The Hook Up

Are there some types of people who are more likely to cheat than others? Or does cheating happen because something’s missing in the relationship?We chat to couples therapists and researchers about why cheating happens. 

We hear a lot about being cheated on but what's it like to be the other person? We hear from the sneaky links who were blindsided, and the people in years-long affairs on why they stick around, and whether they feel guilty or not.

Discover the signs that indicate your partner may be struggling with depression. Learn how to navigate the emotional distancing that often arises in relationships affected by mental health issues. Explore strategies for having meaningful conversations about mental well-being while ensuring you take care of your own needs. Delve into the complexities of supporting a loved one without sacrificing your own mental health. Lastly, understand the emotional turmoil that can accompany the decision to stay or leave a relationship during tough times.

The podcast dives into whether a romantic partner should double as your best friend. Personal anecdotes illustrate emotional bonds, while listener feedback reveals a strong belief in friendship within relationships. The discussion emphasizes the risks of relying solely on a partner for all emotional needs and highlights the importance of maintaining diverse friendships. Humor and relatable insights intertwine, making it clear that a healthy balance between love and friendship is essential for personal growth and relationship satisfaction.

The podcast delves into the elusive nature of sexual chemistry, exploring how initial sparks can vary greatly. Listeners learn that both physical and emotional connections play a role in attraction. Insights from a sex coach reveal theories on primal attraction and the influence of pheromones. The discussion also highlights methods for reigniting intimacy in long-term relationships. Listeners are encouraged to communicate openly about their desires and reflect on past connections to better navigate their own experiences of attraction.

Is sexual chemistry a spark you can’t explain? Or pheromones? Banter? Or when you get along with someone intellectually/emotionally? What actually is sexual chemistry???????

We chat to author and academic Lisa Portolan about why everyone is ditching dating apps, sussing out whether there really is a secret ranking system scoring your profile, and if a new world-first code of conduct for dating apps could change them for the better.

We chat to seasoned app pro Outback Tom and hear all your tips, tricks, hacks and advice on how to decode dating apps.

Sometimes queer guys will label themselves a 'top', 'bottom', 'verse' or 'side' to describe the kinda sex they have, but what do they mean? In this ep we find out plus sex therapist Todd Baratz (@yourdiagnonsense) shares how he thinks these labels can be limiting.

Keen to make some new friends, but struggling to know how to do it? In this special ep, we’re joined by soulmate besties and podcaster’s Sal and Al from Two Broke Chicks, who’ve written a whole book about Finding Your People. We get their advice on how to find your new crew and they answer some of your friendship dilemmas. Catch Sal and Al on IG: @twobrokechicks