

Real Men Feel with Andy Grant
Andy Grant
Real Men Feel helps men grow beyond outdated rules of masculinity to live with authenticity, purpose, and joy.
Since 2016, host Andy Grant has explored how vulnerability, courage, and real conversation fuel personal growth, self-improvement, and emotional well-being.
🥇 Silver Signal Award Winner – Most Inspirational Podcast & Best Self-Help Show.
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🔗 Show notes & resources: https://realmenfeel.org
Since 2016, host Andy Grant has explored how vulnerability, courage, and real conversation fuel personal growth, self-improvement, and emotional well-being.
🥇 Silver Signal Award Winner – Most Inspirational Podcast & Best Self-Help Show.
🎧 Join our free community for men at https://realmenfeel.org/group
💬 Want to be a guest? Connect with Andy on PodMatch, https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/realmenfeel
🔗 Show notes & resources: https://realmenfeel.org
Episodes
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Dec 27, 2024 • 38min
Life Mastery: Unpacking Identity and Embracing Authenticity
Finding Purpose and Authenticity with Mark Collins
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Mark Collins, a pastor, coach, and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design. They discuss the importance of men understanding their inherent value and purpose, the dangers of false identities, and the unique impact each man can make. Mark shares his personal journey of overcoming challenges, such as fear of failure and imposter syndrome, and emphasizes the necessity of knowing oneself for true transformation.
The conversation explores how dissatisfaction can be a gift and highlights the importance of service, perseverance, and authenticity in men's lives.
00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel
00:17 Introducing Mark Collins
01:04 The Journey of Coaching and Pastoring
02:37 Understanding Unique Purpose
04:32 Overcoming False Identities
08:56 Facing Fear and Imposter Syndrome
14:20 Steps to Unpack Identity
18:18 The Importance of Knowing Yourself
20:07 Exploring the Unique Impact of Every Man
22:44 The Role of Service and Joy in a Man's Life
25:57 Embracing Emotions and Overcoming Hardships
29:42 The Gift of Dissatisfaction and Self-Belief
33:08 Reflecting on Achievements and Future Goals
38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Connect with Mark
Mark Collins -- https://freedom-for-life.net/
LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-collins-freedom-for-life/
Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/_freedomforlife_/
Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/FreedForLife/
Resources
Life Mastery ebook -- https://courses.freedom-for-life.net/products/digital_downloads/LIFE-MASTERY
Battlefield of the Mind, Joyce Meyers -- https://amzn.to/3ZRpIe5
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Ready to create your best year yet? Book a Clarity Call with Andy at https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Dec 20, 2024 • 49min
Redefining Masculinity: Busting the 'Happy Wife, Happy Life' Myth
Evolving Definitions of Masculinity and Fatherhood with Frederick Van Riper
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Fred Van Riper, a men's relationship and leadership coach who helps men and dads lead with purpose both at home and at work. Fred shares his journey of overcoming societal and personal expectations of masculinity, the importance of emotional resilience, and how men can cultivate deeper connections with their partners and children. They discuss topics ranging from the problems with the 'happy wife, happy life' mentality to the critical need for men to ask for help and prioritize their own happiness.
Fred offers practical advice for dads and men, emphasizing the significance of journaling, self-reflection, and positive self-talk. The conversation also delves into more personal stories, including the impact of Fred's father's passing and his own decisions to quit drinking and become a better dad.
00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel
00:21 Introducing Frederick Van Riper
01:11 Debunking 'Happy Wife, Happy Life'
04:21 Redefining Masculinity
07:27 Embracing Emotions
15:08 Fatherhood and Coaching
28:24 Introduction and Personal Reflections
29:14 The Power of Journaling
30:21 Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations
31:49 Daily Intentions and Reflections
32:33 Building Strong Relationships
37:27 Overcoming Alcohol Addiction
42:31 Fatherhood and Personal Growth
48:59 Conclusion and Resources
Connect with Fred
Frederick Van Riper -- https://www.seatatthetablecoaching.com/
LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/frederickvanriper/
Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/frederickvanriper/
Resources
FREE Guide: How to Build Emotional Resilience -- https://www.seatatthetablecoaching.com/
Positive Intelligence -- https://www.positiveintelligence.com/
Dad's Interrupted Podcast -- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dads-interrupted/id1752356750
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Dec 14, 2024 • 34min
Redefining Resilience & Embracing Change
Navigating Life's Transitions with Authenticity and Resilience
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jon Emery, who shares his journey of personal transformation following significant life challenges, including job loss and divorce.
