Live Into Your Brilliance

In this second part of their exploration, Al & Bilos take the conversation deeper, focusing on what’s on offer when we let go of resistance, drop our stories, and step into the present moment. Building on the bridge metaphor from Part 1, they discuss the remarkable freedom that comes from aligning with our truth, even amidst life’s challenges. While acknowledging that life will always present its highs and lows, they emphasize how our experience of these moments transforms when we stop resisting what is and operate from a place of alignment. With practical insights and personal reflections, this episode is a powerful invitation to put down the bags, do the reps, and discover what’s on the other side of the bridge."Resistance to what is keeps us stuck. Letting go of the story frees us to cross the bridge and experience everything life has to offer."Highlights:The Nature of Resistance: Exploring how resistance arises from our attachment to stories about how life should be, and how letting go creates space for alignment and clarity.Truth over Control: Al and Bilos share how aligning with truth—not control—allows for a richer, more peaceful experience of life, even in difficult times.Doing the Reps: Practical steps to notice resistance, let go of stories, and take simple, aligned actions that build confidence in the process.Trust Brilliance and Cross that Bridge!Produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

In this first part of a two-part exploration, we explore the transformative power of letting go of the stories we carry—the narratives about who we think we are, who we believe we need to be, and what we think life should look like. These stories, often rooted in fear and ego, can weigh us down and prevent us from experiencing true freedom. Through personal reflections and vivid metaphors, they explore what happens when we loosen our grip on these narratives and step into the present moment. The conversation shines a light on the liberation and peace that comes from living without attachment to our stories, while also acknowledging the challenges and discomfort of this process."Everything is a story. But when you let go of the stories that no longer serve you, you start to experience yourself—and that’s where true freedom lies."Highlights:The Weight of Our Stories: Why we cling to narratives about who we are and how they shape our identity, ambitions, and relationships. Al and Bilos discuss how these stories can serve us initially but often outstay their welcome, creating exhaustion and limiting our freedom.The Practice of Letting Go: From small moments of discomfort to life-altering realizations, the hosts share insights on what it means to release the grip of our stories. Using powerful metaphors—like the "bags" we carry—they illustrate how shedding these stories can lead to a lighter, freer experience of life.Freedom on the Other Side: Letting go doesn’t mean losing ambition or direction—it means experiencing life with greater peace and presence. Al and Bilos explore the fear of letting go and the magic that’s revealed when we step into the unknown, beyond the narratives we hold so tightly.Until next time, keep living into your brilliance!produced in partnership with www.podlad.com

Today, we dive into the messy truth about practice—what it really means, why it matters, and how our stories get in the way. They unpack the liberating realization that there’s no external payoff for showing up in alignment and explore the joy of returning to your "home base." Through personal reflections and candid moments, this episode offers practical wisdom for navigating life with more presence and authenticity.Highlights:Letting Go of the Story: How dropping the stories we cling to—about ourselves, others, and life—frees us to live more fully.The Power of Choice: Why the space between stimulus and response is where your true freedom lies.Listening to Yourself: The joy and simplicity of aligning with your truth in the moment, even when it feels uncomfortable.Actionable Takeaways:Pause and Reflect: When you feel reactive, take a sacred pause and ask yourself, “What’s the story here?”Release the Weight: Experiment with letting go of a story you’ve been carrying and notice how it feels to carry less.Trust the Process: Take a step toward your knowing, even if there’s no clear outcome—it’s about the practice, not the payoff.Stay Brilliant, Stay Curious, and Keep Practicing!produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

