

Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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Jul 9, 2019 • 29min
High School Students Ask 7 Relationship Questions - EPISODE 243
The Youth Initiative High School in Viroqua, WI had the opportunity to ask Jayson 7 powerful questions. Check them out and listen in to hear his response to these amazing student's questions. SHOWNOTES: (3:10) When or how do you know if you and your partner aren't working and it's not because you're not communicating? When do you know it's time to breakup? (5:55) How do you learn to communicate with your partner (or a casual thing) what you like in an intimate way? Without hurting them or feeling weird about it? (8:50) How can I work on recognizing and strengthening my own boundaries? How can I work on recognizing the boundaries of others? (12:50) How do you know if you're ready for sex? (15:35) What does it mean for an individual to always experience detachment shortly after initiating a romantic relationship? (18:00) The only way I can make my family dynamic work is by completely disregarding what I want and what I need. Focusing instead on what my family member's need. I feel like they are not willing to be vulnerable and thoughtful of others so I feel pressured to be the compassionate, the vulnerable and the one that sacrifices things without expecting anything in return. How can I change that dynamic? (21:59) How to change your relationship with yourself?

Jul 2, 2019 • 37min
3 Women Share About Their Relationship Journey – Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 242
In this episode we explore in depth what our signature course DPIR is all about.... Shownotes: (5:25) Introduction (12:00) Takeaways of being part of DPIR (20:30) Memorable classes and subjects of DPIR (28:30) Why DPIR is worth the investment (30:20) Final thoughts

Jun 27, 2019 • 41min
DPIR- Practicing relationship skills for 9 months - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 241
Do you feel safe and secure? Seen and understood? Supported and loved? On a daily basis? These are questions you NEED to be asking yourself. Unless you’re perfect, your answers will expose the reasons why it’s a really good idea to enroll in the Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships (DPIR)® course. Think about it. Even science proves relationships are the most important link to happiness. Failed relationships with partners, family members and friends are some of the most damaging events in our lives. Divorces and therapists cost a fortune! Don’t just clean up after unsuccessful relationships LEARN TO NAVIGATE THOSE HARDSHIPS IN THE FIRST PLACE! In this episode, Jayson breaks down all the reasons why DPIR® is so worth it and answers your questions about the course.

Jun 16, 2019 • 60min
Relationship Coaches Vulnerably Share Their Story - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 240
What happens when people get together and train and practice relationship skills together for 9 months? This does. Listen in as these 3 people share intimately about their journey, their connection with each other, and how they became relationship coaches. Shownotes: (6:05) Introduction Coaches (9:00) Bryce Bauer (11:45) Leah Gartner (16:50) Steve Srotir (24:10) Experience on DPIR (27:30) Personal traits that helps to be a better coach (39:45) Using what they learned on DPIR to help people (48:30) Experience of learning in a community of likeminded people

Jun 11, 2019 • 14min
4 Elements of Good Relationship Coaching - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 239
Do you know the difference between bad coaching and good coaching? There are four elements of good coaching and you’ll want to know what they are. SHOWNOTES (3:05) About good coaching (4:00) A good coach is a work in progress (5:30) A good coach has people on their life that challenge and supports them (6:30) A good coach wants you to get results (7:30) The client needs to take responsibility and be coachable to get results (9:45) Hiring a good Relationship Coach

Jun 5, 2019 • 14min
3 Elements of Bad Relationship Coaching - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 238
In this 3 part series we explore relationship coaching. First, we start with "bad" relationship coaching and things you need to look out for when hiring a relationship coach. Then we'll dive into "good" relationship coaching. Be sure to pay special attention to what types of coaches not to hire in this one. Shownotes: (2:40) Recap on Series of episodes by men for men. (4:00) 3 Signs you’re dealing with bad relationship coaching. (5:25) Short Training. (7:15) Your coach is a mess in his/her own relationship life and it's not working on it. (7:20) Your coach is not learning constantly about their craft.

May 29, 2019 • 41min
Race, Psychotherapy and Manhood with Paul Williams - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 237
How do men shut down? What is the process? Then, how exactly do they finally open up? What is it that has a man open up and share his feelings, his heart, his truth? In this episode, Paul shares his story of opening up. Eventually he found a career helping others open up. SHOWNOTES (4:35) Introduction Paul Bashea Williams (12:00) About his book dear future wife (14:35) Experiences that causes Paul to close himself (17:35) How asking for help works on different cultural/social groups (21:25) Blocks men deal with on relationships (25:40) How men can open up and be more vulnerable (29:55) Young men being more open to personal development (31:20) Why men can be so hard in relationships

May 22, 2019 • 42min
The 5 Illusions Of Manhood - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 236
Want to hear the reason his first marriage didn't work out? He bought a house, had a successful job, and thought this is what she wanted. But, it didn't work. Hmmm... Michael was lost, confused, and going in the wrong direction. HIs story is similar to a lot of men. Listen in as Michael tells his story and how he turned it all around and finally found "success" in his 2nd marriage. We also cover the 5 myths, or illusions, of manhood. If you need a hit of positivity in the midst of challenge, listen to this one. SHOWNOTES (3:26) Introduction Michael Taylor (8:24) How being emotionally unavailable messed with his first marriage (13:55) The five illusions of manhood (16:54) How to handle conflict in marriage (22:35) Support and intimacy with other men (28:45) Therapy and help from men of different races (34:34) Optimism about racial issues

May 15, 2019 • 51min
Intimacy Between Men with Brandon Alexander - Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 235
In this episode I interview a new friend Brandon Alexander and spontaneously it turned into a pretty intimate conversation about boyhood, manhood, sports and dance, fears, family, love, and connection. I think you'll dig it. - (2:40) Introduction Brandon Alexander - (12:00) Indoctrination of mancode is the same in all races - (17:00) Men in the dancing scene - (21:00) Lessons learned from not dealing with your fears and frustrations - (29:10) About the fear of rejection - (32:50) Choosing between stability / security and Passion / vulnerability - (41:35) About male intimacy

May 7, 2019 • 32min
The Top 5 Things Men Want from Women in Partnership with Ellen Boeder -Relationship School Podcast EPISODE 234
In this episode, you'll find out "The top 5 things men want from women in a relationship." And, the #1 answer, and clear leader by far, may surprise you. No... it's not sex. Listen in to hear what men—who are willing to share their vulnerability—are saying they really want in a relationship. Ellen and I dig into what these brave men are bringing to the relationship conversation and consider what their responses point to. I also mention in the Podcast, Ellen and I are looking into mentoring a couples mastermind. We want to work directly with a group of couples who are serious about taking their relationships to the next level of fulfillment. If you're interested, lets us know! Send us an email at info@relationshipschool.com with the subject line "Yes, I'm interested in the upcoming Couples Mastermind with Jayson & Ellen!" Shownotes: -4:40 What surveyed men said they want from women -9:05 Acceptance -15:30 Support -17:35 Communication -20:30 Presence -26:05 Honesty