Jon discusses the importance of knowing your values, developing a morning routine, and maintaining gratitude. He also talks about his work in podcasting, both as a host of Life's Checkmark and as a podcast coach helping others discover their authentic voices.
The conversation highlights the impact of supportive men's groups and the power of vulnerability.
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:52 Meet John Emery: A Journey of Resilience
01:36 International Men's Day Discussion
02:50 John's Life Before and After the Turning Point
04:58 Navigating Job Loss and Divorce
07:28 Finding Support and Rebuilding
10:13 The Power of a Morning Routine
11:10 Starting the Life's Checkmark Podcast
14:31 Authenticity and Personal Values
16:48 Impact on Fatherhood and Personal Growth
18:22 Building Deeper Relationships with Your Children
18:57 The Power of One-on-One Time
19:29 Effective Communication Tips for Parents
20:05 Starting and Sustaining a Podcast
21:17 Overcoming Common Podcasting Challenges
22:38 The Joy of Helping Others Find Their Voice
24:57 Personal Growth Through Podcasting
27:20 Recommended Resources for Personal Development
28:32 Advice for Men Feeling Lost
31:34 The Mission of Life's Checkmark
32:09 Where to Find More Information
32:43 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Connect with Jon
Jon Emery -- https://www.lifescheckmark.com/
YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@lifescheckmark
Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/jonathan.emery.167
Resources
Life's Checkmark Podcast -- https://lifescheckmark.libsyn.com/
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom -- https://amzn.to/4ffqdnP
The Way of The Superior Man -- https://amzn.to/3VHk10X
Understanding Women: Unlock the Mystery -- https://amzn.to/41A3Gz4
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Dec 6, 2024 • 47min
From Near-Death to Inner Life: Navigating the Human Condition with Markus Kasunich
Exploration of Inner Work and Consciousness with Markus Kasunich
In this episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant speaks with holistic life and relationship coach Markus Kasunich. They delve deep into the journey of 'knowing thyself,' discussing topics such as Markus's near-death experience, the integration of his IRAM model, and the importance of inner work.
Markus shares his insights on human conditioning, the fluidity of consciousness, and the tools needed to navigate and understand one's own psyche. They also touch on the expansion and contraction of human experiences, explaining how one's conditioning influences relationships and personal growth.
Markus emphasizes the importance of feeling and articulating emotions as a pathway to deeper consciousness and richer human experiences.
00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel
00:16 Meet Markus Kasunich: Holistic Life Coach
02:05 Markus' Near-Death Experience
05:23 The Journey of Integration
11:08 Understanding the Human Condition
15:34 The Importance of Inner Work
20:17 Markus' Vision Quest and Mapping the Inner World
26:18 Understanding Conditioning and Healing
27:58 Introducing the Inner Relationship Archetypal Model (IRAM)
28:46 Applying IRAM in Real Life
31:39 Expansion and Contraction in Human Experience
36:12 The Role of Medicine in Healing
39:13 Starting Your Inner Work Journey
44:18 The Importance of Emotional Awareness for Men
46:58 Conclusion and Staying Connected
Connect with Markus
Markus Kasunich -- https://markuskasunich.com
Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/markuswkasunich/
Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/markuswkasunich/
LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/markus-kasunich-14a20870/
Resources
IRAM: A Map for Creating Conscious Relationships, by Markus Kasunich -- https://amzn.to/4f3ut9T
Relation-SHIFT Academy -- https://markuskasunich.com/relation-shift-academy/
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Nov 29, 2024 • 40min
From Mob Lawyer to Mindfulness Mentor
Legal Thrills and Spiritual Wisdom with Bob Martin
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Bob Martin, a former mob lawyer during Miami's cocaine cowboy era who transformed into a healing and mindfulness coordinator, meditation mentor, and author. Bob shares his journey from high-powered legal battles to teaching wellness and mindfulness, blending Taoist teachings with brain science and psychology.
They discuss meditation, mindfulness, the role of defense attorneys in the justice system, and the significance of yin and yang energy. Bob also reveals key moments that led him to change his life path and offers advice for those seeking to begin their own mindfulness practice.
