Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage
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Jan 15, 2026 • 1h 6min

Lovecast Extra: Sex and...Television?

Claire Perlman, a certified sex therapist and social media personality known as SexClarified, joins the conversation to delve into the steamy Canadian series, Heated Rivalry. They explore the emotional depth of the show's characters, particularly Scott and Kip, and tackle the complexities of bi identity against the backdrop of the narrative. Claire and Dan analyze the show's portrayal of sexuality, viewers' criticisms, and how their discussions reflect broader themes in male relationships and fantasies, making the topic both engaging and enlightening.
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Jan 13, 2026 • 60min

Savage Lovecast Episode 1001

This lively discussion kicks off with a humorous take on transitioning from ass to pussy. A critical topic arises around circumcision and how to approach sensitive family conversations. Dan chats with journalist Ellen Huet about her investigative work on a controversial sex cult focused on female pleasure. The complexities of introducing polyamorous friends and navigating ethical porn for younger audiences also spark insightful dialogue. Expect a mix of laughter, valuable advice, and some candid reflections on modern relationships!
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Jan 13, 2026 • 15min

After Action Report #11

A couple attends a Viking-themed kink party and shares their sizzling experiences. They dive into fire play, discussing its sensations and safety techniques. Communication and intimacy flourish as they explore ethical non-monogamy together. Christine humorously recounts a nipple hair joke amidst the night’s excitement. The event promotes adventurous outings to reignite passion, while also emphasizing the importance of consent and partner safety. Reflecting on the magic of their night, they celebrate the thrill they found together.
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Jan 6, 2026 • 59min

Savage Lovecast Episode 1000

Celebrating a milestone, the hosts dive into rapid-fire questions, exploring quirky topics like the origins of 'pegging' and why men's farts seem stinkier. Guest experts provide relationship wisdom, addressing issues from drooling during sex to navigating racial taboos. They tackle complex discussions about monogamy, crushes, and spicing up so-called vanilla marriages. The lively banter offers insights into the evolving landscape of sexuality while keeping it entertaining with humor and empathy.
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Dec 27, 2025 • 14min

After Action Report #10

A woman's fantasy leads her to don a trench coat and embrace a high-end escort role with her boyfriend. The preparation creates both excitement and nerves. An unexpected booking confirmation text heightens the thrill. They set the scene with sensual touches, leading to a memorable first-time experience. The importance of communication and trust shines through, culminating in a profound emotional connection that deepens their relationship. Listeners are encouraged to share their own sizzling stories.
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Dec 23, 2025 • 55min

Savage Lovecast Episode 999

A woman ponders selling her worn panties online rather than washing them. A married man in an open relationship craves affection from his wife like he receives from his lovers. The ethics of dating men in monogamous relationships are explored, with a caller torn between temptation and moral integrity. Dan also shares insights on navigating sexless marriages and the importance of gratitude in open relationships, leaving listeners with practical advice and thought-provoking dilemmas.
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Dec 19, 2025 • 16min

After Action Report #9

A spontaneous two-minute threesome at a party leads to wild and humorous insights. Lauren shares the thrill of a secret encounter, complete with a timer and intense moments of pleasure. They dive into the complexities of consent and the excitement of furtive escapades that rekindle passion. Discussions of the 'orgasm gap' add a cheeky twist, as Lauren reveals what she'd change for next time. This playful chat about unconventional intimacy paints a hilarious picture of daring experiences and teenage-like thrill.
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Dec 18, 2025 • 53min

Savage Lovecast Episode 997

A recent widow navigates a surprising increase in her libido, revealing the complexities of grief. A gay man questions his sexual dynamics as he explores bottoming for the first time. Discussions about betrayal in polyamorous relationships highlight the importance of trust. After a swift romance ends in ghosting, perspectives shift to gratitude for the experience. The term 'Barbie bi' is introduced, addressing non-reciprocal relationships. Throughout, listeners receive practical advice on navigating intimacy and trust in relationships.
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Dec 16, 2025 • 56min

Savage Lovecast Episode 998

A married woman is torn over her husband's rule-breaking in their open marriage, considering revenge sex. A divorced woman grapples with friendships that disrupt her romantic life, prompting questions about jealousy and boundaries. Dr. Alicia Walker dives into infidelity, challenging the stigma and discussing when cheating can be a moral choice. The complexities of porn versus prostitution are also explored, revealing the legal distinctions behind these forms of sex work.
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Dec 15, 2025 • 21min

After Action Report #8

In a candid exploration of new sexual experiences, a guest shares her journey of fulfilling a long-held pegging fantasy. From finding the right partner online to essential safety checks, the conversation covers everything from pre-meeting coffee chats to the empowering feeling of wearing a strap-on. They dive into intimate moments, including foreplay choices and the thrilling first penetration. Lily offers advice for those hesitant to try, emphasizing the joys of sexual discovery at any age. It’s an enlightening and entertaining discussion on pleasure and connection.

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