Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage
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Nov 14, 2025 • 19min

After Action Report #4

Discover the intriguing world of sneezing as a sexual fetish with Ember, who shares her lifelong kink and experiences. Hear how she uses imported sneezing powder to enhance her pleasure and her journey into ethical non-monogamy. Ember discusses the dynamics of being a sneezing dom versus a submissive role, and how she navigates opening her marriage. Plus, she reveals her unique methods for inducing sneezes and the empowering nature of kink, including a captivating scene that blends bondage and body fluids.
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Nov 11, 2025 • 1h 2min

Savage Love Episode 993

Peter Rothblatt, a writer and commentator, joins to provide political insights, discussing the challenges of being an ally when navigating sensitive topics with teens. Dr. Anna Moore, a veterinarian and chief operating officer at Urban Animal, hilariously tackles a peculiar listener query: is it acceptable for a cat to hump a person's leg? She shares intriguing insights into feline behavior and boundaries. The conversation also dives into the anatomy of pleasure, including the puzzling allure of choking in intimate experiences.
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Nov 7, 2025 • 11min

After Action Report #3

A woman shares her journey of mastering the art of squirting, exploring what motivated her over the years. She discusses the tutorials and influences that helped her refine her technique, and how squirting challenges conventional gender norms. Kira reveals the unique sensations of squirting compared to traditional orgasm and addresses the debate around whether female ejaculate is urine. With insights on empowerment and consent, this conversation offers a candid look at a personal and messy achievement.
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Nov 4, 2025 • 51min

Savage Lovecast Episode 992

A woman grapples with her bisexual husband's evolving desires, primarily wanting her to embody a more masculine persona. Meanwhile, someone questions if straight leather daddies can truly escape misogyny in their dynamics. A conversation also unfolds about maintaining friendships with exes, unearthing the myths surrounding it. Plus, a newly out femme lesbian debates whether her long, beautiful nails might complicate her dating life. Humor and insight blend seamlessly throughout the chat!
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Oct 31, 2025 • 12min

After Action Report #2

A trans man's intriguing journey to his first furry party unfolds with a mix of excitement and bewilderment. He shares his expectations versus the overwhelming reality upon arrival, including the curious mechanics of fursuit sex. The discussion dives into the complexities of attraction—person versus persona—and the importance of communication in this vibrant subculture. With insights on safer practices and community connections, listeners get an entertaining glimpse into the furry world and the unique experiences it offers.
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Oct 28, 2025 • 57min

Savage Lovecast Episode 991

A caller grapples with whether enjoying drag is akin to blackface for trans women. A man contemplates the allure of being naked at home and if others would enjoy the sight of him. Actor Ben Palacios shares humorous stories of his celebrity encounters while discussing first boyfriend experiences. The complexities of opening marriages and dating divorcees are tackled, alongside ethical dilemmas about nakedness with blinds open. Plus, insights into forming connections in cuckolding communities and the dynamics of age-gap dating.
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Oct 24, 2025 • 11min

After Action Report #1

In this engaging conversation, Lil Guy, a gay man and BDSM newbie with over three decades of marriage, shares his eye-opening experience of donning a full Lycra Spider-Man suit. He discusses the unexpected surge of masculinity he felt while submissive and how the suit transformed his behavior. Lil Guy recounts public play at a bathhouse, highlighting themes of anonymity and confidence. With practical advice for those looking to explore costumed encounters, he emphasizes safety and consent in shared vibrant experiences.
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Oct 21, 2025 • 55min

Savage Lovecast Episode 990

Imani Askew-Shabazz, Partnerships Director at Plan C, joins to discuss critical issues regarding access to medication abortion. She highlights the current threats to mifepristone access and the importance of telehealth abortion options. Imani also details useful resources for ordering abortion pills by mail and protective shield laws for clinicians. In a lighter vein, Dan Savage tackles intriguing relationship queries, including age disclosure and navigating boundaries within a paid submissive dynamic.
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Oct 14, 2025 • 56min

Savage Lovecast Episode 989

A woman struggles to help her boyfriend feel confident about his body, while a man in non-monogamous dating looks for slimmer partners. The discussion turns to the mysterious shortage of gay tops and how to navigate sex-positive spaces without overwhelming advances. Plus, a supportive gunkle seeks advice on connecting with his potentially gay great-nephew in a conservative setting. The conversation is a mix of body image, relationship dynamics, and the challenges of navigating sexual identities.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 56min

Savage Lovecast Episode 988

This week features Jackie Cox, a fabulous drag performer and Season 12 contestant on RuPaul's Drag Race. She joins Dan to discuss the nuances of drag life and the close-knit community among queens. One listener debates if she should keep shibari exclusive with her partner in an open relationship, while others explore using semen as lubricant and the challenges of open communication in dating. Jackie shares insights on navigating relationships and social dynamics in drag, making for a lively and enlightening conversation!

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