Brian Bogert - Flipping The Lid

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Oct 23, 2025 • 1h 8min

Orphan to Wall Street: The Hidden POWER of ADVERSITY w/ Ed Hajim (E137)

Schools often prepare us to make a living, but rarely do they teach us how to make a life. While making a living focuses on earning from what we do, making a life is about the deeper journey of discovering who we are and what truly fulfills us.In this episode, Brian Bogert sits down with Ed Hajim, a seasoned Wall Street executive with over 50 years of investment experience, respected mentor, philanthropist, and author of On the Road Less Traveled and The Island of the Four Ps.Ed opens up about his remarkable journey from being an orphan to becoming one of Wall Street’s most respected leaders. He reflects on how his early experiences shaped his identity, strengthened his resilience, and taught him to rise above victimhood. Through his story, Ed reminds us that adversity can become a foundation for growth and purpose when faced with the right mindset.In the course of the conversation, Ed explores the difference between making a living and building a life, emphasizing that true fulfillment comes not from what we earn, but from discovering who we are. Additionally, he shares his three mantras for living with purpose, the lessons he has learned during his more than 50 years on Wall Street, and the most impactful decision he made during that time.Finally, Ed discusses his commitment to philanthropy, emphasizing that true success comes from giving back. He believes that true fulfillment comes from using one’s success to create opportunities for others and that giving is not just an act of generosity, but a powerful way to inspire growth and change.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[02:28] ‎Who is Ed Hajim?[06:37] Making a Living vs. Building a Life[09:31] Three Mantras[14:38] Access to Education[22:19] Being an Orphan[26:21] Crusades & Causes[37:21] Giving[42:49] What Ed is Working On[50:04] Marriage[58:36] Wall StreetKey Takeaways:  • Schools do a decent job of teaching people how to make a living, but they don’t formally teach them how to make a life. ~Ed Hajim [03:22]• If you want to make a real contribution, you have to find a real need. ~Ed Hajim [06:51]• Making a living is about earning from what you do, while making a life is about discovering who you are. ~Ed Hajim [07:11]• Education is the solution to everything. ~Ed Hajim [09:36]• To live happily is to live hidden. ~Ed Hajim [18:34]• Adversity is a gift. ~Ed Hajim [22:52]• There is nothing better than changing someone’s life by giving them enough money to do what they want. ~Ed Hajim [33:32]• When we give, we also open ourselves to receive. ~Brian Bogert [37:28]• Life isn’t a smooth road; it is always under construction. ~Ed Hajim [01:05:23]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. THE ISLAND OF THE FOUR Ps: https://www.edhajim.com/island-of-the-4-ps2. On The Road Less Traveled: https://www.edhajim.com/on-the-road-less-traveledKeep In Touch with Ed Hajim:Website: https://www.edhajim.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/edhajimauthor/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ed-hajim-bba1a7204/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557858696157#—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 15min

Building Relationships and Mastering Communication w/ Greg Stephens (E136)