00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel
00:11 Meet Bob Martin: From Mob Lawyer to Mindfulness Mentor
01:09 Bob's Early Career and Transition
04:09 The Role of Defense Attorneys
08:42 Discovering Taoism and Master Ni
11:55 The Practice of I Ching
20:06 The Work Ethic of Happiness
25:46 Bob's Journey to North Carolina
27:35 Mindfulness and Meditation
33:37 Bob's Personal Challenges and Triumphs
37:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Links
What Is Meditation Anyway, And Is It For Me? free ebook by Bob Martin -- https://www.awiseandhappylife.com/what-is-meditation-anyway/
Connect with Bob
Bob Martin -- https://www.awiseandhappylife.com
LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/bob-martin-995b30127/
Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/awiseandhappylife/
Resources
Balance -- https://balanceapp.com
Insight Timer -- https://insighttimer.com
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Nov 22, 2024 • 52min
Exploring Male Loneliness and Mental Health: A 16-Year-Old's Perspective
The Male Loneliness Epidemic: Insights from 16-Year-Old Reuben Runacres
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Reuben Runacres, a passionate 16-year-old expert in men's mental health and the male loneliness epidemic. Reuben shares his insights on why men experience loneliness, how societal changes have exacerbated this issue, and the impact of loneliness on both mental and physical health. He also discusses the potential of technology to bridge social gaps and introduces his vision for a new platform to connect people.
Reuben emphasizes the importance of purpose and connection in combating loneliness and improving mental health.
"Loneliness can kill you because it's as harmful as smoking 20 cigarettes a day. "
00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel
00:17 Meet Reuben Runacres: A Young Advocate for Men's Mental Health
02:09 The Male Loneliness Epidemic
13:51 Impact of Loneliness on Mental and Physical Health
18:20 The Role of Technology in Combating Loneliness
23:36 Practical Steps to Overcome Loneliness
28:09 The Power of Weak Ties
32:04 Challenges in Modern Masculinity
32:41 Balancing Traditional and Modern Masculinity
41:13 The Importance of Purpose
44:56 Personal Reflections on Masculinity
48:59 Connecting and Moving Forward
54:18 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Links
Dr Simone Rice -- https://drsimonrice.com/
Positive Masculinity -- https://positivemasculinity.org.au/
Connect with Reuben
X: https://x.com/ReubenRunacres
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Nov 16, 2024 • 39min
Navigating Spiritual Awakenings
Navigating Spirituality with Integrity and Avoiding Red Flags
Andy Grant discusses the integration of spirituality and psychology with Katie Turner, a registered psychologist and author of 'F*ck Toxic Spirituality'. Katie shares her insights on spiritual awakenings, intuition, toxic positivity, and the importance of recognizing red flags in spiritual practices.
The conversation emphasizes the need for mindfulness, emotional maturity, and shadow work to navigate the spiritual path effectively. Katie also talks about her personal journey, professional experiences, and offers listeners access to her quiz on discovering dominant intuitive superpowers.
00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel
00:19 Meet Katie Turner: Psychologist and Author
01:10 Katie's Spiritual Journey
02:43 Understanding Spiritual Awakenings
04:22 Challenges and Red Flags in Spirituality
12:42 The Role of Empathy and Sensitivity
32:28 Intuition and Spiritual Practices
35:16 Katie's Resources and Future Plans
38:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
"Intuition is our personal compass to align to our soul or that bigger part of us." Katie Turner
Links
Take Katie's FREE Quiz to Discover your Dominant Intuitive Superpower -- www.katieturnerpsychology.com
F*ck Toxic Spirituality: Avoiding Red Flags & Navigating the Spiritual Path with Integrity, Katie Turner -- https://amzn.to/3Z7XeNV
Explore the Akashic Records with Andy -- https://theandygrant.com/akashic
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Nov 9, 2024 • 40min
From Atheism to Spirituality with Coach Michael Taylor
Embracing True Masculinity: A Conversation with the Irrepressible Optimist Michael Taylor
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Michael Taylor, an inspiring author, coach, and motivational speaker known as the 'irrepressible optimist.' They discuss spirituality, religion, and viewing Jesus as a life coach.
Michael shares his personal experiences of overcoming poverty, fatherless childhood, and hardships, including living in his car. The conversation touches on manifesting one's desires, proving divine intelligence, the difference between spirituality and religion, and redefining masculinity.
Michael's journey emphasizes the importance of personal growth and finding one's truth. "There are better ways to be, and we just have to open our hearts and minds to that truth," Taylor asserts. He also dispels the misconception of toxic masculinity, adding, "If he were connected to his heart, connected to his authentic self, he would never act out in toxic ways." The conversation is a powerful reminder for men to seek their true potential and manifest an extraordinary life.
The episode encourages men to embrace their emotions, reject outdated views of masculinity, and discover their authentic selves.
