
Further Faster with Joseph McClendon III
Further Faster is a weekly dose of blazing hot topics on exactly how we function and how to use that information to get the very best out of ourselves. This powerful mixture of personal development, psychology fun, and actionable strategies will spark your inner Badass and help you go Further Faster…NOW!
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Oct 20, 2020 • 36min
S1 E23 Cure For The Common Life - Kiss The Ground
Today, given our current environmental and political climate this year, I felt it was important to discuss climate change, and share with you my views on this topic.Balanced conversations and more importantly urgent actions surrounding global warming are extremely needed right now, so I wanted to take this as an opportunity to share some advice on how we can all make more ethical and sustainable decisions in regards to our environmental and livestock ecosystems. I’ll be discussing how the recently released documentary, ‘Kiss the Ground’, has inspired me to think more consciously about the world we live in, some insights into sustainable farming, and why growing our own food is a lot easier than you think! To learn more, have a listen to today’s episode of Cure For The Common Life!In This Episode You Will Learn:An introduction to today’s topic on global warming (1:05)Some background on the documentary, ‘Kiss the Ground’, & Why it’s such an important watch right now (4:04)Why the environment is cyclical & How our abuse of the earth has led to so many major issues within the ecosystem (5:10)How our soil has been tampered with over time and been replaced with dirt (8:48)Why our meat intake should be ethically and sustainably sourced (10:24)Some information on sustainable farming (13:30)What ‘prairie grass’ refers to (16:46)Why sustainable farms are so essential to building a thriving ecosystem (23:49)My advice on how to grow your own food at home (26:02)Let’s Connect!WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagramResources:IMDb Page: Documentary, ‘Kiss the Ground (2020)’IMDb Page: Documentary, ‘Forks Over Knives (2011)’ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Oct 6, 2020 • 40min
S1 E22 Cure For The Common Life - Debunking Myths and Making Sex Intentional with Dr. Cheryl Fraser
Sharp, frank, and fearless - that’s Buddhist psychologist, sex therapist, author, and speaker, Dr. Cheryl Fraser. With a rare combination of academic credibility, humor, straight-talk, and life-changing advice, Dr. Cheryl is a sought-after media psychologist and relationship expert. She has helped thousands of couples jumpstart their love life and create passion that lasts a lifetime.A highly successful and awarded Fulbright scholar, she has conducted extensive research on sexual behavior and what causes love relationships to succeed or fail. Dr. Cheryl’s new online immersion workshop for couples – Become Passion – Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime - brings her work to your own living room. Join her for an 8-week program that includes weekly video lessons, couples skill exercises, guest experts, and weekly live coaching and Q&A with Cheryl. The next session begins on November 1st. Register for a free Passion Masterclass here and learn more. As a dynamic guest expert and speaker, she has taught for Tony Robbins, Jack Canfield of Chicken Soup fame, and appeared on numerous podcasts and television shows. Dr. Cheryl’s new book, Buddha’s Bedroom–The Mindful Loving Path to Sexual Passion and Lifelong Intimacy – is receiving rave reviews. When Cheryl is not in India, Tibet, or at a three-month silent meditation retreat, she lives on an island in the Pacific Northwest with her man and their menagerie, practicing the passion she preaches.Listen in to Episode 22 as Cheryl busts sex myths you thought were true and provides frameworks you can apply to your sex life!Questions I Ask: What is good that you can share to help people cure the common life? (3:19) Do people not want to talk about their sex life because it makes them uncomfortable? (6:00)What is the duration of time that people go from being more sexually active to that once or twice a month? (8:22)Is the sexual drive still there for most people or just needs to be rekindled? (11:26)Do you find that people push back against the concept of intentional sex? (14:46) Does the frequency of the scheduled sex make it more exciting? (16:31)The point is not to get to that place of total satisfaction, is it? (23:31)In this Episode, You will Learn:Dr. Cheryl’s concept of marriage incorporated (4:24)The current sex statistics for long term couples (6:22)What sexual neutrality is (6:55)The difference between spontaneous arousal and responsive desire (8:36)Example of a couple Dr. Cheryl had worked with (9:43)Dr. Cheryl busts the myth of having a sex drive (12:10)The eye-opening way to treat scheduled sex like going to the gym (17:08) The importance of integrating your lust within love (19:30) How to awake your erotic energy and orgasm without touching (24:00)Dr. Cheryl’s model, “The Passion Triangle”, of intimacy, thrill, and sensuality (28:20)The practice of setting a daily mindful loving relationship intention (32:23)Let’s Connect!WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagramConnect with Cheryl Fraser LinkedInWebsiteBook: Dr. Cheryl Fraser - Buddha’s Bedroom–The Mindful Loving Path to Sexual Passion and Lifelong Intimacy See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sep 22, 2020 • 29min