In this episode, Al and Bilos welcome John Abbott, CEO of the Satellite Applications Catapult, to explore what it really means to create our experience of life. From his pivotal role at Mimecast to shaping the future of the UK space sector, John brings a unique perspective on leadership, innovation, and the myths we tell ourselves about control.Together, they unpack:Why we overestimate our ability to control external outcomes.The underestimated power of creating our experience from within.The role of practice and "sacred pauses" in showing up with integrity, even in high-stakes environments.How to move from fear-driven decisions to leading with authenticity and presence.What it takes to step into the person you want to be—at work, at home, and everywhere in between.John’s reflections on leadership, the power of choice, and dancing in the metaphorical rain will leave you inspired to rethink where you put your energy and attention.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to lead with courage, clarity, and connection. Tune in and discover how to turn up the dial on what truly matters.Produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Bilos courageously shares the story of his wife Vanessa’s recent breast cancer diagnosis, their journey through treatment, and the profound insights they’ve gained along the way.This heartfelt conversation touches on:The Power of Choice: How our response to life’s challenges shapes our experience, growth, and freedom.Surrendering to the Present: Why letting go of control and leaning into life’s unfolding can transform even the most difficult moments.Human Connection: The unexpected joy and strength found in community and shared vulnerability.Living Fully: How facing life’s curveballs can inspire us to embrace the present moment with more intention and authenticity.From creating a WhatsApp group filled with love and laughter to making conscious choices in the midst of uncertainty, Bilos’ reflections offer a moving reminder of the resilience of the human spirit.Bumper Sticker for Life:"Our choice dictates our growth and our freedom."This conversation is a testament to the power of choice, the beauty of surrender, and the richness of human connection. It’s a must-listen for anyone navigating challenges, big or small, and seeking a deeper understanding of how to live fully, no matter what life brings.🎧 Join us for this moving and unforgettable exploration of life, love, and the choices that shape us.Resources Mentioned:Viktor Frankl’s concept of choice between stimulus and response (Man’s Search for Meaning).Produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

“Nobody cares. Not in the way you think, anyway. We’re so wrapped up in our own insecurities, projecting them onto the world, and here’s the truth: the world’s just not watching you the way you think it is.” – Liz MorrellIn this powerful episode, we’re joined by Liz Morrell, a Life Celebrant who has guided over 3,000 families through loss, helping them see beauty in the darkest of times. Through her stories, Liz offers a rare, honest glimpse into how facing death can actually teach us how to live. Liz dives deep into the transformative potential of grief, the illusion of judgement, and the radical healing of simply letting go.Key Takeaways:The Truth About Judgment: Discover why most people aren't paying as much attention to you as you think. The insight? You’re free to let go of that fear and live authentically.What’s Coming Won’t Miss You: Liz shares a profound life lesson—whatever challenges or blessings are meant for you will find their way. Surrendering to this truth can be incredibly liberating.Grief as a Teacher: Instead of running from pain, Liz explains the value of sitting with it. In allowing ourselves to truly feel grief, we find clarity, growth, and even joy on the other side.The Power of Presence: Learn why stepping away from the “noise” of daily life—even if it’s just for a few moments—can help you reconnect with what’s truly important.Embracing Light and Dark: Liz has made peace with life’s duality, understanding that both joy and sorrow hold immense value. Her wisdom on navigating both ends of the spectrum without resistance is transformative.Why Listen? If you’re ready to confront what truly matters in life and break free from self-imposed illusions, this episode offers an unapologetically real conversation that will challenge and inspire you to live with more courage, depth, and presence.In this, Liz references two notable works:On Death and Dying by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross: This seminal book introduces the five stages of grief and offers profound insights into the experiences of the dying and their caregivers.The Afterlife of Billy Fingers by Annie Kagan: A compelling narrative where the author recounts her communications with her deceased brother, exploring themes of life after death and spiritual connection.Connect with Liz: info@lizmorrell.co.ukproduced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

“You’re never going to find peace in the world outside—because it’s right here, within. The real journey is in breaking free from the relentless need to ‘do’ and learning to just ‘be.’”In this eye-opening conversation, we sit down with Harry Verma, founder of Innate Experiences, who challenges our deepest assumptions about purpose, success, and fulfilment. Fresh off a life-changing journey that took him from a fast-paced startup world to transformative ayahuasca ceremonies, Harry reveals how everything we chase in the outside world—status, accomplishments, even happiness—can only be truly found within.Tune in to learn:The Myth of Busyness: Why ‘doing more’ is the ultimate trap—and how the world’s most successful people are often the ones who know when to stop.Letting Go of Control: Hear Harry’s raw account of confronting his own ego and realising that control is an illusion—one that holds us back from true joy and fulfilment.The Real Power of ‘Doing Less’: Discover why doing one intentional, joy-filled thing each day can reset your entire mindset and enhance your sense of peace, productivity, and presence.Breaking Free from Outside Validation: Why living for external approval only leaves you feeling empty—and the liberating shift of finding validation within yourself.The Middle Path Between Ambition and Inner Peace: Harry’s approach to merging ancient wisdom with modern success, creating a “middle path” where you don’t have to compromise to live fully and authentically.Why Listen? If you've ever felt trapped in the endless cycle of striving and achievement, this episode will change how you view success, fulfilment, and the very purpose of life.You can connect with Harry and learn more about Innate Experiences here:https://www.instagram.com/innate_experiences/https://www.innate.global/Podcast produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com

