Savage Lovecast

A cute gal seeks advice on becoming a more convincing dom by tapping into psychology. A newly out pan man grapples with his pubic hair while exploring gay culture. Novelist Kashana Cauley discusses the pleasure of dystopian fiction in today’s world and tackles topics like student debt and boundaries in kink. Plus, an androgynous person navigates the gay cruising scene, while listeners reflect on the complexities of intimacy in LGBTQ+ relationships and the authenticity of human expression versus AI-generated erotica.

A gay man's app profile raises eyebrows with its bluntness about not wanting sex workers. Discover how a woman's creativity transformed her marriage via an OnlyFans account for one fan—her husband! Explore the humorous invasion of straight families into a clothing-optional queer space, sparking a discussion about the essence of gay spaces. A listener grapples with the secret of his multiple vasectomies—should he share this with his current wife? The chat dives into AI's impact on erotica and the evolving landscape of human desire.

A woman weighs the ethical dilemmas of financial domination after a lucrative but troubling experience. A gay man grapples with unexpected feelings for a teasing colleague, fearing the loss of their friendship. In a hilarious twist, a listener's dog munches on her vibrator, prompting expert advice on replacements. The conversation dives into the complexities of sexual dynamics, relationships, and the importance of consent, while also touching on personal stories that highlight the messy, humorous side of intimacy.

A man discovers an Airbnb guest's vibrator and wonders how to handle the awkward situation. A listener grapples with sharing past advice after a year-long relationship that defied previous counsel. Dan discusses with author Melissa Febos about a year without sex and the ways sexuality shapes identity. A trans man seeks advice on balancing his desires in a relationship. The show tackles open relationships, emotional compatibility, and the challenges of expressing kink while navigating societal norms.

Arielle Domb, a London-based journalist known for her daring explorations of sexuality, shares her fascinating trip to a sex toy brothel in Berlin. She dives into the intertwining worlds of technology and intimacy, discussing the impact of AI on sexual experiences. The conversation also tackles consent, featuring callers with complex dilemmas about relationships and non-consent fantasies. Domb's insights into these future-forward topics prompt listeners to reevaluate their own perspectives on modern intimacy and communication.

A woman grapples with an unintended pregnancy while navigating her husband's strong anti-abortion beliefs. Discover the drama of accidents in BDSM, highlighted by a cautionary tale that stresses communication and trust. A husband recovering from an accident seeks ways to maintain intimacy despite physical limitations, with insights from a queer disability advocate. Finally, a man in an open relationship questions why his wife avoids oral sex with him but not with her boyfriend, sparking discussions on sexual dynamics and relationship preferences.

A quirky discussion unfolds as a queer woman grapples with her lackluster oral skills compared to her partner's impressive tongue tricks. Meanwhile, a 52-year-old man's relationship with a 20-year-old leads to being ostracized by his new friend group, raising questions about social dynamics. A woman who cries during orgasms confronts her friends' assumptions about repressed trauma. Lastly, a newly out queer woman struggles with dating preferences, torn between tenderness and the raw intensity she craves from men.

Lina Dune, writer and host of the Ask a Sub podcast, dives deep into complex relationship dynamics. She discusses a listener's past with a former professor, questioning ethical boundaries in student-teacher relationships. Lina also tackles a unique parenting dilemma for a new mother in a BDSM dynamic, offering insights on balancing kink with family life. Additionally, Colby Jaxxx shares his experiences in competitive masturbation culture, adding humor and candor to the conversation.

This week’s guest, Sacha Coward, is a historian and writer specializing in LGBTQ+ history, and author of 'Queer as Folklore.' He discusses fascinating interpretations of folklore, including 'The Little Mermaid' as a trans allegory and the unexpected portrayal of pornographic unicorns. The conversation also dives into queer narratives in animation and how history shapes modern identities. Listeners share personal relationship dilemmas, touching on substance use and the challenges of leaving a restrictive upbringing.

Listeners dive into the intriguing mental shifts of 'post-nut clarity' and 'post-nut confusion,' as two callers share their unique experiences. A straight man's unexpected encounter at Pride sparks conversation about personal discoveries and the evolving dynamics of sexual identity. As conversations unfold around liquor-soaked Pride celebrations, questions arise about the balance of joy and respect. Meanwhile, practical advice on enhancing sexual experiences, including prostate stimulation, keeps the discussion both candid and informative.