Relationship Coaching School Podcast

There's a little known hack out there in the personal growth world about changing patterns, beliefs, and thoughts. Tony Robbins' entire approach is based on it.   It's called NLP.   I've never formally studied it. Which is why I had my friend Matt Brauning on the podcast to discuss how to change your relationship patterns.   Check it out. Shownotes: (2:40) Introduction Matt Brauning (12:45) How “choice” works in our life (16:20) How NLP can help you change your beliefs (23:50) Your struggles can also be your strengths (27:10) Changing problematic patterns (34:30) Dealing with fear in our relationships (44:30) Facing fears of public speaking with NLP (58:40) Final advice (1:03:30) Action Step HELPFUL LINKS Matt Brauning's Website Matt Brauning on Facebook Matt Brauning on Instagram Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships (DPIR) Professional Certification Program https://relationshipschool.com/podcast/change-your-relationship-patterns-with-nlp/

Are there really any risks with falling hard for someone? You know, when you're just in the zone with this person and you lose track of time and space... Even though it feels so amazing (almost addictive), there are major downsides to the "honeymoon period" that are just underneath the surface, your relationship will be at risk unless you know what to look for.   Shownotes: (0:20) Introduction - action step (1:45) Is it possible to fall in love too fast? (4:50) What can you do when you’re In this position? (7:05) Action step

My friend Tami Simon, founder & CEO of Sounds True, shares her insights about the spiritual path and relationships. Her decades of interviewing the world's leading authorities on spirituality, wellness, and relationships shines in this podcast interview. From spiritual gurus to CEO's of major companies, learn why relationships are key to a brighter future.   Shownotes: (4:00) Introduction Tami Simon (11:30) Why Spiritual teachers don’t talk often about relationship (25:20) What has changed about spiritual movements in the last decades? (28:05) Is there more attention on relational development in spiritual teachings now? (29:15) Addressing relational dynamics in work environments (38:15) Relational dynamics between teachers and students (42:30) The paradox between accepting yourself as you are and striving to be a better person (47:35) Tami Simon current projects (53:00) Action Step

Do you ever wish your partner, or ex, would just change? I mean, if only they would, everything would be awesome, right? Not so fast. But... there is one thing you can do under the radar to get them to change. Check it out and listen in...   Shownotes: (2:40) Why trying to change your partner is almost impossible (5:30) What can you do to help others change? (8:15) Action step

It took Kimberly 6.5 years to heal her body and have sex without pain. Her vulnerability and knowledge is huge and she shares it all on this podcast. She did over 800 sessions with women working on their pelvic floor. Gulp. If you find yourself still in a freeze response after being hurt this morning, or from years ago, you'll want to check this out...   Shownotes: (3:00) Introduction Kimberly Johnson (7:00) Why Kimberly Choose to go deeper on Trauma work and Sexological Bodyworkers (15:50) Learning to work with your nervous system in a new way (25:00) Advice for listener to start working with their nervous system (38:25) How the way we grow and develop our nervous system impacts our future (45:15) About the #MeToo movement (52:55) Empowering people through getting to know their own nervous system (58:25) Creating a new world based on communication, respect and connection (1:03:25) Action Step

This week's podcast is all about passive people and walking on eggshells. In fact, there's a fun new term "Fragilizing". Listen to find out what the hell that means... Shownotes: (2:30) What is fragilizing. (5:50) About passive and fragile people. (9:50) Closing applications for DPIR (11:00) Action Step

Renowned for founding Polyvagal Theory, Stephen Porges delves into the crucial role of facial expressions in relationships. He explains how misreading expressions can lead to misunderstandings with partners. The conversation explores the interplay between our nervous systems and emotional connections, highlighting co-regulation and its significance in both personal and public interactions. Additionally, Porges discusses the implications of stress on our bodies and how caring for others can impact our health and relationships.

In this episode we explore your confidence. Why is it more attractive than looks? Or is it? Listen in as we quickly explore this terrain and listen for the challenge at the end. Shownotes: (0:40) Open applications for DPIR Program (9 month training) (3:30) What is confidence (5:10) Why confidence is more attractive than looks (7:50) Action step   https://relationshipschool.com/podcast/why-confidence-is-more-attractive-than-looks-relationship-school-podcast-episode-246/

For the 3rd time, we bring on polymath and human behavior master Dr. John Demartini. In this episode you're going to be confronted and learn a TON! Dig in and let us know what you learned.   Shownotes: (3:50) Introduction Dr John Demartini (5:30) The biggest human problem according to Dr John Demartini (7:40) Planning on money and relationships (12:05) Investing money in yourself instead of investing somewhere else (18:55) Saving 10% of your income (20:40) Why opposites attract (31:05) Physiological effect of negative self-talk (33:50) Social media and auto immune disorders and (37:35) Psychological ways to heal your gut (39:25) Why we repeat painful patterns (41:50) How the “Healer” type of people can get out of that perspective (43:50) How waking up and evolving can set you apart from others (51:20) Relationships where women assume the role of a mother and a maid (1:04:10) About delegating tasks (1:05:20) Final thoughts (1:06:50) Action step

Do you ever wonder why your children trigger you? What if parenting was designed to get you to grow up and become more fully yourself. In this enlightening interview my guest Dr. Shafali sheds light on her own journey as a mother and how parents have a big choice how they raise their children. SHOWNOTES: (4:40) Introduction Dr Shefali. (10:00) Learning not to give. (12:33) About parenting and raising kids. (16:30) The process of breaking out of the feeling of unworthiness. (18:15) Parents dealing with defiant children. (22:25) Shefali’s overall take on parenting. (25:25) About self-growth. (28:15) Dr Shefali’s lessons learned about herself while parenting. (34:40) Should parents stay married because of their children. (37:40) Why problems with masculinity are related with how boys are raised. (43:00) Action step.