Building meaningful relationships and mastering communication are essential skills for success in both personal and professional life. Effective communication not only conveys ideas clearly but also fosters deeper, lasting connections.Today, we are thrilled to welcome Greg Stephens, a communication expert specializing in high-stakes conversations, both personal and professional. Greg is a communication consultant and the best-selling author of Build New Bridges: The Art of Restoring Impossible Relationships. He is also the founder and host of the inspiring podcast A Shot of Inspiration.Greg dives into the value of relationships and reflects on the pivotal moments that shaped his understanding of communication and connection. He also explores why religion often experiences conflict and what we can learn from those dynamics.During the conversation, Greg opens up about the highs and lows of his life, sharing lessons from his first two marriages and his career in sales. He also recounts his basketball success and how a life-altering injury reshaped his life’s trajectory.Greg shares powerful insights on reading people’s energy and cleaning up relationships. He also uncovers the top causes of disconnection and difficult conversations, and introduces his ‘Master Teams’ program, where participants master communication, influence, and relationship skills.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[02:20] Who is Greg Stephens?[03:33] Relationships[11:20] Religion & Conflict[15:18] Building relationships[19:31] Pivotal moment[24:00] Marriage lessons[29:34] Life-altering injury[39:21] Elements of communication[47:58] Lessons from sales[51:39] Reading people’s energy[58:46] Cleaning up relationships[01:03:36] Difficult conversations[01:08:48] Master TeamsKey Takeaways:  • Questions reveal the depth of someone’s ability to communicate and connect. ~Brian Bogert [01:44]• Conflicts are common in churches because everyone believes God is on their side. ~Greg Stephens [07:36]• The moment you try to convince someone is the moment you become less convincing. ~Joseph Grenny [13:30]• “Don’t let the lesson get lost in the language.” ~Brian Bogert [15:10]• Religion is awareness of something, a doorway that opens to the vastness of what lies beyond. ~Greg Stephens [17:36]• Only 7% of our communication comes from the words we use, 38% from the delivery, and 55% from the nonverbal. ~Brian Bogert [39:14]• “You can do a lot more than you ever thought you could.” ~Greg Stephens [48:38]• Uncomfortable silence can work in your favor to drive a point home. ~Greg Stephens [50:34]• “The moment we can identify and remove the waste, we can exist at speed without the need to hurry.” ~Brian Bogert [57:52]• “If you can’t measure it, you can’t improve it.” ~Greg Stephens [59:53]• "The moment you believe you are right; you are not curious anymore.” ~Greg Stephens [01:04:17]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. Rush Limbaugh2. Ann Richards3. Build New Bridges: https://bit.ly/47jMKPC4. Crucial Conversations: https://bit.ly/4395A9F5. The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: https://bit.ly/47jskpOKeep In Touch with Greg Stephens:E-Mail: greg@alignment-resources.comWebsite: https://www.alignment-resources.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregstephens2/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gregory.stephens.58Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alignment_resources/Podcast: https://www.ashotofinspiration.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2nIXHw5wv1z8GPsxWuYuAE?si=0fc68b49ea7f4ecb—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!
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Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 4min

1% Better Every Day: Turn Knowledge into WISDOM w/ Craig Thielen (E135)

We are all limitless in our abilities, capable of achieving anything we can dream of. However, the journey to unlocking our full potential begins with taking one step at a time and embracing small, consistent actions that help us become 1% better every day.In this insightful episode, we hear from Craig Thielen, Chief Product & Innovation Officer at Trissential and host of the 1% Better Improvement Podcast. Craig shares how growing up as the youngest of ten siblings in a small town and facing financial challenges shaped his career path, relationships, and sense of self.He also dives into how his definition of success has evolved and reflects on his career journey as a management consultant, highlighting key experiences, lessons learned, and the mindset that has helped him navigate complex professional paths.As the conversation unfolds, Craig discusses why learning matters to him, the difference between knowledge and wisdom, and practical ways to turn knowledge into wisdom. Moreover, he shares useful tips on how to recall information effectively.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[01:49] Who is Craig Thielen?[04:57] Childhood Backstory[22:18] Redefining Success[27:33] Biggest Life Challenge[33:43] Consulting Journey[44:45] Why Learning Matters[51:01] Knowledge vs Wisdom[56:47] Recalling Information[1:00:45] Closing messageKey Takeaways:  • “You are the average of the five people around you.” ~Craig Thielen [08:16]• True freedom comes when we reach a place where we have nothing to justify, protect, or defend about ourselves. ~Brian Bogert [10:58]• True success is achieved when you live with purpose, continually grow as a person, and give back in meaningful ways. ~Craig Thielen [26:45]• “Much of our personal pain comes from remembering the past or worrying about the future.” ~Craig Thielen [30:52]• “You get more of what you focus on.” ~Craig Thielen [47:30]• Knowledge is the information we acquire, while wisdom is the ability to know how to use it. ~Craig Thielen [51:01]• “We are all limitless in our abilities.” ~Craig Thielen [1:01:34]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. Albert Einstein2. The Power of Now: https://bit.ly/3KRdHBm3. The Culture Map: https://bit.ly/4gRlRWl4. Meditations Marcus Aurelius: https://bit.ly/3IOZJiM5. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience: https://bit.ly/48eUG5DKeep In Touch with Craig Thielen:X: https://x.com/craigthielenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigthielen/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/craigthielenPodcast: https://trissential.com/1-percent-better-podcast/—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Oct 2, 2025 • 1h 7min

