Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 997
Dec 15, 2025
A recent widow navigates a surprising increase in her libido, revealing the complexities of grief. A gay man questions his sexual dynamics as he explores bottoming for the first time. Discussions about betrayal in polyamorous relationships highlight the importance of trust. After a swift romance ends in ghosting, perspectives shift to gratitude for the experience. The term 'Barbie bi' is introduced, addressing non-reciprocal relationships. Throughout, listeners receive practical advice on navigating intimacy and trust in relationships.
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Sloths Can Fart — Party Story
- Dan recounts being at a party where he missed a months-old news story and later learned sloths fart.
- Scientists held a sloth underwater and observed tiny bubbles, disproving the myth sloths don't fart.
Use Outside Channels For Workplace Hooks
- If you want a casual hookup with a coworker, use indirect channels like dating apps to initiate outside work.
- Follow the Pina Colada song model: respond to his ad, meet offsite, and then pursue a casual arrangement.
Grief And Libido Vary Widely
- Grief affects libido differently for everyone; heightened desire after loss is normal.
- Dan Savage says sexual resurgence can be a healthy part of grieving and not something to feel guilty about.