S1 E21 Cure For The Common Life - How to Spot a Liar & Tips for Reading Body Language, With Jan Hargrave
Joining me today is renowned body language expert, published author, and sought after consultant, Jan Hargrave, who specializes in the field of nonverbal communication. Jan has worked on many notable criminal cases, including the likes of OJ Simpson and JonBenét Ramsey as a jury consultant and lie detection specialist. In this episode, she shares her intimate knowledge on the topic of body language and gives some useful advice on how we can approach reading others better.What’s particularly interesting, is the link that body language has with lying. Our bodies often give away signals or ‘tells’ that we aren’t being truthful, no matter how hard we try to play it off or blend in with the crowd. We discuss how body language plays such a prevalent role in detecting signs of mistrust in politics, particularly in the US government, how Jan influenced the title of ‘jury consultant,’ and what she has learned throughout her extensive career as a body language analyst.If you’re interested to hear more, then tune in to Episode 21 of Cure For The Common Life!Some Questions I Ask:Could you elaborate on what it is that you do? (3:41)Do you primarily teach individuals in upper management roles? (7:03)How have you personally responded to the current political climate in the US, particularly while observing body language in the media? (13:23)In This Episode You Will Learn:How Jan discovered the field of body language expertise (4:33)The first class Jan ever taught for attorneys on picking favorable juries (6:11)Funny stories from Jan’s teaching experience for ‘Starbucks’ (7:40)What I’ve learned from Jan throughout the years (9:46)Jan’s professional perspective on reading other people’s body language (10:17)How Jan’s work has shifted public perception towards her line of work and legitimized the field (11:14)Why we should trust our intuition (12:04)Jan’s advice for reading body language virtually & Her ‘triple threat method’ for emulating social interaction during Covid-19 (17:16)How I’ve adapted my Zoom calls to better communicate my gestures (23:24)Let’s Connect!WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagramConnect With Jan Hargrave:LinkedInWebsiteResources:‘Emotional Intelligence Quiz’, Greater Good MagazineBook: ‘Poker Face: The Art of Analyzing Poker Tells’ Author, Jan HargraveBook: ‘Let Me See Your Body Talk’ Author, Jan HargraveBook: ‘Strictly Business: Body Language’ Author, Jan HargraveBook: ‘Judge the Jury: Experience the Power of Reading People’ Author, Jan Hargrave & Alice WeiserBook: ‘Freeway of Love’ Author, Jan Hargrave See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sep 15, 2020 • 27min
S1 E20 Cure For The Common Life - How to Protect Yourself from the Negative Frequencies that Bombard Your Body
If you’ve ever found yourself having brain fog or feeling fatigue, then guess what: it might be possible that the electromagnetic frequencies (EMF) produced by our everyday devices are affecting your health. Unfortunately, these EMFs are everywhere and certain types weaken our immune system, our thought process, our mental clarity, muscle strength – literally everything about us. And the saddest thing is we can’t get rid of them. The good news is that we can protect ourselves from them. Earlier this year, in a previous episode, I’ve mentioned a device that dissipates and even cancels out the negative electromagnetic frequencies – Q-Link – and today, back by popular demand, I’m sharing with you a few more details about it. Listen to Episode 20 of Cure For The Common Life all the way to the end because the company that produces these devices has a surprise for you – and I’m going to share it with you because taking care of your body is not a luxury that only some can afford, but it’s a necessity for all of us! In this episode, you will learn:The story of how a long time ago I got introduced to a device that neutralizes the bad energy that’s around me. (03:13)A physics crash course on how the electromagnetic frequencies work and how some of them affect us. (14:42)A simple test that proved to me how efficient Q-Link is. (17:25)One thing you can do at home, to convince yourself of the EMS effects on your body. (18:55)Why you should buy a Q-Link for yourself. (22:50)The limited offer that Q-Link has for anyone that buys their product in the near future. (23:43)Let’s connect!WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagramResources mentioned:Q-Link WebsiteQ-Link Offer See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sep 8, 2020 • 24min
S1 E19 Cure For The Common Life - The Skillset That Will Help Your Business Thrive
We hear so much about the ‘new normal’ without fully acknowledging that when all of this is over, there will still be many side effects that stay with us.When it comes to the power platforms like Zoom have gained, it has been proved to us that geographic limitations are irrelevant when it comes to business, showing us that you can be equally as productive and work as hard from the comfort of your own home.Today, I come to you with what is perhaps the most useful skillset you can learn at the moment to further develop your business capabilities. Learning how to be comfortable speaking to a camera without an audience nor a response is crucial in helping you to do better business and interact better with people. It is for us to accept that this new normal requires us to develop confidence in front of cameras, and for us to embrace this wave of the future and make it work in our favor.So, listen to Episode 19 of Cure for the Common Life, to get better insights into this topic and learn the importance of overcoming your limitations around the online space and especially around being in front of a camera!In this episode, you will learn:How the pandemic gave me joy even though I lost 80% of my usual income. (04:16)The importance of learning how to talk in front of a camera without getting a response back from people. (09:12)An example of how teachers practiced this skill set and got better at it. (11:02)My experience of being a speaker at a large virtual online event. (13:42)How getting comfortable in front of the camera can boost your business’ success. (19:19) Let’s connect!WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagram See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sep 1, 2020 • 22min
S1 E18 Cure For The Common Life - Procrastination
We, as humans, seem to find it especially hard to create the time we need to get to the place that we want to. It is the emotionally painful fear of failure that ties us to a place and makes us procrastinate on our chances of leaving it and living our desired lives.It is so embedded in our brains to choose short-time, instant pleasure over any type of pain, forcing us into a cycle of avoiding short-time pain and getting short-time pleasure instead of enduring long-time pain to create long-time pleasure.Today, I bring you a tip that will teach you how to break the pattern that is keeping you stuck, that makes you procrastinate and delay living the life you’re meant to have. By triggering our brain into relaxing and breaking down negative patterns, we trick it into celebrating our good times and unconsciously forcing us to experience them more. Teaching our brain and bodies that they are meant to do so much more will help them not want to feel instant pleasure so much but rather work hard towards a goal without feeling drained or scared.Tune in to Episode 18 of Cure for the Common Life, to find out how to do exactly that!In this episode you will learn:What procrastination really is (04:01)Why instant pleasure isn’t good in the long run (10:15)How to stop procrastinating (14:40)Let’s connect:WebsiteTwitter Facebook See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Aug 25, 2020 • 29min
S1 E17 Cure For The Common Life - How to Improve Your Memory
We have all been brought up to believe that memory is lost with age and that this is an inescapable truth of life. We have not, however, been told that you can train your brain into remembering by stimulating your memory.Creating visual pictures of things you want to remember, repeating things inside of your head, and most importantly, praising yourself for remembering, are a few tips that will help your memory along the way.Today, I come to you with what I believe is one of the most important tools to develop when trying to improve your life. By training to keep your brain and memory muscles activated and young, you step outside of the box created by our dependence on technology and you keep your memory from deteriorating. Don’t rely on it just happening - commit to it!At the end of each episode, I want you to walk away having learned a new tool or strategy that will help you reach your goals and thrive. So, listen to Episode 17 of Cure for the Common Life, to learn how to train your brain to remember even the farthest memories.In this episode, you will learn:Some starting tips you can do to improve your memory (04:10)How to improve your memory while using formulas (06:50)Why praising yourself stimulates your brain (12:57)What memory actually is and does (21:34)Let’s connect:WebsiteTwitterFacebook See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Aug 18, 2020 • 32min
S1 E16 Cure For The Common Life - Forgiveness Is the Best Success
It is never too early to start appreciating the gifts life has given you, nor too late to know what unconditional love feels like.Practicing forgiveness and gratitude can only help you achieve further personal success, accepting the past and the present state of your life and using them to move forwards is the only way you can carry yourself into the future.Today, I am thoroughly excited to introduce to you Kathy Buckley, one of the most extraordinary, talented, and strong women I am honored to know. Kathy is a woman of many blessings, but perhaps her biggest one is her calling towards helping people and facilitating their journey for them.Among many other things, Kathy is a comedian, actress, and hearing-impaired motivational speaker and author. She has been nominated five times for the American Comedy Awards and has been awarded one for best writer. She has decades of personal experiences, some not so pleasant, and she has chosen to use them to inspire people and, most importantly, to help raise awareness about disability employment, something that she has outstandingly achieved.At the end of each episode, I want you to walk away having learned a new tool or strategy that will help you reach your goals and thrive. Tune in to episode 16 of Cure for the Common Life, with myself, Joseph McClendon III, to boldly step up and dare to make your life magnificent.Some questions I ask:Kathy, share with us a little bit about your humble beginnings, a little bit about you, kind of your backstory because it's fascinating, to say the least. And what brings you here? (06:28)The things that you said with regard to, “life is a series of challenges and it's up to us to deal with it” - where did that mindset come from? (12:37)You won ‘Comedian of the Year’ a couple of times. Tell us a little bit about that? (23:26)If you could go forward to your 10-year-older-than-you-are-now, what would you say to her? (30:06)In this episode, you will learn:One of the most special blessings that has been given to Kathy (01:40)A little bit about Kathy (06:40) What Kathy has learned from near-death experiences (15:23)The gifts Kathy came back with from traumatic experiences (20:41)Why forgiveness is the best success (24:41)Connect with Kathy:WebsiteInstagram FacebookLet’s connect: Website Twitter Facebook See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Aug 11, 2020 • 32min
S1 E15 Cure For The Common Life - The Perfect Storm
The beginning of the biggest storm that has affected the world this year, COVID-19, has proven to be the trigger for the other two massive storms that have gone through the US: the Black Lives Matter movement and the economic crisis.A pandemic that has separated all of us physically, has brought us closer together in learning and fighting against racial injustice, has made us more empathic as the human race, and has taught us that the system that is meant to protect us, does not protect all of us equally.Today, I urge you to become the leader that you have inside of you and to share your knowledge so as to become a beacon of possibility to lead the masses affected by the storm that has hit us. Today, I choose to get political in order to discuss the events that we are currently living, as well as offering some advice on how to properly deal with the consequences once these events disappear.Tune in to Episode 15 of Cure For the Common Life, to learn more about these three storms that have hit the US in 2020 and how to not only survive but thrive when it all comes to an end.In this episode, you will learn:The Perfect Storm that the US is going through right now (04:33)Why COVID is considered the first storm that hit the US and how it could have been prevented. (07:24)How the second storm formed around systemic racism. (13:52)The inevitable third storm created by the first two – the economic crash. (17:37)The four steps you can take to ethically capitalize on this perfect storm. (19:41)Let’s connect:WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagram See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Aug 4, 2020 • 27min
S1 E14 Cure For The Common Life - Understanding Emotional Intelligence & Removing Judgement From Fear with Deb Battersby
Today, I’m joined by Speaker and Success Coach at ‘Freedom Point System’ and ‘Success Matrix’, Deb Battersby! Deb has taken the time to generously share her insights and lessons she has learned in relation to how our emotions serve us and mould us into more emotionally intelligent individuals. Too often, feelings of anger, doubt and worry are deemed as ‘negative’ and we so rarely want to look at the deeper meaning that they can offer. Through exploring these emotions in greater detail, we can gain a deeper understanding into how our minds work and destigmatize the notion that they are simply ‘bad’ feelings. We discuss how the coping mechanisms we use to mask these thoughts are often developed from an early age, how we can learn to remove judgement from fear, and why all of our emotions are there to help and serve us in some way. To hear more, tune in to Episode 14 of Cure For The Common Life!Some Questions I Ask:Could you share your perspective on how fear influences people’s mindsets and how the work you do can help resolve that? (3:22)Where do you think the judgement comes from when it comes to how we perceive ‘negative’ emotions? (4:33)Do you think that the more we repress these feelings, the harsher the effects are on us subconsciously? (6:04)Do you think that our circumstances under the current pandemic are creating a deeper effect on us in relation to the judgement of our emotions? (6:59)What would you say to those out there who don’t have a deep understanding of personal development and how to tap into their emotions? (10:43)What can someone do once they figure out how a seemingly ‘negative’ emotion is serving them? (15:33)What would you say to yourself ten years from now? (24:03)In This Episode You Will Learn:An introduction on today’s guest, Deb Battersby (1:05)How we learn to develop coping mechanisms to repress strong emotions from an early age (6:16)How listening to our fears can lead to greater outcomes and reveal new approaches to situations that made us uncomfortable before (8:59)One of the elements behind ‘Freedom Point System’ (10:08)A story from one of Deb’s clients’ & What it taught her about how hatred serves us as human beings (13:22)Connect With Joseph McClendon III:WebsiteTwitterFacebookInstagramConnect With Deb Battersby:Freedom Point Coaching - WebsiteSuccess Matrix - WebsiteEmail: support@freedompointcoaching.comPhone: (630) 830-0064 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.