Mindset Coach Reveals How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs w/ Jenny Harkleroad (E134)

We often feel unhappy, unfulfilled, stressed, or trapped in pain, and many times this stems from limiting beliefs that quietly shape our thoughts, decisions, and sense of self. Many of these beliefs are formed early in life and become so ingrained that we’re often unaware of them, yet they have the power to hold us back and derail our lives.The empowering truth is that by transforming our mindset, we can unlock solutions and take full control of our lives. In this episode, Brian Bogert sits down with Jenny Harkleroad, a Mindset Coach, keynote speaker, author, and creator of the LEAP Transformation App.Jenny shares her powerful journey of transformation, revealing how her own limiting beliefs shaped her life and held her back from asking for help. She opens up about the experiences that created these beliefs, how they manifested in her life, and how she ultimately broke free from them.From struggling with chronic pain that began in childhood to overcoming marriage challenges, she shares the mindset shifts and strategies that allowed her to become pain-free and reclaim control over her life.Jenny also shares practical insights on how the subconscious mind influences our behaviors and decisions. She explains how she helps people who feel stuck or without solutions by shifting their mindset and introduces her LEAP Transformation® App, which provides accessible and affordable support to people worldwide.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[01:58] Who is Jenny Harkleroad?[03:15] Finding solutions[10:24] Limiting Beliefs[13:14] Breaking her back[20:54] Chronic pain[28:21] Becoming Pain-Free[36:39] Marriage[50:59] Subconscious mind[53:09] Helping others[53:51] AppKey Takeaways:  • When you have tension in your mind, it causes tension in your body. ~Jenny Harkleroad [14:41]• Go-getters and overachievers often struggle with physical pain because of the heavy pressure they put on themselves to succeed. That constant pressure creates tension in the mind, which in turn causes tension in the body. ~Jenny Harkleroad [21:14]• “The unavoidable precursor to change is acceptance.” ~Brian Bogert [31:34]• Until you accept the current state of things, you cannot alter them. ~Brian Bogert [31:37]• It’s the hard things in life that drive real growth. ~Jenny Harkleroad [45:50]• Our subconscious is a million times more powerful than our conscious mind and controls us about 95% of the time. ~Jenny Harkleroad [51:06]• “What you think about is what you bring about, and what you focus on expands.” ~Jenny Harkleroad [52:59]• If you want to improve anything, you must put in the effort. ~Jenny Harkleroad [01:04:50]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. LEAP Transformation® App: https://www.leaptransformationmethod.com/2. The COLOR CODE: https://bit.ly/46OdaHVKeep In Touch with Jenny Harkleroad:Website: https://balancedyou.org/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/balancedyouLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyharkleroad/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyharkleroad/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BalancedYouByJenny/—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Sep 25, 2025 • 58min

Invest in Your Brain Health to Boost Memory Focus and Mood w/ Eric Collett (E133)

Your brain is your most valuable asset, yet it’s often overlooked in daily health routines. Investing in your brain health is one of the most important steps you can take to maximize your ability to perform, retain information, and connect with others in ways that truly matter.Joining us today is Eric Collett, a Brain Health Educator, Dementia Care Expert, and Founder of A Mind For All Seasons, a company committed to improving cognitive and mental health.Eric shares insights into the core values that drive learning and takes us through his personal journey into brain health. He also explores how activating curiosity by asking the right questions can create a pathway to learning and meaningful personal growth.In addition, he breaks down the 5 principles of effective interaction and shares actionable brain health tips you can start using today to improve memory, focus, and overall brain function.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[00:17] Intro[06:55] Who is Eric Collett?[08:38] Core learning values[16:24] Journey into brain health[22:21] Right questions[27:44] 5 Principles of interaction[52:36] Brain health tipsKey Takeaways:• “Listening is, by far, the most active thing any of us can do as humans.” ~Eric Collett [05:06]• The difference between living life by design and living by default is choosing to be intentional in how you approach life. ~Eric Collett [22:57]• You are only as good as the questions you ask. ~Brian Bogert [24:50]• It’s easier to remember things when you use an acronym. ~Eric Collett [27:41]• No one is ever crushed under the burden of a single day; it is only when regret about yesterday and fear of tomorrow are piled on top that today becomes unmanageable.” ~Eric Collett [32:36]• People with Alzheimer’s not only lose short-term memory, but they also progressively lose long-term memory. ~Eric Collett [39:56]• Life history is our most important tool because it gives us two powerful things: context and identity. ~Eric Collett [47:48]• “Tact is the ability to describe others as they see themselves.” ~Abraham Lincoln [48:15]• “First seek to understand, then to be understood.” ~Stephen Covey [49:22]• “Sleep is when the brain takes out the trash.” ~Eric Collett [54:42]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. Elon Musk2. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity: https://bit.ly/41WY0i3. To take a FREE brain energy assessment, go to https://amindforallseasons.com/energy Keep In Touch with Eric Collett:Website: https://amindforallseasons.com/Instagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/ericdcollett/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amindforallseasons/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amindforallseasonsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amindforallseasonsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/a-mind-for-all-seasons/X: https://x.com/EricDCollett TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ericdcollett  —Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Sep 18, 2025 • 1h 10min

