Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Relationship expert Jayson Gaddis and transformation coach Ellen Boeder discuss using relationships as a path to self-discovery. They explore conflict management, the importance of embracing discomfort, and how relationships serve as a development path. They also touch on Buddhism's perspective on ending suffering and provide action steps for personal growth.

In this episode, Jayson discusses the importance of finding the right coach or therapist. He also explains why you should identify your readiness for change and clarify your specific problem before seeking help. Learn why you should prioritize practitioners who are not only trained in the area you’re targeting but also actively involved in their own personal growth. Find out how to spot the real gems among personal recommendations, endorsements, and online reviews. If money is an issue, Jayson has a great question to ask. Timestamps: 1:41 - Questions you need to ask as a client 11:17 - Couples work or individual work? 13:26 - Hire a specialist 15:57 - Find a therapist who is doing the work 17:41 - Results matter 20:16 - Good therapists and coaches get supervision 23:09 - How much personal experience does a coach or therapist need? 29:41 - How much should therapists reveal about their personal lives? 32:23 - Reputation 33:59 - Does paying more equal better therapy? 37:16 - Action step Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Uncover the captivating blend of art and science in relationship coaching. Join Jayson as he guides the way, painting a masterpiece of understanding, growth, and authenticity. Discover the science behind lasting happiness and the significance of deep connections for a fulfilling life. It's not just about belonging; it's about being truly known and loved. Step into a transformative adventure, mastering the art and science of coaching. Embrace your evolution, becoming a beacon of connection in a world craving relational leaders. Enroll in Relationship Coach Training now at relationshipschool.com/RCT. Start your transformative journey today, and become a catalyst for thriving, authentic relationships. Timestamps: 0:48 - What is relationship coaching and why is it important? 4:23 - The art of relationship coaching 12:31 - The power of the here and now 16:08 - The science of relationship coaching 17:04 - What we know about human fulfillment and life satisfaction 19:29 - The ACEs study 25:51 - Should you become a relationship coach? Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

In our latest episode, Jayson talks with Layne Norton, a distinguished figure in health, fitness, and personal development. Listen to their candid discussion on compassionate communication, setting boundaries, and fostering healthy relationships. Layne's emphasis on breaking free from restrictive food rules and embracing a balanced, joyful relationship with nourishment reflects his dedication to empowering individuals to achieve their health goals. Watch this inspiring episode to learn more and discover how exercise and weightlifting can transform your life, especially after age 40. Timestamps: 0:45 - Introduction 3:33 - How did Layne Norton get into evidence-based fitness and nutrition? 7:37 - Areas to focus on for long-term health 9:55 - How to avoid eating too much 13:05 - How tracking your food intake can help you make better choices 15:35 - How do you measure food? 20:54 - The ACEs study 30:25 - Empathy and accountability 32:40 - How important is doing the inner work in terms of health? 35:10 - How did Layne's experiences with bullying impact his life trajectory 42:45 - Why is exercise so important for people over 40? 51:30 - Layne's thoughts on food rules 1:01:00 - Why is fiber important? 1:07:40 - Just start doing the little things 1:09:55 - Layne's relationship advice for high-school students 1:12:00 - Where can people find Layne? 1:13:10 - Action steps Links: Layne Norton's Website Carbon — Smart Diet Coach Follow Layne Norton on Instagram Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Are you ready to break free from the chains of victimhood and embrace empowerment? Join Jayson and Ellen in this episode as they dive deep into the complexities of fault versus responsibility. They also discuss the struggle between victimhood and authorship. Explore empowering perspectives, real-life stories, and learn how to transform challenges into personal growth opportunities. You won't want to miss this as they challenge the norms compassionately, fostering self-reflection and self-discovery without blame. Find out what got Ellen saying "Honey, We Should Have Talked Before You Posted.” Timestamps: 0:53 - Fault vs. responsibility 3:25 - Context 7:00 - Why do people get attached to their victim stance? 16:51 - Finding your part in painful experiences 27:48 - Learning about yourself through painful experiences 32:43 - When to take responsibility 35:23 - Why does resilience vary between people? 43:00 - What you gain by transcending your pain 45:43 - Dealing with victim dynamics as a coach or a therapist 51:20 - How Jayson deals with his victim consciousness 54:09 - Personal development vs. forgiveness 58:58 - Moving from victim to author Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Tripp, host of The New Man Podcast, and Alyson, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, share their challenging journey as a couple and how they overcame it. They discuss maintaining a strong connection, learning from conflict, and keeping curiosity alive. They also provide advice for getting through hard times and strategies for revitalizing a sex life after having children.

