Savage Lovecast

A man discovers an Airbnb guest's vibrator and wonders how to handle the awkward situation. A listener grapples with sharing past advice after a year-long relationship that defied previous counsel. Dan discusses with author Melissa Febos about a year without sex and the ways sexuality shapes identity. A trans man seeks advice on balancing his desires in a relationship. The show tackles open relationships, emotional compatibility, and the challenges of expressing kink while navigating societal norms.

Arielle Domb, a London-based journalist known for her daring explorations of sexuality, shares her fascinating trip to a sex toy brothel in Berlin. She dives into the intertwining worlds of technology and intimacy, discussing the impact of AI on sexual experiences. The conversation also tackles consent, featuring callers with complex dilemmas about relationships and non-consent fantasies. Domb's insights into these future-forward topics prompt listeners to reevaluate their own perspectives on modern intimacy and communication.

A woman grapples with an unintended pregnancy while navigating her husband's strong anti-abortion beliefs. Discover the drama of accidents in BDSM, highlighted by a cautionary tale that stresses communication and trust. A husband recovering from an accident seeks ways to maintain intimacy despite physical limitations, with insights from a queer disability advocate. Finally, a man in an open relationship questions why his wife avoids oral sex with him but not with her boyfriend, sparking discussions on sexual dynamics and relationship preferences.

A quirky discussion unfolds as a queer woman grapples with her lackluster oral skills compared to her partner's impressive tongue tricks. Meanwhile, a 52-year-old man's relationship with a 20-year-old leads to being ostracized by his new friend group, raising questions about social dynamics. A woman who cries during orgasms confronts her friends' assumptions about repressed trauma. Lastly, a newly out queer woman struggles with dating preferences, torn between tenderness and the raw intensity she craves from men.

Lina Dune, writer and host of the Ask a Sub podcast, dives deep into complex relationship dynamics. She discusses a listener's past with a former professor, questioning ethical boundaries in student-teacher relationships. Lina also tackles a unique parenting dilemma for a new mother in a BDSM dynamic, offering insights on balancing kink with family life. Additionally, Colby Jaxxx shares his experiences in competitive masturbation culture, adding humor and candor to the conversation.

This week’s guest, Sacha Coward, is a historian and writer specializing in LGBTQ+ history, and author of 'Queer as Folklore.' He discusses fascinating interpretations of folklore, including 'The Little Mermaid' as a trans allegory and the unexpected portrayal of pornographic unicorns. The conversation also dives into queer narratives in animation and how history shapes modern identities. Listeners share personal relationship dilemmas, touching on substance use and the challenges of leaving a restrictive upbringing.

Listeners dive into the intriguing mental shifts of 'post-nut clarity' and 'post-nut confusion,' as two callers share their unique experiences. A straight man's unexpected encounter at Pride sparks conversation about personal discoveries and the evolving dynamics of sexual identity. As conversations unfold around liquor-soaked Pride celebrations, questions arise about the balance of joy and respect. Meanwhile, practical advice on enhancing sexual experiences, including prostate stimulation, keeps the discussion both candid and informative.

Nico Carney, a Brooklyn-based comedian and trans man, uses humor to tackle serious topics in the LGBTQIA+ community. He discusses the importance of laughter in understanding trans experiences, shares anecdotes about navigating dating post-transition, and examines genital preferences. The conversation also explores intimacy issues, including a woman's struggle with anxiety around bodily functions during sex and a man questioning compatibility in a polyamorous relationship. Nico’s journey highlights comedy as a bridge for connection and activism.

This week, comedian Jeremy Alder, a former fundamentalist Christian pastor turned humorist, brings his dry wit to the table. He shares hilarious insights about the pitfalls of homeschooling and his 'slutty phase' post-church life. The conversation dives deep into navigating honesty in polyamorous relationships, stress over communication, and the complexities of dom/sub dynamics, like the dilemmas of pegging. Listeners also hear a heart-wrenching story of a decade-long friend-with-benefits relationship that turns rocky, raising questions about emotional closure.

A caller from Nashville discusses frustration with repeated romantic rejections. A woman enjoys a casual relationship but grapples with its impending end. Randy Rainbow brings humor and insights, sharing wisdom from his new children's book. He also talks about embracing identity in a world full of haters. Another listener prepares for her first sex party, seeking fashion tips and setting boundaries. The conversation blends fun with serious relationship dynamics and encourages honest communication throughout.