Want to know a way to live a much less stressful life? It’s done through having realistic expectations. In this episode, we’re getting real about the expectations we have with ourselves and other people.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

We all want to be there for the people we care about. Sometimes we don’t know how to actually do this. Or we feel uncomfortable even trying. In this episode, we share ways to support the people you love in the way that feels best for them. Get ready to have deeper relationships that feel more connected, and be sure to share this with the people closest to you in your life.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

We’ve got a lot of feedback from the community to talk more about this so this week we are diving deeper. Get ready for a vulnerable open chat on sex and why we all feel so weird about it.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

This week we have a special guest, Gabby Bernstein. Gabby is a New York Times bestselling author and spiritual teacher who’s new book “Happy Days” is an incredible testament to the power of healing trauma. We talk about sobriety, vulnerability, and how we can heal the broken parts of ourselves to find peace.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

When you think of intimacy, do you think of sex? Most people do. Here’s the thing, intimacy is actually about emotional connection. And that emotional connection takes safety, trust, and communication. In this episode, we have a vulnerable conversation about what intimacy actually looks like and how it creates relationships that are meaningful, healthy, + allow for mutual evolution.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

Trauma can show up in our relationship in many ways. We can be shut down, defensive, and unable to speak what we really feel. In this episode, we share how trauma shows up in our own relationships and how we work through it.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

We are all in desperate need of connection. Recent events have had us more lonely, isolated, and disillusioned than ever. In this episode, we talk about building emotional intimacy and trust. If you’re ready for relationship upgrades, this ones for you.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

There is one thing that causes relationships to end more than anything else: assumptions. Our brains tell stories in order to make sense of our world. Those stories are usually full of assumptions about “why” people do things. The problem is, our assumptions hold us back from true emotional connections with our partners, friends, and family. In this episode, you’ll learn how to stop assuming and start becoming curious. This ones a game changer for all relationships, give it a listen!NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

Trauma has many negative impacts, and it can also create the foundation for resilience + a connection to something greater than ourselves. In this episode, we talk about transforming tragedies + breakdowns into triumphs + breakthroughs.NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole talks about being a cycle breaker. Cycle breakers become aware of dysfunctional family patterns and heal. In our society people don’t talk about how scary, isolating, + lonely this can be. If you’re a cycle breaker on a journey of healing, this episode is for you!NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/