

Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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Oct 3, 2023 • 19min
Staying in a Dead Marriage for the Kids - Jayson Gaddis - 467
Jayson Gaddis discusses staying in a dead marriage for the kids. They explore the effects on children, navigating intimacy and co-parenting after divorce, the impact of struggling relationships on children, and the pros and cons of staying in a loveless marriage for the kids.

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Sep 26, 2023 • 51min
The Surprising Difference Between Divorced People and Married People - Mark Manson - #466
Author Mark Manson discusses the differences between divorced and married people, emphasizing the importance of self-improvement and self-awareness in relationships. They cover common issues, healthy boundaries, challenges in marriage, and the value of friendship outside of relationships. The podcast also explores the significance of understanding and empathy, both in personal growth and partnership.

Sep 19, 2023 • 24min
The Misattuned Camper & Not Getting The Impact of Our Behavior on Others - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 465
Join Jayson Gaddis and Ellen Boeder as they share their backpacking adventure in Colorado. Discover thought-provoking insights on human interactions, relationships, and the delicate balance between self-expression and consideration for others. Reflect on the impact of your actions and your relationship to others.

Sep 12, 2023 • 1h 8min
Human Development, Spiritual Growth, & Consciousness - Mark Divine - 464
Mark Divine, a Navy Seal and leader, discusses the stages of human development, emphasizing the importance of maturing, resolving emotional issues, and achieving full integration as individuals. They cover diverse aspects, from self-connection to various spiritual paths, authentic leadership, and simplifying life for a more meaningful existence. Join Jayson and Mark for a journey into personal evolution and a reflection on the impact of technology on relationships.

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Sep 5, 2023 • 31min
Thoughts About Your Human Journey - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 463
Relationship expert Jayson Gaddis and transformation coach Ellen Boeder discuss using relationships as a path to self-discovery. They explore conflict management, the importance of embracing discomfort, and how relationships serve as a development path. They also touch on Buddhism's perspective on ending suffering and provide action steps for personal growth.

Aug 29, 2023 • 39min
A Complete Guide to Finding a Good Coach or Therapist - Jayson Gaddis - 462
In this episode, Jayson discusses the importance of finding the right coach or therapist. He also explains why you should identify your readiness for change and clarify your specific problem before seeking help. Learn why you should prioritize practitioners who are not only trained in the area you’re targeting but also actively involved in their own personal growth. Find out how to spot the real gems among personal recommendations, endorsements, and online reviews. If money is an issue, Jayson has a great question to ask. Timestamps: 1:41 - Questions you need to ask as a client 11:17 - Couples work or individual work? 13:26 - Hire a specialist 15:57 - Find a therapist who is doing the work 17:41 - Results matter 20:16 - Good therapists and coaches get supervision 23:09 - How much personal experience does a coach or therapist need? 29:41 - How much should therapists reveal about their personal lives? 32:23 - Reputation 33:59 - Does paying more equal better therapy? 37:16 - Action step Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Aug 22, 2023 • 32min
The Art and Science of Relationship Coaching - Jayson Gaddis - 461
Uncover the captivating blend of art and science in relationship coaching. Join Jayson as he guides the way, painting a masterpiece of understanding, growth, and authenticity. Discover the science behind lasting happiness and the significance of deep connections for a fulfilling life. It's not just about belonging; it's about being truly known and loved. Step into a transformative adventure, mastering the art and science of coaching. Embrace your evolution, becoming a beacon of connection in a world craving relational leaders. Enroll in Relationship Coach Training now at relationshipschool.com/RCT. Start your transformative journey today, and become a catalyst for thriving, authentic relationships. Timestamps: 0:48 - What is relationship coaching and why is it important? 4:23 - The art of relationship coaching 12:31 - The power of the here and now 16:08 - The science of relationship coaching 17:04 - What we know about human fulfillment and life satisfaction 19:29 - The ACEs study 25:51 - Should you become a relationship coach? Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Aug 15, 2023 • 1h 16min
Your Relationship with Food, Body, Exercise, and Health - Dr. Layne Norton - 460
In our latest episode, Jayson talks with Layne Norton, a distinguished figure in health, fitness, and personal development. Listen to their candid discussion on compassionate communication, setting boundaries, and fostering healthy relationships. Layne's emphasis on breaking free from restrictive food rules and embracing a balanced, joyful relationship with nourishment reflects his dedication to empowering individuals to achieve their health goals. Watch this inspiring episode to learn more and discover how exercise and weightlifting can transform your life, especially after age 40. Timestamps: 0:45 - Introduction 3:33 - How did Layne Norton get into evidence-based fitness and nutrition? 7:37 - Areas to focus on for long-term health 9:55 - How to avoid eating too much 13:05 - How tracking your food intake can help you make better choices 15:35 - How do you measure food? 20:54 - The ACEs study 30:25 - Empathy and accountability 32:40 - How important is doing the inner work in terms of health? 35:10 - How did Layne's experiences with bullying impact his life trajectory 42:45 - Why is exercise so important for people over 40? 51:30 - Layne's thoughts on food rules 1:01:00 - Why is fiber important? 1:07:40 - Just start doing the little things 1:09:55 - Layne's relationship advice for high-school students 1:12:00 - Where can people find Layne? 1:13:10 - Action steps Links: Layne Norton's Website Carbon — Smart Diet Coach Follow Layne Norton on Instagram Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Aug 8, 2023 • 1h 4min
Victim Consciousness and What to Do About It - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 459
Are you ready to break free from the chains of victimhood and embrace empowerment? Join Jayson and Ellen in this episode as they dive deep into the complexities of fault versus responsibility. They also discuss the struggle between victimhood and authorship. Explore empowering perspectives, real-life stories, and learn how to transform challenges into personal growth opportunities. You won't want to miss this as they challenge the norms compassionately, fostering self-reflection and self-discovery without blame. Find out what got Ellen saying "Honey, We Should Have Talked Before You Posted.” Timestamps: 0:53 - Fault vs. responsibility 3:25 - Context 7:00 - Why do people get attached to their victim stance? 16:51 - Finding your part in painful experiences 27:48 - Learning about yourself through painful experiences 32:43 - When to take responsibility 35:23 - Why does resilience vary between people? 43:00 - What you gain by transcending your pain 45:43 - Dealing with victim dynamics as a coach or a therapist 51:20 - How Jayson deals with his victim consciousness 54:09 - Personal development vs. forgiveness 58:58 - Moving from victim to author Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

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Aug 1, 2023 • 1h 28min
A Couple's Vulnerable Story of Falling Apart and Getting Stronger - Tripp & Alyson - 458
Tripp, host of The New Man Podcast, and Alyson, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, share their challenging journey as a couple and how they overcame it. They discuss maintaining a strong connection, learning from conflict, and keeping curiosity alive. They also provide advice for getting through hard times and strategies for revitalizing a sex life after having children.