Savage Lovecast

Rachel recounts a carefully planned hotel-room encounter rooted in exhibitionism, voyeurism, and anonymity. She explores how detailed negotiation, consent, and safety shaped a thrilling, entirely wordless first date. The story also considers why some perfect one-time experiences are best left unrepeated.

Questions tackle delayed ejaculation, semen facials, and finding casual gay sex without unwanted relationship expectations. There’s advice on face-fucking positions, intrusive thoughts during sex, and why a jockstrap says nothing about sexual role. A conversation with Julian Shaw explores foot fetishes, sex work, dating men on the DL, and his provocative film projects.

Tom recounts a daring trip to Berlin’s Kit Kat Club with his girlfriend, from fetish dress codes and consent screening to navigating public intimacy and unexpected encounters. They explore jealousy, reconnection, nonverbal communication, community, and the fine line between attraction and fetishization in a liberating, overwhelming setting.

Zach Noe Towers, the comedian behind Twink Death, joins Dan Savage for a gloriously queer detour through cruise ships turned away by homophobic countries, the scent of man, and uncircumcised anatomy. They also tackle decompression time in long-term relationships, explaining ethical nonmonogamy to children, solo vacations, and whether rejecting an older dating-app match is ageist.

Cat shares how launching a kink business forced her to come out to friends and family, only to find her mother’s boomer friends eagerly lining up for beginner bondage kits. The conversation explores discovering kink later in life, family reactions, generational openness, collar symbolism, and the awkward art of revealing your private interests.

A military couple considers opening their relationship under strict adultery laws. A science deep dive explores the origins of sexual pleasure, reproduction, and homosexuality. Other dilemmas tackle kink signals, fake orgasms, permanent sterilization, family rejection of a trans sister, and the ethics of deleting intimate photos.

A pan, poly furry recounts a weekend at a kinky communal retreat full of costumes and surprising props. They talk about group negotiation, pegging scenes, and the role of dom energy versus physical sensation. Conversation also touches on accessibility and costs in furry culture and how hierarchies form in poly relationships.

A married gay couple explores tantric massage and the fallout of intense sexual experiences. A frank dive into adult baby/ABDL culture and what draws people to it. A conversation about why young people are stepping back from dating and romance. A playful chat about foot fetish preferences and what makes a foot sexy.

A queer woman describes writing, directing and performing a feminist porn scene inspired by her life. They discuss on-set care, consent practices and a community-centered production. Conversation covers a barter co-ownership deal instead of pay and how partners navigated participation and parenting concerns.

As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him? And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say? Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag race is here to talk about her upcoming tour, her Miss Congeniality role on Drag Race, growing up gay in a small town, and her abiding love for drag. She and Dan dish and do a deep dive on Drag Race. If you're a fan of the show, you're going to want to listen. A little is in the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. And, a woman has been dating her boyfriend for a year now, and he still never comes when he's with her. Dan spells out his technique to get him there. [email protected] 206-302-2064  This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 20% off site wide! Go to ⁠HelixSleep.com/Savage⁠. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at ⁠MackWeldon.com⁠ Beducated brings pleasure-based sex education right to your bedroom. Kick off your best sex life with Beducated’s awesome, five-minute quiz at ⁠https://beduc.at/pd2634-savage⁠