
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Nov 24, 2021 • 1h 1min
No BS With Nicholas Gonzalez
In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez.
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Nov 22, 2021 • 38min
It's Not Me, It's You: Love and Money
Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
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Nov 17, 2021 • 13min
How To Heal A Broken Heart
In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Nov 15, 2021 • 37min
It's Not Me, It's You: The Relationship Dance
So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
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Nov 10, 2021 • 20min
The Blindsided Break Up
In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Nov 8, 2021 • 35min
It's Not Me, It's You: Rewiring Through Love
In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time.
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Nov 5, 2021 • 13min
Destroy Your Default
In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Nov 1, 2021 • 38min
It's Not Me, It's You: Our Love Lessons
In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other.
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Oct 25, 2021 • 39min
It's Not Me, It's You: Reflections 2020
In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come.
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Oct 22, 2021 • 15min
I Don't Know Where To Start
In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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