

Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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Feb 6, 2024 • 1h 7min
Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money - James Ure - 485
Financial expert James Ure joins the podcast to discuss how a family economy can empower children with financial responsibility. Topics include paying for chores, determining allowance amounts, teaching the importance of saving and investing, and implementing a family economy. They also mention the Greenlight app for managing finances and offer advice for high school students. Don't miss this insightful conversation!

Jan 30, 2024 • 41min
Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 484
Jayson and Ellen discuss working with men in coaching and therapy, exploring ways men get stuck and how to recognize men's issues. They touch on the benefits of men's groups, the role of couples' work in helping men, and how to get men to change. The conversation also delves into the comfort level of men with male or female therapists, and the importance of making sure a man is ready to grow.

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Jan 23, 2024 • 1h 6min
How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife - Bruce Tift - 483
Bruce was one of THE pivotal factors in helping me marry my wife before she slammed the door shut on me. Hear that story in this episode and why it’s so common for couples to struggle. Bruce offers a powerful frame for relationship and intimacy and makes the distinction between the developmental work we need to do, and the possibility that we are “already free” in relationship. Check it. Timestamps: 4:29 - Jayson's history with Bruce 7:22 - Dealing with contradictions in relationships 15:11 - The value of separateness 23:04 - The practice of personal responsibility 27:26 - Bruce shares about his marriage 32:37 - How Bruce became a therapist 38:42 - What is a successful relationship? 43:19 - The impact of parenting on Bruce 47:13 - Sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship 55:43 - Personal responsibility 1:01:19 - Bruce's book, Already Free Links: Bruce Tift's Website 10 Agreements of an Indestructible Marriage Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Jan 16, 2024 • 22min
What’s Wrong With Wanting a Healthy Relationship? - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 482
What’s wrong with wanting a healthy relationship? Jayson and Ellen are here to break it down. "Healthy" is a poorly defined concept, which can create nebulous expectations that are impossible to live up to. If you’ve written yourself off because you believe you’re incapable of having healthy relationships, it’s time to level up and start focusing on how you can foster growth-oriented relationships going forward. Tune in to learn how you can set realistic expectations and define the relationship experience that you want. It’s time to plan for reality and aspire for greatness. Timestamps: 4:57 - Defining what “healthy” means 7:09 - Deciding on the relationship experience you want 8:41 - Creating realistic expectations 11:14 - Plan for reality, aspire for greatness 15:00 - Don’t write yourself off 16:49 - Growth oriented relationships 19:17 - Action steps Links: U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850 Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Jan 9, 2024 • 47min
How Menopause Changes You and Your Relationships - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 481
Ellen joins Jayson to discuss menopause and its impact on relationships. What is menopause? Do women in non-western cultures experience menopause differently than women in western cultures? What happens to women’s hormones during menopause? What about hormone replacement therapy? Tune in to hear Jayson and Ellen share their personal experiences surrounding menopause and learn how you can nurture your relationships through the menopausal journey. Timestamps: 3:34 - What is menopause? 7:02 - How does menopause impact relationships? 13:53 - How does culture impact the experience of menopause? 16:50 - Why are resources for menopause scarce? 19:01 - What happens to women’s hormones during menopause? 21:54 - Jayson’s perspective 30:40 - Keeping your partner in mind 37:24 - Resource recommendation 41:51 - HRT Links: Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok

Jan 2, 2024 • 37min
Challenging Sensitive Kids - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 480
Jayson Gaddis and Ellen Boeder discuss practical approaches for nurturing antifragile confidence in sensitive children. They explore the definition of sensitive kids, overprotective parenting, and balancing challenges with emotional support. The episode offers valuable strategies for building resilience and validating children's feelings. Whether you are a parent or interested in understanding parenting dynamics, this discussion empowers you to embrace the uniqueness of sensitive children while fostering strength and confidence.

Dec 26, 2023 • 57min
3 Simple Tips to Optimize Your Health, Snoring, and Breathing - Sachin Patel - 479
Learn about the importance of nose breathing for health, simple tips to reduce snoring, and how to optimize your health with basic lifestyle changes in a fascinating conversation with best-selling author Sachin Patel.

Dec 19, 2023 • 27min
Common Misconceptions About Secure Attachment - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 478
Jayson Gaddis and Ellen Boeder debunk common misconceptions about secure attachment in romantic relationships. They discuss differentiating between infatuation and secure attachment, the timeframe for developing secure attachment, and the challenges faced during the early stages of a divorced couple's relationship. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of personalized relationships and finding a partner who wants the same type of relationship. The podcast also explores the principles of secure functioning relationships, the significance of sensitivity and collaboration, and the role of creativity in maintaining a secure attachment.

Dec 12, 2023 • 1h 18min
Leadership and the Longing to Belong - Jerry Colonna - 477
Jerry Colonna joins Jayson to discuss leadership and the longing to belong. How can parents help get their kids to adulthood? Why is it important for leaders to do the inner work? How can self-awareness help you access your empathy? How can you be more effective as a coach and a leader? Whether you’re a parent, a coach or a leader in some other capacity, there’s plenty to learn from Jerry’s story and his insights. Timestamps: 8:19 - Why is it important for a leader to do the inner work? 12:11 - Accessing empathy through self-awareness 15:52 - How parents can help kids get to adulthood 19:23 - Being effective as a coach 27:54 - Where's the power? 30:27 - Depression in middle-aged men 33:09 - The seductive nature of doing 36:43 - Belonging 40:09 - The family dynamic 42:21 - Feeling alone in a crowd 45:16 - Nurturing true belonging 52:20 - How many corporations are doing the work? 57:16 - Taking a relational position as a leader 59:28 - How important are partners? 1:01:00 - Psychoanalysis 1:06:50 - Leaders need therapy too 1:13:27 - Jerry's advice for highschool kids 1:15:47 - Action step Links: Jerry Colonna - Reunion (reboot.io) FREE Webinar: How To Resolve Conflict & Create Powerful Relationships The End The Struggle With Him Roadmap & Monthly Group Coaching Membership Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Dec 5, 2023 • 14min
7 Signs of the Spiritual Narcissist and How to Know if They Are Truly Healing - Jayson Gaddis - 476
Jayson explores the seven revealing signs of spiritual narcissism and the journey to authentic transformation. Join Jayson for insights into recognizing these behaviors in spiritual narcissists, from lingo mastery to their struggle with attachment work. Learn how to distinguish genuine growth and see when a spiritual seeker becomes an empowered, empathetic individual. Timestamps: 3:57 - Seven signs of the spiritual narcissist 4:42 - Talking the talk without walking the walk 5:54 - Unsuccessful long-term relationships 6:37 - Recreating the family of origin 7:25 - A lack of empathy 8:05 - Fear of attachment 9:19 - Refusing to do the work 10:47 - How do you know if they’re changing? Links: 7 Signs of the Spiritual Narcissist and How to Know if They are Truly Healing 2 Types Of Narcissism & How To Avoid Them - Dr. Stan Tatkin The End The Struggle With Him Roadmap & Monthly Group Coaching Membership Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook