff also handling quirky listener questions about intimacy and the effects of SSRIs. His soothing advice is perfect for navigating holiday stresses and relationship complexities!

On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you enjoy it. We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line "After Action Report." We'll get in touch! Do you like this? Yeah you do. There's more of this sort of thing at the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's advice show. Listen up at Savage.Love or wherever you get your podcasts

Listeners call in with eye-opening scenarios about dating and sex. One caller grapples with whether to disclose her neighbor's giant penis to new partners. Another seeks advice on navigating a friends-with-benefits situation as her partner moves on. A woman faces a moral dilemma with her religious teen son, needing help to encourage open conversations about sexuality. Plus, Dan consults sex researcher Ashley Bloomberg on the motivations behind sex work, distinguishing between choice and coercion in the industry.

Discover the intriguing world of sneezing as a sexual fetish with Ember, who shares her lifelong kink and experiences. Hear how she uses imported sneezing powder to enhance her pleasure and her journey into ethical non-monogamy. Ember discusses the dynamics of being a sneezing dom versus a submissive role, and how she navigates opening her marriage. Plus, she reveals her unique methods for inducing sneezes and the empowering nature of kink, including a captivating scene that blends bondage and body fluids.

Peter Rothblatt, a writer and commentator, joins to provide political insights, discussing the challenges of being an ally when navigating sensitive topics with teens. Dr. Anna Moore, a veterinarian and chief operating officer at Urban Animal, hilariously tackles a peculiar listener query: is it acceptable for a cat to hump a person's leg? She shares intriguing insights into feline behavior and boundaries. The conversation also dives into the anatomy of pleasure, including the puzzling allure of choking in intimate experiences.

A woman shares her journey of mastering the art of squirting, exploring what motivated her over the years. She discusses the tutorials and influences that helped her refine her technique, and how squirting challenges conventional gender norms. Kira reveals the unique sensations of squirting compared to traditional orgasm and addresses the debate around whether female ejaculate is urine. With insights on empowerment and consent, this conversation offers a candid look at a personal and messy achievement.

A woman grapples with her bisexual husband's evolving desires, primarily wanting her to embody a more masculine persona. Meanwhile, someone questions if straight leather daddies can truly escape misogyny in their dynamics. A conversation also unfolds about maintaining friendships with exes, unearthing the myths surrounding it. Plus, a newly out femme lesbian debates whether her long, beautiful nails might complicate her dating life. Humor and insight blend seamlessly throughout the chat!

A trans man's intriguing journey to his first furry party unfolds with a mix of excitement and bewilderment. He shares his expectations versus the overwhelming reality upon arrival, including the curious mechanics of fursuit sex. The discussion dives into the complexities of attraction—person versus persona—and the importance of communication in this vibrant subculture. With insights on safer practices and community connections, listeners get an entertaining glimpse into the furry world and the unique experiences it offers.