Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

Bela chats with Julia Arndt, founder of the PPM (Peak Performance Method) about key practices to becoming the BEST version of yourself.   Julia didn't have an easy path - even though if you look at her, you would think that.   She originally hails from Germany, has lived in 5 countries over the last 14 years and speaks three languages fluently. After working at Google in Silicon Valley for seven and a half years while the company grew from 30.000 to 100.000 employees, Julia BURNED OUT and took 3 months leave to figure out her life - which led her to teaching over 10,000 employees at huge companies how to do this themselves. She has been cheated on, moved countries, and has figured out how to help us: Love ourselves (so we aren't 'addicted' to the feelings of romantic love) Destress ourselves Ask 3 important questions to decide HOW to handle a 'not-awesome' situation How to create a life you want How to create the steps to DO IT... You'll learn a great deal in this episode (and do email me your lists to share if you'd like -- spoiler alert - there's homework)! If you like Julia's planner, put this link into your browser to order it (https://amzn.to/3rkXnQ4). If you're ready to find the lid to your pot, and this episode inspired you to TAKE ACTION, email datecoach@smartdatingacademy.com TODAY and inquire about how we can help you to get on track! If you're ready to invest in the love of your life, and if you're tired of being single, schedule a one hour session with Bela to change the trajectory of your dating life!    Join our free newsletter database by signing up here:  www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

This episode is genuinely amazing - Bela chats with relationship therapist Carole Cullen about the secrets to the happiest relationships!   Carole is trained by the Gottman Institute, and you will hear so many gems including: What being 'vulnerable' means on dates and HOW to do it (without oversharing)!  Great tips on how to do this date by date  Why being vulnerable connects you in the right ways What is a "Love Map" and why you relationship needs one? How many positive to negative interactions should one have for a happy relationship? How do you truly send 'appreciations' to your mate? What does 'turning towards' mean and how does it positively affect your relationship? How has Carole put even the most troubled relationships back on track, and what it takes for both people to do? You will LOVE this and if you did, we would LOVE for you to share this episode, and tag us on your social media!  We will give you some love back!   You can tag us @smartdatingacademy on Instagram or Facebook!    If you're ready to find the lid to your pot, and this episode inspired you to TAKE ACTION, email datecoach@smartdatingacademy.com TODAY and inquire about how we can help you to get on track! If you're ready to invest in the love of your life, and if you're tired of being single, schedule a one hour session with Bela to change the trajectory of your dating life!    Join our free newsletter database by signing up here:  www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

Listen to Tom Blake, dating columnist and author offer his wisdom to women from a man's perspective about Dating Over 50.   Tom was thrust into the dating world when his wife of six years called him on Christmas (while he was visiting his elderly mom) to let him know that she and her kids had moved out!   He started a column helping other singles in his age bracket, and has been writing about this since 1994.  He lost his partner of 25 years last year, and has been online dating for the past year.   You'll hear: -How Tom missed his date walking by in the bar because her photos were SO outdated -His favorite date -The Biggest Mistakes Women Make -What he thinks about long distance -How to make yourself 'available'  -Why the amount of time someone has been divorced or widowed doesn't always matter Tom is sweet, honest, and since you wanted more male voices, we are delivering!     If you're ready to invest in the love of your life, and if you're tired of being single, schedule a one hour session with Bela to change the trajectory of your dating life!    Join our free newsletter database by signing up here:  www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

Bela chats with her long standing Smart Dating Academy coach Lindsay Anderson in a 2 part episode to review the secrets of her most successful clients!   Lindsay has been helping people find love for over 20 years, and has helped thousands of singles find love!   They will discuss the patterns that have HELPED their clients most!   You won't want to miss any of this, and here are some highlights of the episode: 1) You won’t know who the love of your life is based off on online profile or a first date - and hear WHY! 2) Ignore the clock - internally and externally!  How and why to do that!    3) Doing something everyday adds up to big results over time - what's the best routine? 4) Treasure Hunting - How people find love in the most unexpected places! 5) Diversify your dating life - how do you do that?  6) Where there is smoke, there is fire....Kick the tires, and hard! Join our free newsletter database by signing up here:  www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

Listen to this incredibly authentic episode with somatic trauma practitioner Karlee Holden and Bela.   Karlee specializes in helping people for the last 20 years in poor relationships develop better boundaries, overcome anxiety and overthinking, more self-love and self worth to create the life they want!   In the course of the conversation, Bela reveals a tough moment in her day with her son which Karlee helps her to handle more authentically (turns into a live coaching session).   We all have little and big traumas that we can use our body and minds to heal, and Bela's son Max makes a debut on the podcast which was powerful :) Karlee will tell us: -What is considered trauma? -Why is setting clear boundaries so important for our emotional well being? How we can attract more love and healthy relationships? How you treat yourself is how others will treat you.  What does that look like? What are some actions we can do to create self love, care and boundaries? Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com).  Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser:  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com).  Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser:  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

Listen to this awesome mini episode where Bela tells you what the newest trend of "BEIGE FLAGS" are.   What are your 'beige flags', and when can a beige flag turn into a red flag?  Tune in for a succinct answer to this question, and know EXACTLY what to look for!    Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com).  Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser:  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

In this mini episode, you'll hear the most awesome, easy way to get over your sadness, grief, heartbreak & disappointment about your breakup! And it'll take you no time to do the exercise Bela recommends - listen NOW to amp up your healing! Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com). Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here! We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

According to new studies, what is the #1 Relationship Killer (spoiler alert - it's NOT money or infidelity) according to 46% of divorcing couples?   To answer the question, we invited Susan Guthrie, divorce attorney with over 30 years of experience and host of the "Divorce and Beyond" podcast to talk to us about it.  You won't want to miss this whether you're single or coupled at any age!  If you're dating, you'll know what to look for, and if you're in a relationship, you can navigate this!   Susan talks through the data, and Bela talks about HOW to make sure your relationship doesn't end up THERE (and how to ensure a GREAT relationship)!    Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com).  Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser:  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela

In this episode, Kate Anthony, Divorce Coach and Host of "The DIvorce Survival Guide Podcast" tells us about the 21st century narcissist.   She explains:   What is the definition of a narcissist and why have you had a change of heart on the term? Are there more narcissists today than ever before?  Oof!   What is the difference between narcissist, abuser, sociopath and why doesn't the "diagnosis" even matter? Do narcissists ever change? Why divorce rates climb for second and third marriages? What's the difference between a narcissist and a sociopath? When is it best to begin dating post-divorce?   What do you feel are the reasons that men typically move on faster post-divorce? You'll learn a lot, and enjoy Kate's fun style - she's smart, fun, and gets straight to it! If you're ready for a change, book your consultation with us at www.smartdatingacademy.com If you want to pre-order Kate's AMAZING new book (drops in October), here it is on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3QoeKJM Download this episode, share it on social, and sign up for our free newsletter by filling out any contact form on our site (www.smartdatingacademy.com).  Follow us on Instagram as well @smartdatingacademy! Fill out our podcast listener survey by putting this link into your browser:  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/survey Follow us on Instagram at @smartdatingacademy Schedule your consultation with us here!   We are on a waiting list, and would love to help you!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela