Savage Lovecast

A woman ponders selling her worn panties online rather than washing them. A married man in an open relationship craves affection from his wife like he receives from his lovers. The ethics of dating men in monogamous relationships are explored, with a caller torn between temptation and moral integrity. Dan also shares insights on navigating sexless marriages and the importance of gratitude in open relationships, leaving listeners with practical advice and thought-provoking dilemmas.

A spontaneous two-minute threesome at a party leads to wild and humorous insights. Lauren shares the thrill of a secret encounter, complete with a timer and intense moments of pleasure. They dive into the complexities of consent and the excitement of furtive escapades that rekindle passion. Discussions of the 'orgasm gap' add a cheeky twist, as Lauren reveals what she'd change for next time. This playful chat about unconventional intimacy paints a hilarious picture of daring experiences and teenage-like thrill.

A recent widow navigates a surprising increase in her libido, revealing the complexities of grief. A gay man questions his sexual dynamics as he explores bottoming for the first time. Discussions about betrayal in polyamorous relationships highlight the importance of trust. After a swift romance ends in ghosting, perspectives shift to gratitude for the experience. The term 'Barbie bi' is introduced, addressing non-reciprocal relationships. Throughout, listeners receive practical advice on navigating intimacy and trust in relationships.

A married woman is torn over her husband's rule-breaking in their open marriage, considering revenge sex. A divorced woman grapples with friendships that disrupt her romantic life, prompting questions about jealousy and boundaries. Dr. Alicia Walker dives into infidelity, challenging the stigma and discussing when cheating can be a moral choice. The complexities of porn versus prostitution are also explored, revealing the legal distinctions behind these forms of sex work.

In a candid exploration of new sexual experiences, a guest shares her journey of fulfilling a long-held pegging fantasy. From finding the right partner online to essential safety checks, the conversation covers everything from pre-meeting coffee chats to the empowering feeling of wearing a strap-on. They dive into intimate moments, including foreplay choices and the thrilling first penetration. Lily offers advice for those hesitant to try, emphasizing the joys of sexual discovery at any age. It’s an enlightening and entertaining discussion on pleasure and connection.

Listen to Justin, a 21-year-old, share his thrilling journey into the world of BDSM, starting with his first flogging experience. Discover how he navigated the intense sensation of 400 strikes and what it felt like physically and emotionally. Justin discusses the vital roles of mentorship, consent, and safety when exploring kinks. With plans to push his limits further, he offers advice for newcomers on finding trusted partners. Dive into his story and get inspired to explore new experiences!

A woman discovers her husband's decade-old affair and has been unknowingly chatting with the other woman who lives nearby. She seeks advice on whether to confront her. Another caller loves anal sex but wants to prolong their pleasure; tips include butt plugs and staying still. A middle-aged man navigates his online feminist persona while juggling interest from younger women, debating how to avoid past mistakes. Plus, insights on Mpox cases from a queer sexual health expert keep listeners informed.

Dive into a wild night as Chrissy shares her shocking first experience at a sex club. From the vibrant queer atmosphere to her thrilling moments of spanking and electrostimulation, every detail is both playful and eye-opening. She emphasizes the importance of consent and safety, highlighting how trust with friends made her feel secure. Chrissy reflects on what she’d do differently next time, like skipping the drinks for a more present experience. This candid chat is packed with tips for first-timers and a celebration of sexual exploration!

In this episode, Therapy Jeff (Jeff Gunther), a licensed professional counselor and social media therapist, shares invaluable tips for surviving Thanksgiving with difficult family dynamics. He emphasizes setting boundaries, finding a 'family buddy,' and even suggests hitting up a gay bar if you're alone. The discussion dives into the importance of emotional self-care, with Jeff also handling quirky listener questions about intimacy and the effects of SSRIs. His soothing advice is perfect for navigating holiday stresses and relationship complexities!

On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you enjoy it. We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line "After Action Report." We'll get in touch! Do you like this? Yeah you do. There's more of this sort of thing at the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's advice show. Listen up at Savage.Love or wherever you get your podcasts