How To Live Purposely: Insights from The Oracle on Purpose w/ Lia Dunlap (E132)

In this inspiring conversation, Lia Dunlap, known as the ‘Oracle on Purpose’, shares her journey from early childhood trauma and adoption to discovering her true purpose. As an intuitive business coach with over 28 years of experience helping visionary women founders and CEOs build wealth without burnout, she shares how embracing her abilities allowed her to overcome challenges and shine a light into humanity.Lia dives into the concept of humanity, sharing that the essence of being human is believing we are here on purpose and embracing that truth without fear. She also opens up about her childhood backstory, including her experiences navigating sexual abuse, and shares how these challenges shaped her perspective on life.Additionally, Lia reveals how she earned her nickname, “The Oracle on Purpose,” and what it signifies in her work. She also shares the source of her discernment and reflects on her extraordinary experience of walking on fire three times, a powerful testament to her courage, resilience, and commitment to fully embracing her purpose.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[03:19] Who is Lia Dunlap?[05:25] Humanity[09:25] Allowing Yourself[13:02] Childhood Backstory[21:28] Navigating sexual abuse[27:27] Demystifying Universal Truths[31:12] The Oracle on Purpose[44:14] Greatest Challenge[53:09] Discernment[01:05:03] Connect with Lia[01:05:35] Walking on FireKey Takeaways:  • “Humanity will always win.” ~Lia Dunlap [07:22]• The essence of being human is believing we are here purposefully. ~Lia Dunlap [10:23]• Let go and let God. ~Lia Dunlap [16:03]• “Shame is the ultimate wolf in sheep’s clothing” ~Brian Bogert [16:28]• “It’s often the things left unsaid, the things left undone, that eat at us the most.” ~Brian Bogert [52:28]• “If we trust ourselves and trust each other, humanity would be easier.” ~Brian Bogert [01:07:55]Keep In Touch with Lia Dunlap:Website: https://www.oracleonpurpose.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachliadunlapFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachLiaDunlapInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachliadunlapYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8IOgSSGVVNG2usEJE07X8g—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Sep 11, 2025 • 1h 4min

How to Find Your True Path and Live Your Purpose w/ Lasada Pippen (E131)