In today’s episode, we dive into the real roots of overwhelm and productivity—and it’s not just about how much you have to do. Mark "Bilos" Bilby shares a simple story about stacking a woodpile that reveals powerful insights on moving through life’s demands without stress. We unpack the illusions around “getting things done,” challenge the myths that we create about tasks being “hard” or “shitty,” and offer a grounded approach to keep you calm, present, and in control.Join us as we explore:How to turn any task—no matter how mundane—into a source of insight and enjoyment.Why pausing to choose your approach can be the key to overcoming overwhelm.The surprising power in breaking down large tasks and respecting your natural rhythm.Our biggest takeaway: Life doesn’t have to feel like an elephant you need to conquer.Whether it’s a pile of wood, an endless to-do list, or a goal you’re chasing, this episode will help you find space, ease, and maybe even a little joy in the process.Tune in and discover why sometimes, the simplest acts are our best teachers.This podcast is produced in partnership with Podlad.com

Are you gripping the wheel too tight? Maybe it’s time to get out of your own way and let the magic happen. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a week of big revelations from our CEO gathering in New Hampshire. It was a two-day experience where seven founders gathered to explore themselves, their businesses, and what it really means to let go of control.Fresh off our time together in New England, we’re exploring how the universe often works best when we’re not trying to orchestrate every outcome. From the awe of autumn in New England to the insights that emerged by just being there, it was an event that felt crafted by something greater than us—and this episode is all about the power of stepping back and letting life do the heavy lifting.We uncover:Why the best things often happen when we leave space for them.The “magic carpet ride” principle—letting go of the hamster wheel approach to goals and allowing your true self to lead.Why practicing self-awareness and choice in each moment is where real transformation begins.How the unfolding of events (from small conversations to big insights) can bring clarity we can’t create by force.Why trusting yourself to be yourself is the ultimate practice.Quote of the Episode: “You are life, and life is practice.”If you’re craving more ease and flow in your life, tune in for a refreshing take on how to create it—not by doing more but by getting out of your own way. Because when you leave space for the universe to step in, magic really does happen.This podcast is produced in partnership with Podlad.com

Do you actually want to lead, or are you just playing the role? That’s the hard question we’re tackling in today’s episode. Al & Bilos dive into what it really means to step into leadership—and why so many people find themselves stuck between the idea of leading and the reality of it.We’re talking bonsai trees, Vince Lombardi, and the brutal truth that leaders aren’t born—they’re made. But here’s the kicker: it’s not just about having a leadership title. It’s about the effort you’re willing to put in to nurture and grow the people around you. Because wanting a beautiful garden doesn’t make you a gardener. You’ve got to do the work. And if you don’t want to, maybe it’s time to admit you’re not a gardener at all—and that could be the most freeing thing you ever do.In this episode, we uncover:The difference between holding a leadership position and actually wanting to lead.The danger of being in a leadership role without the desire or commitment to grow into it.Why self-awareness and honesty are the real keys to success—in leadership and in life.How admitting you’re not a leader (or gardener) might be the most freeing thing you ever do.Quote of the Episode:"If your plants are dying, it’s not the plants’ problem—it’s the gardener’s problem."This episode is about more than leadership—it’s about getting real with yourself about what you actually want. Whether you’re leading a business, a team, or simply navigating your own life, it all comes down to this: are you truly in, or are you just pretending?If you’ve ever felt conflicted about your role as a leader or questioned your commitment to the path you’re on, this episode is for you. We’re here to blow up the illusions and get down to what really matters—aligning with your true desire.Tune in, and as always—live into your brilliance.Produced in partnership with http://www.podlad.com