It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
TruStory FM
Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else.
They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, and the news would be boring, but who wants to live that way in your own life!
Have you ever wanted to know what drives them to act this way?
In the It’s All Your Fault podcast, we’ll take you behind the scenes to understand what’s happening in the brain and illuminates why we pick HCPs as life partners, why we hire them, and how we can handle interactions and relationships with them. We break down everything you ever wanted to know about people with the 5 high conflict personality types: narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial/sociopath, and paranoid.
And we’ll give you tips on how to spot them and how to deal with them.
They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, and the news would be boring, but who wants to live that way in your own life!
Have you ever wanted to know what drives them to act this way?
In the It’s All Your Fault podcast, we’ll take you behind the scenes to understand what’s happening in the brain and illuminates why we pick HCPs as life partners, why we hire them, and how we can handle interactions and relationships with them. We break down everything you ever wanted to know about people with the 5 high conflict personality types: narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial/sociopath, and paranoid.
And we’ll give you tips on how to spot them and how to deal with them.
Episodes
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Jan 2, 2025 • 43min
REBROADCAST: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
Explore the five personality disorders that drive high conflict behaviors. Discover traits like blaming others and all-or-nothing thinking, which complicate interactions. Learn how these personalities manifest in various situations, including divorce and workplace disputes. The conversation dives into the manipulative nature of antisocial personalities and highlights the importance of recognizing harmful patterns. With real-life examples and practical insights, gain strategies to navigate these challenging relationships effectively.
Dec 19, 2024 • 48min
REBROADCAST: Co-Parenting by Design with Lawyers Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner
Annette Burns and Nicole Siqueiros-Stoutner, both expert family law attorneys and authors of "Co-Parenting by Design," share essential insights into navigating the complexities of co-parenting. They discuss the crucial role of parenting coordinators in reducing conflicts and prioritizing children's needs. The duo explores the concept of parallel parenting, addressing communication strategies and legal implications. They also delve into the challenges of parental alienation and emphasize proactive approaches to foster healthier co-parenting relationships.
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Dec 12, 2024 • 17min
REBROADCAST: Holiday Harmony: Keeping The Peace at Family Celebrations
With the holiday season approaching, this discussion dives into maintaining peace amid family gatherings. Bill and Megan provide practical tips to prevent heated arguments and navigate high-conflict personalities. They emphasize preparation, respectful communication, and effective diversion strategies. Personal connections are highlighted as key to fostering understanding, alongside the power of one-on-one conversations. Listeners are equipped with tools to ensure joy and harmony, turning potentially contentious celebrations into memorable ones.
Dec 5, 2024 • 39min
Safeguarding Seniors: Protecting the Elderly from High Conflict Personalities
The discussion dives into the vulnerabilities of the elderly, particularly regarding high conflict personalities. The hosts highlight how manipulation and control can exploit these weaknesses, especially in lonely seniors. Practical advice is shared on recognizing red flags for abuse and the importance of family involvement. Personal anecdotes and community themes emphasize the need for proactive protection while fostering strong connections for our elderly loved ones. It's an eye-opening exploration into safeguarding the most vulnerable.
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Nov 28, 2024 • 32min
More High Conflict Questions Answered: Self-Discovery, Court Battles & Family Dynamics
The hosts tackle the complexities of high conflict personalities and emphasize self-awareness as a stepping stone to improvement. They provide practical strategies for self-represented individuals facing false allegations in family court. Listeners also learn about handling family dynamics involving negative advocates and manipulative behaviors. With tips on effective communication techniques and evidence presentation, the conversation offers vital insights for navigating challenging relationships.
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Nov 21, 2024 • 32min
Family Court Q&A: Parental Alienation, Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting
The hosts dive deep into the complexities of parental alienation and estrangement, clarifying the emotional struggles faced by families navigating high-conflict situations. They tackle listener questions about when to give up the fight in court against manipulative ex-partners and highlight the concept of 'legal abuse.' Discussions also examine how ADHD can affect parenting dynamics and advocate for more individualized assessments in family court. Insights into the prevalence of false allegations illuminate the challenges faced by protective parents.
Nov 14, 2024 • 37min
Paranoid Personality Profiles: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 7)
Dive into the complexities of paranoid high conflict personalities, marked by deep mistrust and suspicion. Learn practical strategies for managing these relationships, like clear communication and boundary-setting. Explore how societal factors and digital spaces can amplify paranoia. Discover the impact of social media on trust and misinformation, and gain insights into navigating the challenges these personalities present. This insightful journey equips listeners with the tools to handle interactions with those who can complicate life.
Nov 7, 2024 • 35min
Histrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6)
Dive into the world of histrionic high conflict personalities and discover their dramatic need for attention and exaggerated behaviors. Explore how these traits manifest in both men and women, challenging cultural stereotypes. Delve into the impact of social media on these personalities and learn why setting boundaries is essential. The podcast also shares practical strategies for managing relationships with histrionic individuals, revealing the complexities and emotional toll involved. Expect enlightening insights and relatable examples that resonate!
Oct 31, 2024 • 47min
Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5)
Dive into the complex world of narcissistic high conflict personalities. Discover the stark differences between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists, each with their unique traits and behaviors. Learn about the alarming link between narcissism and domestic violence, and why sincere apologies are usually an illusion. The discussion emphasizes the emotional turmoil faced by victims and offers insights into navigating these toxic relationships. Real-life examples provide essential tools for recognizing and managing interactions with narcissistic individuals.
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Oct 24, 2024 • 29min
Asked and Answered: Your Questions on High Conflict Personalities, Relationships, and Self-Improvement
Megan dives into the complexities of dealing with high conflict personalities and the importance of self-awareness. She offers strategies for minimizing damage in co-parenting and emphasizes seeking therapy for emotional regulation. Navigating relationships with those who have borderline personality disorder is also explored, alongside building bonds in blended families. Listeners gain valuable insights on fostering self-worth and positive decision-making, aiming to improve their lives amidst challenging dynamics.