Relationship expert Jayson Gaddis and therapist Ellen Boeder answer listener questions, offering guidance on tough financial situations, breaking toxic cycles, differentiating between love addiction and being in love, and handling mixed messages. They emphasize the importance of open communication, creating a strong foundation based on mutual respect, and defining relationship goals.

Join Coleman Hughes and Jayson as they discuss the multifaceted aspects of the anti-racist movement, evaluating its progress and identifying areas of improvement. Coleman Hughes is a writer, musician, opinion columnist, and host of the popular podcast Conversations with Coleman. His work focuses on race, public policy, and applied ethics. Through this engaging discussion, they strive to foster meaningful conversations, challenge assumptions, and pave the way for a more inclusive and harmonious society.  You won't want to miss this episode, so tune in now. Timestamps: 4:19 - Who is Coleman Hughes? 5:46 - Jayson's past exploring different viewpoints 8:48 - How does Coleman think about race? 12:29 - Anti-racist thought leaders, past and present 16:09 - The impact of social media 21:25 - Has the modern anti-racist movement made progress? 26:00 - How do we deal with racism? 30:19 - Root causes 36:04 - Tribalism 43:51 - Coleman's advice for white people 50:47 - Affirmative action 53:14 - Positive vs negative life outlooks 56:48 - Coleman's advice for highschool students 58:47 - Action steps Links: colemanhughes.org twitter.com/coldxman youtube.com/@ColemanHughesOfficial Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery Apply to Relationship Coach Training Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Why do people hesitate to speak up in relationships? And how do you speak up  if you are unhappy and unfulfilled in a relationship?  Why do you even need to speak up at that point, right? Many of us fear conflict and believe that speaking up will only make things worse. But let's challenge that notion. Is it a good enough reason to keep your thoughts and feelings hidden? The answer is a resounding no. The truth is, when we don't speak up, resentment builds. We start to feel a boundary being crossed, and instead of addressing it, we silently grow more and more frustrated. This is often seen in long-term partnerships and marriages, where uncomfortable topics are swept under the rug, creating a cage of unspoken truths. In the workplace, not speaking up can have its consequences too. You may find yourself seeking validation from others who share your frustrations, creating triangles that only reinforce your silence. It's time to break free from this cycle. In this episode Jayson and Ellen encourage you to find your voice, to share your truth, and to express your needs and desires. It's about reclaiming your power in relationships and fostering an environment where both partners have equal say, share leadership, and value each other's perspectives. It's time to speak up and create a foundation of trust, understanding, and genuine connection. Join us and discover the freedom and fulfillment that comes with being true to yourself. Timestamps: 2:54 - Why don't people in unhappy relationships speak up? 8:43 - The cost of not speaking up at work 13:47 - The self-betrayal of not speaking up 23:08 - How to start the conversation about holding back 30:00 - Setting boundaries with family 32:52 - Setting boundaries in the workplace 36:21 - Action steps Links: Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook  

Are you tired of feeling unfulfilled in your relationships or like something is missing from your life? Have you achieved success and acquired material possessions, yet still long for a deeper sense of happiness and purpose? It's time to shift your perspective and embrace a new way of approaching relationships. This episode explores Jayson's journey of self-discovery after embracing Buddhism's core teachings. He realized that relationships are about more than just happiness or meeting needs. Instead, they offer a path to wholeness and freedom. It is your relationships that can serve as catalysts for your personal growth and ultimate liberation. Now it's your turn to learn how to become a more authentic version of yourself by joining the transformational adventure. Imagine seeing your relationships as pathways to self-discovery and fulfillment, where every interaction is an opportunity for personal growth. Whether you are single, married, or have children, this episode will help you unlock the hidden potential within your most profound relationships. In addition to giving you an understanding of how life works, it will also teach you how to navigate its challenges gracefully and resiliently. Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and embrace your Relationships As A Personal Development Path? Consider joining Jayson on his upcoming 2-day retreat and unlocking the transformative power of your most important connections. Your hero's journey awaits. To learn more and deepen your understanding of Relationship As A Personal Development Path visit relationshipschool.com/path and stay tuned for more information at the end of our episode. Timestamps: 3:45 - Do you like who you are? 5:08 - Using high stakes relationships as a tool for personal development 8:28 - Religion and other spiritual frameworks 16:52 - Relationship as a spiritual path 21:03 - Action step Links: Live 2-Day Virtual Retreat: Relationship As A Personal Development Path Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Enroll in Relationship Mastery