Societal expectations and external pressures often push us down paths that don’t align with who we truly are, leaving us feeling unfulfilled and underutilizing our abilities. Discovering your true path is about finding where your passions, strengths, and purpose align.In this insightful episode, Brian Bogert speaks with Lasada Pippen, a former computer engineer who spent over a decade in tech before pivoting to keynote speaking and communications coaching. Lasada shares his journey into computer engineering, how he discovered his true path, and the natural abilities that enable him to communicate and inspire others.Lasada also dives into what it truly means to be better and shares the areas he continues to focus on. Additionally, he reflects on how his view of success has evolved over time and discusses the defining moments that led him to transition into speaking and coaching.Finally, Lasada highlights what sets him apart as a speaker and offers actionable guidance on how to identify your purpose.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[01:56] Who is Lasada Pippen?[02:42] Being better[11:12] Journey into Computer Engineering[14:16] Redefining Success[16:34] Discovering your true path[22:13] Uncovering our natural abilities[32:41] Transition to Speaking & Coaching[50:17] What sets him apart[54:33] Identifying your purpose[59:51] Final remarksKey Takeaways:• Being better is measured by the improvements you make. ~Lasada Pippen [02:44]• “Success is all about working in your ultimate purpose and living out that purpose.” ~Lasada Pippen [15:11]• You must have the courage and confidence to step into the full potential of who you are. ~Lasada Pippen [24:10]• Challenges strengthen our resilience and fuel our perseverance. ~Lasada Pippen [39:42]• Anxiety and anticipation show up in the body in the same way. ~Brian Bogert [46:42]• “You don’t find your purpose; your purpose finds you.” ~Brian Bogert [54:19]• Failing doesn’t make you a failure. ~Lasada Pippen [57:11]• “PUSH means: Persevere Until Success Happens.” ~Lasada Pippen [01:01:10]• It’s not over until you win. ~Lasada Pippen [01:01:20]• Just because a chapter in your book ends, it doesn’t mean your story is over. ~Lasada Pippen [01:01:23]• “The difference between success and complete failure is giving yourself one last chance.” ~Brian Bogert [01:01:51]Keep In Touch with Lasada Pippen:Website: https://www.lasadapippen.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LasadaPippenInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lasadapippen/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lasada-pippen-keynote/—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Sep 4, 2025 • 27min

From Idea to Published in 13 Days w/ Brian Bogert (E130)

Creativity can emerge from our most vulnerable moments. When we choose to face emotion rather than suppress it, we often uncover new ways to heal, connect, and create.In this powerful solo episode, Brian Bogert shares the emotional story behind his first children’s book, The Cat Who Watched the Wind. Written in just 13 days, the book began as a way to process the near loss of his family’s cat, Fury. What followed was an unexpected journey of grief, love, legacy, and synchronicity.Brian walks through how the book came to life, the surprising role artificial intelligence played in the illustration process, and the meaningful timing of its release. This story is both personal and universal, and it offers a touching reminder of how presence and creativity can transform pain into purpose.Brian also provides, for the first ever, A live reading of The Cat Who Watched the Wind.Grab your copy of The Cat Who Watched the Wind here: https://www.amazon.com/Cat-Who-Watched-Wind/dp/B0FLWSFRHV Timestamps:[00:00] Intro[01:30] Inspiration behind the book[03:57] Facing the fear of losing a beloved pet[05:24] Writing through grief and emotion[07:48] Unexpected synchronicity with a guest author[09:16] Leveraging AI with intentionality[10:42] Learning to format and publish a children's book[11:38] Publishing on an anniversary[13:03] The cat’s recovery and honoring his legacy[25:00] Final thoughts on processing, preparing, and creatingKey Takeaways:  • "I allowed myself to write. I allowed myself to cry. I allowed myself to process and prepare."• "The point of the book was not to grieve our cat. The point of the book was to process and prepare for the time that our cat would no longer be with us."• "The release of crying is so powerful... it’s almost like I wish I could cry, but tears just don’t materialize. In this case, they just flowed."• "You know how to listen to the quiet and how to hear what the world is really saying."• "I teach artificial intelligence through the lens of awareness and intentionality…without those, AI doesn’t work for us."• "The best thing you can do for someone you love is to remember those moments and to share them."• "Anything that you allow, that you're passionate about, that you connect to, can be possible."—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Aug 28, 2025 • 1h 9min

The Journey to Freedom and The Truth About Expectations w/ Dr. Brian E. Arnold (E129)

The expectations others place on us about who we should be or what we should do can shape our choices and limit our potential. Letting go of these expectations is challenging, but doing so unlocks the freedom to step fully into our potential.Dr. Brian E. Arnold’s journey is a powerful example of this truth. From starting his academic journey in special education to earning a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, his story is one of defying expectations and rewriting what is possible.In this conversation, Dr. Brian explains how leaning into his strengths, with the support of a coach, helped him unlock his potential. He takes us through his inspiring journey from athlete to professor and discusses the role his marriage has played in shaping his life and career.As the episode unfolds, Dr. Brian reflects on how learning to trust himself and others has transformed his communication, leadership, and relationships. He also explores the deeper connection between trust and expectations.Finally, Dr. Brian introduces his initiative, Journey to Freedom, a transformative program designed exclusively for Black Men seeking to unlock their full potential and achieve their best lives.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer[02:31] Who is Dr. Brian?[05:22] Expectations[15:34] Tap into your superpower[28:12] Athlete to Professor[34:15] Marriage[40:59] Trust[45:55] Trust & Expectations[52:58] Journey to Freedom[01:04:14] Biggest challenge[01:06:59] Closing messageKey Takeaways:  • Letting go of expectations is not only one of the most challenging things to do, but also one of the most freeing when we succeed. ~Brian Bogert [05:08]• Expectations are the beliefs others impose on us about who we should be or what we should do. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [05:33]• We are born as blank slates, and the world around us shapes who we become. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [06:20]• You cannot move forward or thrive until you embrace who you truly are. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [15:17]• Trust is a skill you can build over time. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [41:32]• The most powerful force in the universe is being congruent with the identity you give yourself. ~Tony Robbins [42:19]• Trust is developed through consistent actions. ~Brian Bogert [45:04]• Freedom is knowing you don’t need to know everything to do everything. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [55:21]• We are products of the people we experience as we grow up and go through life. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [58:59]• You can become the person you were meant to be if you let go of the expectations others place on you. ~Dr. Brian E. Arnold [01:07:00]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. Tony RobbinsKeep In Touch with Dr. Brian E Arnold:Website: https://www.brianearnold.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianearnold/Facebook-: https://www.facebook.com/brianearnoldYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@brianearnold1Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbrianearnoldTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brianearnold1Books: https://www.brianearnold.com/booksPodcast: http://journeytofreedompodcast.us/—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898
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Aug 21, 2025 • 56min

Nobody Cares Until You Do! The TRUTH About Accountability w/ Robert J Hunt (E128)

Accountability is often mistaken for a threat, but in reality, it is a tool that empowers personal growth and unlocks freedom. Although we are not born with accountability, it can be learned, and sometimes we encounter moments that reveal where we have not held ourselves accountable.Today, we’re joined by Robert J. Hunt, famously known as ‘The Accountability Dude,’ an executive coach and founder of REF Dallas. Robert is also the co-author of Nobody Cares (Until You Do), a book that explores the shift from a victim mindset to accountability and personal ownership.Robert discusses how his relationship with accountability has evolved and the pivotal moment that ignited his accountability journey. He also shares his experience of starting over at 55 and reinventing himself, proving that it is never too late to embrace change.Robert explores the key insights from his book, Nobody Cares (Until You Do), and introduces his Satisfaction Assessment, a practical tool designed to help you gain awareness. He also addresses the common misconception about accountability and offers guidance for leaders looking to build accountability within their teams.Timestamps:[00:00] Trailer [01:42] Who is Robert J Hunt?[05:42] Accountability[09:53] The pivotal moment[15:51] Reinvention at 55[18:28] ‘Nobody Cares Until You Do’[21:26] Awareness[27:35] Fatherhood lessons[39:45] Misconceptions[45:25] Leadership & Accountability[53:02] Closing thoughtKey Takeaways:  • You learn the most during the hardest times. ~Robert J Hunt [09:12]• “Accountability requires vulnerability.” ~Robert J Hunt [16:16]• “The unavoidable precursor to change is acceptance.” ~Brian Bogert [20:42]• “Until you accept the current state of things, you cannot alter them.” ~Brian Bogert [20:45]• Growth and opportunity go out the window the moment shame and blame exist. ~Brian Bogert [37:10]• Accountability means owning it. ~Robert J Hunt [40:08]• As a leader, you should model accountability through your behavior. ~Robert J Hunt [45:29]People Mentioned and Other Resources:1. Nobody Cares (Until You Do): https://nobodycaresbook.com/2. Satisfaction Assessment: https://refdallas.com/satisfaction-assessment/Keep In Touch with Robert J Hunt:Website: https://refdallas.com/Book: https://nobodycaresbook.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/roberthuntceo/Satisfaction Assessment: https://refdallas.com/satisfaction-assessment/—Follow Brian Bogert…Website: https://brianbogert.com/Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

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