00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel
00:22 Introducing Michael Taylor
01:37 Michael's Early Life and Optimism
02:14 The Impact of Male Role Models
04:31 Journey to Fatherhood
06:16 Questioning Religion and Finding Truth
15:56 The Concept of Jesus as a Life Coach
18:30 Personal Religious Journeys
21:00 Manifesting Intentions and Divine Ideas
21:50 The Blueprint of Christ-Like Transformation
23:09 Spirituality vs. Religion: Understanding the Difference
25:09 Manifestation and Divine Intelligence
26:08 The Power of Vision Boards and Manifestation
35:21 Redefining Masculinity
37:54 Overcoming Victimhood and Embracing Intuition
39:03 Resources for Men: A New Conversation
39:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
"Thoughts become things... choose the good ones!" Mike Dooley
Links
Michael Taylor -- https://coachmichaeltaylor.com
Free ebook The Five Illusions of Manhood -- https://anewconversationwithmen.com
Mike Dooley & Notes from the Universe -- https://www.tut.com
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Nov 1, 2024 • 40min
Overcoming Trauma with Nick Prefontaine: The STEP System
Harnessing Limitless Potential After Trauma with Nick Prefontaine
Real Men Feel host Andy Grant chats with Nick Prefontaine, a three-time bestselling author, top motivational speaker, and CEO of Common Goal. Nick shares his harrowing story of surviving a life-threatening snowboarding accident at age 14 and overcoming massive odds to walk, talk, and eat again.
He discusses his STEP system (Support, Trust, Energy, Persistence) that he used to recover and now teaches others to navigate trauma and life challenges. Nick emphasizes the importance of having support, maintaining personal energy, and trusting the process. He also reflects on the societal perception of trauma survivors and the resilience required to keep moving forward.
Tune in to discover inspiring insights, practical advice, and a free download of Nick's S.T.E.P. system.
00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel
00:20 Introducing Nick Prefontaine
00:33 Nick's Traumatic Snowboarding Accident
08:30 The STEP System for Overcoming Trauma
18:03 Nick's Journey to Motivational Speaking
24:50 The Importance of Support and Taking Action
37:09 Nick's Reflections and Final Thoughts
40:48 Conclusion and Resources
"You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." Martin Luther King Jr.
Links
Nick's STEP System -- https://nickprefontaine.com/step
Follow Nick on LinkedIN -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickprefontaine/
and Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/nick.prefontaine.7
Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talk
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!
RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Support this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/support
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel
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Oct 25, 2024 • 35min
The Evolution from Prince to King with Justin Nault
From Prince to King: Embracing Emotional Growth and Redefining MasculinityIn this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant engages with Justin Nault, founder of Personal Evolution Coaching and Clovis, in a profound conversation about the evolution from Prince to King energy. They delve into topics like emotional suppression, societal programming, and the necessity of emotional awareness for personal and relational growth. The discussion spans Justin's transition from a music career to becoming a wellness advocate after life-altering experiences and family tragedies. Key methods for emotional resilience, such as somatic therapy, mirror work, and embracing radical honesty, are explored. They also redefine masculinity by emphasizing vulnerability, authenticity, and the integration of all parts of oneself. Real-life anecdotes and practical resources provide listeners with tools for transformation and self-discovery.00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel00:19 Introducing Justin Nault01:31 King vs. Prince: Understanding Masculine Energy03:21 The Impact of Emotional Suppression05:16 Justin's Journey: From Rock Star to Wellness Coach14:31 Radical Honesty: The Key to King Energy20:06 Introduction to Masculine and Feminine Dynamics20:28 The Power of Self-Love for Men21:10 Daily Mirror Work Exercise22:19 Commitment and Self-Love25:19 Emotional Unleashing and Somatic Work27:46 Radical Authentic Self-Expression32:38 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsAre you living as an adolescent or as a mature adult?ResourcesThe Masculine in Relationship: A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman, GS Youngblood -- https://amzn.to/4fiSxGaGS Youngblood on RMF Ep 174 https://realmenfeel.org/2020/03/17/the-masculine-in-relationship/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-masculine-in-relationship/id1107137758?i=1000468664778LinksJustin Nault -- https://go.justinnault.com/Follow Justin on IG and TikTok -- @justinnaultofficialConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Interested in a Clarity Call with Andy? - visit https://theandygrant.com/talkInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantPersonal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/groupSupport this podcast | https://anchor.fm/realmenfeel/supportYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 325